I'd Rather Be A Loner.

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

Yea, I understand. It's kinda hard to socialize out there. But you can never want be alone for a while. You'll miss that experience.

Instead of "being sick of it" why not try to change it.

you only let people take advantage of you.

I cant stand most people.

I stick with a few friends and thats all I need :lol:

Nobody is an island

you have to talk to someone, sometimes.

Instead of "being sick of it" why not try to change it.

you only let people take advantage of you.

blooddemon666

When I dont let them take advantage of me, they end up sabotaging my life more or overpowering me and beating me up. I know it sounds like I live in the ghetto or something, but I dont. I'm just in a bad situation, and its literally impossible to chance it, not on my own at least. Believe me, I've tried. Which is why I'd rather just be in fantasy land in my little hut.

.......wowmattmaul5488

If you dont understand or have a lack of sympathy then this post is just a wase of space.

Yeah, I was shocked too when I realized this.

When I dont let them take advantage of me, they end up sabotaging my life more or overpowering me and beating me up. I know it sounds like I live in the ghetto or something, but I dont. I'm just in a bad situation, and its literally impossible to chance it, not on my own at least. Believe me, I've tried. Which is why I'd rather just be in fantasy land in my little hut.

Myrkan

How old are you? I'd assume that you're a teenager. If so, your views will change.

Even if you do somehow come to live all by your lonesome, you'll find very quickly that you desire companionship. Humans are a social creature, you can't escape that.

[QUOTE="Myrkan"]

When I dont let them take advantage of me, they end up sabotaging my life more or overpowering me and beating me up. I know it sounds like I live in the ghetto or something, but I dont. I'm just in a bad situation, and its literally impossible to chance it, not on my own at least. Believe me, I've tried. Which is why I'd rather just be in fantasy land in my little hut.

blooddemon666

How old are you? I'd assume that you're a teenager. If so, your views will change.

Even if you do somehow come to live all by your lonesome, you'll find very quickly that you desire companionship. Humans are a social creature, you can't escape that.

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

Myrkan

Eventually the loneliness will get to you.. although temporary solitude is a good experience... at least in my opinion.Candy-Star

Eventually the loneliness will get to you.. although temporary solitude is a good experience... at least in my opinion.Candy-Star

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

Myrkan

Dude thats my dream..maybe an island..with a seperate hut for my girlfriend and stuff....internet, computer, games, food, beach....and to never have to go to Wal-Mart again....

You must lern to let things go in one ear and out the other. These people who speak of contributing to the world don't contribute anyway.

People look up to those who make millions of dollars off of manufacturing and selling useless gadgets. These people aren't contributing. They are selling luxeries merely to line their own pockets. It's not contribution, it's self-indulgence.

It's all bullcrap. The term contribution used to refer to something important. Now every little thing is glorified into a contribution.

[QUOTE="Myrkan"]

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

LetsPlayBrick

Dude thats my dream..maybe an island..with a seperate hut for my girlfriend and stuff....internet, computer, games, food, beach....and to never have to go to Wal-Mart again....

OMG guys!! I'm feeling what you guys are trying to say(no gay or homo or anything) but I seriously think what would we do in this type of situation? I think it's completely normal especially if it's like almost the end of the world like the movie "I AM LEGEND", Will Smith is the only survivor literally except he doesn't know there might be some survivors. But if your in a zombie situation, you guys would feel lonely and isolated too. Oh well, you don't have to deal with anything but you get to have everything you have. That being said, I would live in costco or something, lol.

[QUOTE="Myrkan"]

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

LetsPlayBrick

Dude thats my dream..maybe an island..with a seperate hut for my girlfriend and stuff....internet, computer, games, food, beach....and to never have to go to Wal-Mart again....

I used to be kind of like you. I know that I'm a very good person, I've been told I am a lot and I know it from experiencing the world. I thought that people were all asses and that I'd be very lucky to find a person like me. But you know something, everyone has this potential in them. When I look out into the world I realize that I'm not the best person ever and far even from the best person alive. I know that I can't be, in this swamp of billions of people, the kindest person in the world. I went out to school one day defiant on talking and meeting as many people as possible. And you know what, I found some damn good people out there. I saw people that were kind enough to talk to the lonely kid and I saw that people that were kind enough to give a seat that they knew other people needed, and I saw people that looked out for others like I thought I only did. Give people a chance, there's more potential out there than you know. Yea, a lot of the people out there are really mean, but just stay away from those people, finding it hard to stay away from those people? Try harder, because there are people who are different.

And then I realized that me being such a pariah made no difference. You know what I'm going to be whenever I walk out into the crowd? I'm going to be that one man difference that makes the world seem nicer to one person every day. I can't change the world, but I can change mine. I'll show every person out there that there are people who care about them for no reason at all, as should you. So basically, get out there, show people there's a different side of people other than the abrasiveness of the majority with your own example.

[QUOTE="LetsPlayBrick"][QUOTE="Myrkan"]

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

HyBridFuRy

Dude thats my dream..maybe an island..with a seperate hut for my girlfriend and stuff....internet, computer, games, food, beach....and to never have to go to Wal-Mart again....

OMG guys!! I'm feeling what you guys are trying to say(no gay or homo or anything) but I seriously think what would we do in this type of situation? I think it's completely normal especially if it's like almost the end of the world like the movie "I AM LEGEND", Will Smith is the only survivor literally except he doesn't know there might be some survivors. But if your in a zombie situation, you guys would feel lonely and isolated too. Oh well, you don't have to deal with anything but you get to have everything you have. That being said, I would live in costco or something, lol.

Yes.I feel the exact same way.I'm not really into sex,drinking all that crap...I like helping people,but too many people have no common sense and are asses and perverts nowadays that is just gets me frustrated and annoyed.I've been thinking about that same thing you are,living by myself isolated from other people with a couple of dogs...because I adore animals.But that's a little too extreme,I like the big city...and I can deal with people.

I just don't think I could handle a relationship either...I'd rather just have a really good friend that's a girl...rather than a girlfriend.Really as long as I have a few good friends...I'm cool.

Instead of "being sick of it" why not try to change it.

you only let people take advantage of you.

blooddemon666

I can see what you mean, but I don't think completely isolating yourself will actually be a good thing. In a way, I'm kind of like you: I like my alone time, I get pissed off over what a lot of people do, and I would like to leave fantasy wonderland. However, whether I live alone or get married and have kids, I'm going to need someone I can talk to and not just on the internet either.

I see a lot of people doing stupid things, but for every one-hundred people I don't want to associate with much, there is about one or two people that are really worth talking to and getting to know. These people will help you live the way you want to live -- alone and away from society most of the time -- a lot easier: they will listen to what you say, they will respond, and they will help you if you need help. They are called friends. So don't give up just yet, look for some friends that can keep you company from time to time.

Don't listen to the rest. Ignore them. Do what you want to do. Don't just do what they tell you to do. You are in control of your life. If you really love your life, then you would fight back if anybody tries to force you to live it a certain way.

I have less extreme views, but yes I agree. I personally love music because it can never patronize, annoy, harass, or bug me. skullkrusher13

As long as you don't talk about its momma.

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

Myrkan

Where did you get that from...by the way, you're a member of society.

I think a lot of people really need to get off their pedestal of thinking their above other people and just start enjoying life.

There are a lot of rotten people in the world, but there are so many good ones. Your gonna lock yourself in your room, on your computer, and so many of those people who could be your friend are going to pass you bye.

I might sound rough, but I'm trying to be honest.

[QUOTE="Myrkan"]

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

Aznsilvrboy

Where did you get that from...by the way, you're a member of society.

If, your in an harsh environment you must learn to adapt to it. If you're surrounded by douches, learn to become douche proof. If your forced to work with unreliable people, learn to become more independent.

Mental Hardening, if you want to be a survivor think like one. As mentioned earlier in social situations majority of incidents happen because you let them happen. You have to stop playing the "Victim" game and become the "Victor", it doesnt mean you must become a Victor to others, but you must become Victorious to yourself. In such environments you must become your own light in the darkness, become your own inner peace, not a means to someone elses.

As an only child, my parents (father ex-military, mother college athelete) i was raised to not become a victim. "he did that to you because you let him do that to you" was not uncommon for me hear during preshchool and elementary. later on you'll understand it more (I was never a bully though). in High school you won't have the urge to flock with the crowd, in College you'll feel right at home. thats my story at least. sometimes i do want my own island somewhere out in the Pacific. But if the normal grind begins its wear and tear, take a vacation.

I bet your still a virginno-scoped_jfk

Not everyone is cut out to be the same,have a wife and 2 cute kids,live in a house with a little white picjet fence out front.People are different,some take different paths than the norm.it seems tday that if you're not following the same system as evreyone else,you're 'weird' or 'abnormal'

Have you ever considered that he may enjoy being alone?

"I bet your still a virgin" What kind of statment it that? That's the answer all you perverts who think women are all only good for sex use for everything.

"I don't really want a girlfriend"..."OMG I bet Youre still a virgin"

"I like being alone"..."Hey,I bet you're still a virgin"

I used to be kind of like you. I know that I'm a very good person, I've been told I am a lot and I know it from experiencing the world. I thought that people were all asses and that I'd be very lucky to find a person like me. But you know something, everyone has this potential in them. When I look out into the world I realize that I'm not the best person ever and far even from the best person alive. I know that I can't be, in this swamp of billions of people, the kindest person in the world. I went out to school one day defiant on talking and meeting as many people as possible. And you know what, I found some damn good people out there. I saw people that were kind enough to talk to the lonely kid and I saw that people that were kind enough to give a seat that they knew other people needed, and I saw people that looked out for others like I thought I only did. Give people a chance, there's more potential out there than you know. Yea, a lot of the people out there are really mean, but just stay away from those people, finding it hard to stay away from those people? Try harder, because there are people who are different.

And then I realized that me being such a pariah made no difference. You know what I'm going to be whenever I walk out into the crowd? I'm going to be that one man difference that makes the world seem nicer to one person every day. I can't change the world, but I can change mine. I'll show every person out there that there are people who care about them for no reason at all, as should you. So basically, get out there, show people there's a different side of people other than the abrasiveness of the majority with your own example.

TongHua

Couldn't have said it better. And ignore the (unusually few) idiots posting here.

I only socialize with my wife and sometimes my family..

Besides that I keep to myself. Get a graveyard position where your alone and that will change your schedule completely. I work from 9pm-6am sleep until 3pm get up and watch tv/play video games then go back to work. The weekend I sleep until 3pm and stay up until 6am doing whatever. I hardly socialize with anybody. I love it and I to am a loner...

Im with you all the way.. although i do have a lot of friends and big social life.. im out every night after work.. but sometimes i just want to stay home and be by myself, play some games and relax. Like now, just got home from work, going to eat dinner and get ready to go out in the next hour or so.

If your sick of being treated like crap, put your foot down. You can't choose your family but you can choose your friends. If you dont like someone, don't hang around them, dont talk to them and dont let them get one up on you. If they make smart comments you have numerous options.. walk away and ignore it, make a smart comment back etc. Depends on the situation and the person as to what will work best. Either way, you only live once so enjoy yourself.. if your not happy you need to change things in your life so you will be.