I'd Rather Be A Loner.

Yes.I feel the exact same way.I'm not really into sex,drinking all that crap...I like helping people,but too many people have no common sense and are asses and perverts nowadays that is just gets me frustrated and annoyed.I've been thinking about that same thing you are,living by myself isolated from other people with a couple of dogs...because I adore animals.But that's a little too extreme,I like the big city...and I can deal with people.

I just don't think I could handle a relationship either...I'd rather just have a really good friend that's a girl...rather than a girlfriend.Really as long as I have a few good friends...I'm cool.

AtomicBaconBits

This is a copy-paste situation of what I felt 2 years ago. I assume you just got out of a relationship being torn down whether because of your fault or hers. In my era it was me who made the mistake, and I still havent completely saned it, maybe 75%... me being very hard on myself when I fail made it even worse back then..

As many of you guys say, you cant help by dealing with arses. After all they are majority and knowing their flaws and absurdities makes you correctly detach them from your "friend list". Even theres girlfriends in your life who cheat on you, or guys that break bros before hos (both happened to me), keep your chin up and be ready for the next punches, you'll keep learning, and things will come into place eventually... thats how I like to think

I agree with what you posted...

work in a kitchen. That way you only have to put up with other cooks, whom often feel just the same as you do.

[QUOTE="AtomicBaconBits"]

Yes.I feel the exact same way.I'm not really into sex,drinking all that crap...I like helping people,but too many people have no common sense and are asses and perverts nowadays that is just gets me frustrated and annoyed.I've been thinking about that same thing you are,living by myself isolated from other people with a couple of dogs...because I adore animals.But that's a little too extreme,I like the big city...and I can deal with people.

I just don't think I could handle a relationship either...I'd rather just have a really good friend that's a girl...rather than a girlfriend.Really as long as I have a few good friends...I'm cool.

chucholucho

This is a copy-paste situation of what I felt 2 years ago. I assume you just got out of a relationship being torn down whether because of your fault or hers. In my era it was me who made the mistake, and I still havent completely saned it, maybe 75%... me being very hard on myself when I fail made it even worse back then..

As many of you guys say, you cant help by dealing with arses. After all they are majority and knowing their flaws and absurdities makes you correctly detach them from your "friend list". Even theres girlfriends in your life who cheat on you, or guys that break bros before hos (both happened to me), keep your chin up and be ready for the next punches, you'll keep learning, and things will come into place eventually... thats how I like to think

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

Myrkan

hell naw. you better get out there and get some friends. humans are social beings. we're made to communicate and work with each other. don't sell yourself short.

Maybe you should hang out with the emo's instead of hating on them. You could be their king.JiveT

you should see a doctor, you sound like u hav autism.

maybe u should join the potheads and go against babylon!

no i dont see that way, if i dont interact with other people i feel useless basically, just sittin in ur basement being angry at everyone because of who they are and what they do isnt gonna get u anywhere and u wont enjoy life,

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

Myrkan

I hate society more then anything.....people enjoy making other people mad, angry and the worst thing about it some people even find it funny.

Personally what i do is work out....it helps a lot.

[QUOTE="Myrkan"]

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

XileLord

I hate society more then anything.....people enjoy making other people mad, angry and the worst thing about it some people even find it funny.

Personally what i do is work out....it helps a lot.

Unfortunately many people within society are lacking in depth and substance. Many people will pass you by and they will have no positive impact upon you, and often will leave you a little sadder than before you had met them. But living as a recluse will leave you even worse off. Just think, even though you may rarely feel close to somebody, there will be at least one or two, or a group of people that you will meet in your life, that will seem magical to you; people which, when around them, give you great joy and laughter, comfort and peace. People who you can go on adventures with, who intellectually stimulate you and who share your interests.

Do you really want to miss out on those times? Even if they seem impossible or so far away? Being a recluse may guard you from the worst of people, but it will also guard you from the best. It will take you away from the absolutely (even if they don't come along often) fantastic times, memories and experiences that you will have with people, even if they are few. You may escape the pain of society, but you will also escape the joys and friendships. In my experiences, the joys, which you will have, wash away the pain and dissatisfactions we all have with society. There will be many great times in your life, sometimes you just have to be patient. I have met thousands of people in this world, yet I have about six true friends. But being around those six people shows me that, society can't be totally terrible, if some people like this are living in it. Sometimes you just have to wait for those great companions of life to come and walk beside you. They will come, yes they will come.

HAHAHHAHAH! You are an grade A LOSER!stevendiep_100

That was really low and stupid

[QUOTE="stevendiep_100"]HAHAHHAHAH! You are an grade A LOSER!screamingdoom

That was really low and stupid

Oh yes, and a hermit who wants to live his life without anyone else in his life isn't stupid?

I don't want to be mean, but this guy has to learn to help himself. He's saying everyone is an as*hole, but maybe he's the one being a little b*tch when anyone tried to befriend him.

[QUOTE="screamingdoom"]

[QUOTE="stevendiep_100"]HAHAHHAHAH! You are an grade A LOSER!stevendiep_100

That was really low and stupid

Oh yes, and a hermit who wants to live his life without anyone else in his life isn't stupid?

I don't want to be mean, but this guy has to learn to help himself. He's saying everyone is an as*hole, but maybe he's the one being a little b*tch when anyone tried to befriend him.

There is sense to what you said (not the loser part though). If (and this is only hypothetical, it may not be true) he's not being a very nice person himself, he's not going to attract agreeable people around him. To the TC, you must also look to see if there's blame to be put onto yourself, as well as your surrounding environment. Being content with who you have, and grateful for the people you do have in your life, can help make your life feel alot more happier. Just stop, think of the things (even if few) that you do like, and learn to love them strongly (as long as they're morally good). Happiness and humility, are features that will attract others, and may help to break the loneliness and discontent you feel with other people.

[QUOTE="stevendiep_100"][QUOTE="screamingdoom"]

[QUOTE="stevendiep_100"]HAHAHHAHAH! You are an grade A LOSER!screamingdoom

That was really low and stupid

Oh yes, and a hermit who wants to live his life without anyone else in his life isn't stupid?

I don't want to be mean, but this guy has to learn to help himself. He's saying everyone is an as*hole, but maybe he's the one being a little b*tch when anyone tried to befriend him.

There is sense to what you said (not the loser part though). If (and this is only hypothetical, it may not be true) he's not being a very nice person himself, he's not going to attract agreeable people around him. To the TC, you must also look to see if there's blame to be put onto yourself, as well as your surrounding environment. Being content with who you have, and grateful for the people you do have in your life, can help make your life feel alot more happier. Just stop, think of the things (even if few) that you do like, and learn to love them strongly (as long as they're morally good). Happiness and humility, are features that will attract others, and may help to break the loneliness and discontent you feel with other people.

yeah, I agree

I kinda understand how you feel. Not quite that drastic, but still. I'm very socially awkward, and i kinda like being a loner.

I completely, 100% feel the same way. My family even calls me the "Lone Wolf". The only people I need in my life are my family, and my best friend, whom I barely see.

Most people are in things for personal gain, power, etc.

They're all unintelligent little sheep, following their bosses, teachers, and enemies straight to hell.

Don't cut yourself off, it's just not a good thing. It may sound like an attractive option, but it does more harm than you think. The longer you separate yourself, the more your social skills will deteriorate, so if one day you decide you no longer want to be alone, you are going to wake up and find that society has moved on without you and that it's a lot tougher to break the pattern you've fallen into than you would have thought. Other people are going to start to treat you worse than they ever have, and ones who were once friendly are going to turn their back on you. As tough as it may be -- and yeah, for some people it's tough, and those who find it easy usually have no understanding or sympathy of that -- try to keep at least some social ties. You don't have to be the life of the party or go out every night, but at least keep a couple acquaintances and tune out the types of people who make you want to be alone. It's healthy. Also, do research into things like Social Anxiety or Avoidant Personality Disorder and see if you might think you have one of those and what can be done to treat them.

I've been there. You do get more time to play video games, but underneath it's nothing but emptyness.

Wow!!, i think i found my twin.

I hardly ever go out with my friends, i choose my friends very well, thats why i only have one or two.

I would love to live in a desolate area too, with all the good stuff about my life now, and without all the Jackass's and stress in it.

Go watch the movie 'shooter' except without the being a sniper thing....but id have a gun, or two

Yea, I agree. I mean when you think about it.. when you prefer to be deatched from society and rather live a quiet and simple life, it's not a good thing. Because honestly, you'll start to be so self-centered and become more insecured about things and have Dimensia and what not. Exactly the same situation happened with the guy from Virginia Tech, he hates people and likes to be a loner. I mean sure, I know what your trying to say because I'm usually like that but I realize that it's not a good thing and can affect you in a long term.[QUOTE="Candy-Star"]Eventually the loneliness will get to you.. although temporary solitude is a good experience... at least in my opinion.HyBridFuRy

Well I dont have the tempation to kill people. ;)

[QUOTE="screamingdoom"]

[QUOTE="stevendiep_100"]HAHAHHAHAH! You are an grade A LOSER!stevendiep_100

That was really low and stupid

Oh yes, and a hermit who wants to live his life without anyone else in his life isn't stupid?

I don't want to be mean, but this guy has to learn to help himself. He's saying everyone is an as*hole, but maybe he's the one being a little b*tch when anyone tried to befriend him.

Have you been spying on me? Your acting like you know me. And I'm grateful for the people who are helping me rather than insulting me. I'm rarely 'befriended' and when I am I dont reject it. Please go away, your not helping. And I was just saying I was tired of all of the as*holes in the world. I'm not feeling sorry for myself either. Stop. Leave. I'm done with you.

If you really enjoyed being alone, you wouldn't come to visit the off-topic community forums in the first place.

Also, not everyone who enjoys being lonely suffers from ''avoidant personality disorder''. I for one am perfectly capable of socializing with other people. I can talk very easy and fluid, and never really have a low self-esteem. But still for some reason I tend be more lonely then I'm not... most of the time.

I just don't see the fun in wasting my time in some disco or stupid parasites party. That does NOT mean I'm a unsocial person by any means. It just means I prefer spending my time on something different. Like going to the theater instead of the cinema...

Just like there are people that prefer to live in a big City and people who prefer to live peacefully in some nice forest place... there are also people who prefer to go the Theater/Cinema instead of partying like a bunch of hippies drinking beer and participating crime activities etc...

MSN is very social, but chatting in a for example in a MMO game isn't. Talk about hypocrytes...

Well I can at times want to be alone but its a lil extreme to go live in a hut in the woods >_>RenegadePatriot

Talk about Extreme, I enjoy watching Extreme Survival Ray Mears alot. Also a new series called Ultimate Survival (even better) on Discovery Channel.

The skills he teaches may just come in handy or even save my life someday. Although I hope this never happens :P

[QUOTE="Aznsilvrboy"][QUOTE="Myrkan"]

I realize now I could just live in a safe hut in the woods with my dogs, my computer, food and a good amount of money, games, an average TV, and areas where I can buy these things, and be happy. I dont like people. Physically, at least, people over the internet are fine, since I can stop talking to them at any time. I hate thinking I have to contribute to the world and otherwise people look down on me. I understand this is just a pitiful fantasy but god, it angers me even now to think about all of the pr*cks and asses we have in the world, the ones that I have to communicate with on a regular basis. Most people in this world are crude and disgusting, feel no emotion and enjoy making other people suffer. They usually only care about money, power, sex, and so on. I care about other people, sure, I care about family, I'd feel bad if I had to beat anyone up, take something from them, cheat them in some way...I'm not some emotionless pig, but I would enjoy being a recluse, completely and utterly detached from society. I love life, believe me, I'm not some suicidal jerk or dumb*ss emo, I just really, really cant stand society.

Is anyone else like me? Or do they understand? I'd really love to detach from all of the potheads, ass*oles, stupid people, my family, the people who love to bully me constantly.

I'm not trying to feel sorry for myself or anything but I've been treated like crap for my entire life and I'm really sick of it.

AtomicBaconBits

Where did you get that from...by the way, you're a member of society.

Just because I see it every day doesn't mean it is so. He made a bold claim that most people in this world is that way. Also do you think the media reports more negative things or heartwarming stories?