Even if this female were your age, why in the hell would you want to be with someone who, for the majority of the time, treats you as if you were garabage? :|
[QUOTE="manic626"]No I'm not screwing her, and I date girls my own age. but I'm in love with her. not any teen, just her and I'm willing to wait, But there's a catch. We rarely if ever get along. You see, she is my Brother's Girlfriend's sister and she has been spoiled to no end. She has the best looks of her family and she uses that to her advantage. She does what she wants whenever she wants. She treats ppl like total **** and she loves to try to control her friends. Pretty much she is a very beautiful, foul ass girl. I have never met another teen or adult with a stuck up attitude like hers. I myself am the complete opposite. I've known her for 4 years and she has always been like this. Anytime I try to talk, pick or play with her she will let me know that she hates my **** guts. EXCEPT around Christmas and her Birthday when she is one of the nicest ppl I ever met. After that however she will ignore me to no end. We will get into it simply because I said hey to her. so I caught on to this and just simply ignored her for about 5 months. One day I see her at the store and she gives me big hug and asks how I've been doing. She has never done this before. so for the next 6 months we're getting along just fine. I'm giving her rides to her friends house and she even wants me to walk with her at parks and walmart. At no time was I ever being pushy with her. Then one day out the blue she just decides to ignore me again and get pissed at every thing I said and did. At that point I couldn't take it anymore and started verbally abusing her. Now we both really don't get along anymore. It been like this for nearly a year. We talked a couple of times but most of the time she is just like she used to be to me only a bit worse. So my question to you guys. Is the wait in Vain? Should I just give up and move on. I have never loved anyone like her before. But I've never been hated so much by someone either. and its taken a toll on how I feel about her now. Its like I just don't care about her anymore. There are a couple of girls (my age) that are interested in me and want a long term relationship. So please help me out guys. what should I do?Duuuuuuuude!!! are you serious? she's a freakin bratty KID! uh yea she's gonna have temper tantrums! i say stay away from her and seek professional help because honestly a 22 year old in love with a 15 year old *a rotten one at that* is very creepy. and it will probably get you in some very serious trouble if things go awry.
This is wrong in so many ways that I don't even know where to start. Anyway if she is as the TC described her then I even wouldn't bother to talk to her. Waiting a couple of years for a good looking spoiled brat? What the hell. In some time she will be 40. Then what? You will be left with an old witch. Plus you will live with knowledge that you wasted several years for her. Great way to fail in life.
Not only are you far too old for her (not just age, maturity is a major factor), she sounds like an absolutely horrible person. I'd sy any relationship, even if it has a chance of occuring, would just be unhealthy for you. I'd say you'd be best of forgettting about it, and moving on, no good would come from her.
No I'm not screwing her, and I date girls my own age. but I'm in love with her. not any teen, just her and I'm willing to wait, But there's a catch. We rarely if ever get along. You see, she is my Brother's Girlfriend's sister and she has been spoiled to no end. She has the best looks of her family and she uses that to her advantage. She does what she wants whenever she wants. She treats ppl like total **** and she loves to try to control her friends. Pretty much she is a very beautiful, foul ass girl. I have never met another teen or adult with a stuck up attitude like hers. I myself am the complete opposite. I've known her for 4 years and she has always been like this. Anytime I try to talk, pick or play with her she will let me know that she hates my **** guts. EXCEPT around Christmas and her Birthday when she is one of the nicest ppl I ever met. After that however she will ignore me to no end. We will get into it simply because I said hey to her. so I caught on to this and just simply ignored her for about 5 months. One day I see her at the store and she gives me big hug and asks how I've been doing. She has never done this before. so for the next 6 months we're getting along just fine. I'm giving her rides to her friends house and she even wants me to walk with her at parks and walmart. At no time was I ever being pushy with her. Then one day out the blue she just decides to ignore me again and get pissed at every thing I said and did. At that point I couldn't take it anymore and started verbally abusing her. Now we both really don't get along anymore. It been like this for nearly a year. We talked a couple of times but most of the time she is just like she used to be to me only a bit worse. So my question to you guys. Is the wait in Vain? Should I just give up and move on. I have never loved anyone like her before. But I've never been hated so much by someone either. and its taken a toll on how I feel about her now. Its like I just don't care about her anymore. There are a couple of girls (my age) that are interested in me and want a long term relationship. So please help me out guys. what should I do?manic626
Ah, feels good to post **** after a 2 day suspension, lol. Anyways, I think thats just inhumane. Shes 15 dude! Go to a bar, pick up a chick and **** her and get this spoiled brat out of your head.
No I'm not screwing her, and I date girls my own age. but I'm in love with her. not any teen, just her and I'm willing to wait, But there's a catch. We rarely if ever get along. You see, she is my Brother's Girlfriend's sister and she has been spoiled to no end. She has the best looks of her family and she uses that to her advantage. She does what she wants whenever she wants. She treats ppl like total **** and she loves to try to control her friends. Pretty much she is a very beautiful, foul ass girl. I have never met another teen or adult with a stuck up attitude like hers. I myself am the complete opposite. I've known her for 4 years and she has always been like this. Anytime I try to talk, pick or play with her she will let me know that she hates my **** guts. EXCEPT around Christmas and her Birthday when she is one of the nicest ppl I ever met. After that however she will ignore me to no end. We will get into it simply because I said hey to her. so I caught on to this and just simply ignored her for about 5 months. One day I see her at the store and she gives me big hug and asks how I've been doing. She has never done this before. so for the next 6 months we're getting along just fine. I'm giving her rides to her friends house and she even wants me to walk with her at parks and walmart. At no time was I ever being pushy with her. Then one day out the blue she just decides to ignore me again and get pissed at every thing I said and did. At that point I couldn't take it anymore and started verbally abusing her. Now we both really don't get along anymore. It been like this for nearly a year. We talked a couple of times but most of the time she is just like she used to be to me only a bit worse. So my question to you guys. Is the wait in Vain? Should I just give up and move on. I have never loved anyone like her before. But I've never been hated so much by someone either. and its taken a toll on how I feel about her now. Its like I just don't care about her anymore. There are a couple of girls (my age) that are interested in me and want a long term relationship. So please help me out guys. what should I do?manic626
If you can tolerate something like that and still love her....wow, just wow! :shock:
I'd highly recommend you just move on but if you want to be stubborn and keep on then back off a bit. The person who is often in control of a relationship is the one backing away. As you are chasing her she is the one in control. If you want the relationship to progress then that is my recommendation. Just make certain that if it does progress then you must take the relationship slowly due to the age difference.
I'd highly recommend you just move on for the following reasons though not just limited to these reasons: She is young and immature therefore she will change a lot over the next 5 years or so; she seems to be the type to be will a guy until she is bored and move one; and there is an age difference which makes a deep relationship right now not normal.
I'd recommend you go out with these other girls you are talking about and if years pass with nothing happening with them then try again at your young'n who isn't as young and hopefully not as immature anymore.
Ok 1) She acts like a total Beach.....(hopefully it has something to do with being inmature/teenager)
2) Dude Your 22.....Shes 15....Come on man....WTF....Ive got this friend called Chris Hanssen maybe he could help you just have aseat right there.
3) Should you wait??? come on man 3 years of waiting on a 15 year old bratt who will probably fall for every other douche wearing abercrombie and hollister, that passes in front of her.
4) How bout you wake up and get yourself a (WOMAN as in over 18/ and with some manners).....then maybe check back on your little friend in a few years..Till then my suggestion is to just brush her off and dont try and do anything about liking her..Unless you want to know what a prison realtionship is like
Honestly go find someone else. I am not trying to be judgmental, because you might really feel that way towards her(and I am sure you do). But in all due respect you are 22, and she is 15. Move on and find someone closer to your age. I wouldn't recommend waiting for her unless you can really do it. I say this because I felt at one point in my life I could wait for someone-- but in the end I ended up finding someone(and to my surprise) a better relationship than my previous one. It's not the end of the world, there are dozens of woman out there.
No I'm not screwing her, and I date girls my own age. but I'm in love with her. not any teen, just her and I'm willing to wait, But there's a catch. We rarely if ever get along. You see, she is my Brother's Girlfriend's sister and she has been spoiled to no end. She has the best looks of her family and she uses that to her advantage. She does what she wants whenever she wants. She treats ppl like total **** and she loves to try to control her friends. Pretty much she is a very beautiful, foul ass girl. I have never met another teen or adult with a stuck up attitude like hers. I myself am the complete opposite. I've known her for 4 years and she has always been like this. Anytime I try to talk, pick or play with her she will let me know that she hates my **** guts. EXCEPT around Christmas and her Birthday when she is one of the nicest ppl I ever met. After that however she will ignore me to no end. We will get into it simply because I said hey to her. so I caught on to this and just simply ignored her for about 5 months. One day I see her at the store and she gives me big hug and asks how I've been doing. She has never done this before. so for the next 6 months we're getting along just fine. I'm giving her rides to her friends house and she even wants me to walk with her at parks and walmart. At no time was I ever being pushy with her. Then one day out the blue she just decides to ignore me again and get pissed at every thing I said and did. At that point I couldn't take it anymore and started verbally abusing her. Now we both really don't get along anymore. It been like this for nearly a year. We talked a couple of times but most of the time she is just like she used to be to me only a bit worse. So my question to you guys. Is the wait in Vain? Should I just give up and move on. I have never loved anyone like her before. But I've never been hated so much by someone either. and its taken a toll on how I feel about her now. Its like I just don't care about her anymore. There are a couple of girls (my age) that are interested in me and want a long term relationship. So please help me out guys. what should I do?manic626
Dude, just for the fact that she's 15 you should put her out your head. Seriously, DO NOT hit that, I repeat DO NOT hit that...
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