i'm in a situation..

my dad threatened to kick me out, and that i'm ignorant and just alot of stuff has happened over the last day or two. I've realized everything is my fault, but I don't have enough courage to confess it to my dad. He said he would move me in with my mom in georgia. I like it here, not so much living with my dad but my friends and, life as it is right now... but i can't deal with him. I feel like if I run away, that i'm trying to run away from my problems when the problem is me. I don't know what to do, should I talk to him? or just say the hell with it, and let whatever happens happen?

how should I start the conversation?

how should I start the conversation?

Blin220

Start with saying how you know it's your fault, apologize, then show him the picture, and he'll laugh...

What ive learned to do in life to parents/teachers:

Be freakishly nice, always convincing them that you made the mistake and they are right. Thats just the way things have to work if you want to get along. Doesn't matter if you believe what your saying, just make it convincing. Do that until your old enough that you should move out, when youll probably only see them a couple times per month/year, and they'll fight for your attention, and relinquish a majority of their hold on you.

Would you rather talk it over with him and live an enjoyable life being able to visit him with your children. Or not do anything and cut him out completely ruining your life forever. So basicallyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy it's Good Life or Bad Life. Make your choice.Ghost_702

i want a good life i can live a good life w/o him in it and i dont want children

What ive learned to do in life to parents/teachers:

Be freakishly nice, always convincing them that you made the mistake and they are right. Thats just the way things have to work if you want to get along. Doesn't matter if you believe what your saying, just make it convincing. Do that until your old enough that you should move out, when youll probably only see them a couple times per month/year, and they'll fight for your attention, and relinquish a majority of their hold on you.

gamer_marrik

i believe you with this. And that was great help.. thank you. but i just think its really hard fessing. I guess, im scared of confrontation.

what exactly is your fault? whatever, just dont run away. it never works out, unless your the rl version of that guy from the pursuit of happyness.Xeros606

thats what i keep asking myself. because i honestly dont know. I got a detention for being late school, and then i lied to my dad about going when i really didnt. So then he started talking about how he doesnt trust me and i was like mhm. Suddnely he throws me out of the computer chair punches me in the face and throws the chair at me. And just keeps yelling. My day goes on and start to recover from my anger and confusion, my friends come over and we hang out and they make me feel better. I goto sleep at around 12 and then my dad wakes me up at 2 banging on my door and yelling to open the door. He's still mad about it even after an entire day went by and grabs me by my neck and throws me down the steps and hits me again. I think he over reacts, I realized i lied about something so silly. But i wish he would realize how much of an idiot i am and try to talk it out rather than hit me. I dont even know whats my fault other than me lying. I don't know what to do anymore

[QUOTE="Xeros606"]what exactly is your fault? whatever, just dont run away. it never works out, unless your the rl version of that guy from the pursuit of happyness.Blin220

thats what i keep asking myself. because i honestly dont know. I got a detention for being late school, and then i lied to my dad about going when i really didnt. So then he started talking about how he doesnt trust me and i was like mhm. Suddnely he throws me out of the computer chair punches me in the face and throws the chair at me. And just keeps yelling. My day goes on and start to recover from my anger and confusion, my friends come over and we hang out and they make me feel better. I goto sleep at around 12 and then my dad wakes me up at 2 banging on my door and yelling to open the door. He's still mad about it even after an entire day went by and grabs me by my neck and throws me down the steps and hits me again. I think he over reacts, I realized i lied about something so silly. But i wish he would realize how much of an idiot i am and try to talk it out rather than hit me. I dont even know whats my fault other than me lying. I don't know what to do anymore

[QUOTE="Xeros606"]what exactly is your fault? whatever, just dont run away. it never works out, unless your the rl version of that guy from the pursuit of happyness.Blin220

thats what i keep asking myself. because i honestly dont know. I got a detention for being late school, and then i lied to my dad about going when i really didnt. So then he started talking about how he doesnt trust me and i was like mhm. Suddnely he throws me out of the computer chair punches me in the face and throws the chair at me. And just keeps yelling. My day goes on and start to recover from my anger and confusion, my friends come over and we hang out and they make me feel better. I goto sleep at around 12 and then my dad wakes me up at 2 banging on my door and yelling to open the door. He's still mad about it even after an entire day went by and grabs me by my neck and throws me down the steps and hits me again. I think he over reacts, I realized i lied about something so silly. But i wish he would realize how much of an idiot i am and try to talk it out rather than hit me. I dont even know whats my fault other than me lying. I don't know what to do anymore

Wow, sounds so similiar to a friend o' mine. (hes going to the extremeties though, and getting out of there) it seems you know what you did wrong and if you just talk to your dad and explain you made a stupid mistake, it should turn out better. Unless you are really unhappy living with your dad, which you seem alright with him just seems to be that he'll overreact to a small situation, Do not move out.

And as your post above says, you don't like confrontation, i feel ya there man it sucks, just go up to your dad and talk to him, its the only way of doing it.

[QUOTE="Blin220"]

[QUOTE="Xeros606"]what exactly is your fault? whatever, just dont run away. it never works out, unless your the rl version of that guy from the pursuit of happyness.teh_destroyer

thats what i keep asking myself. because i honestly dont know. I got a detention for being late school, and then i lied to my dad about going when i really didnt. So then he started talking about how he doesnt trust me and i was like mhm. Suddnely he throws me out of the computer chair punches me in the face and throws the chair at me. And just keeps yelling. My day goes on and start to recover from my anger and confusion, my friends come over and we hang out and they make me feel better. I goto sleep at around 12 and then my dad wakes me up at 2 banging on my door and yelling to open the door. He's still mad about it even after an entire day went by and grabs me by my neck and throws me down the steps and hits me again. I think he over reacts, I realized i lied about something so silly. But i wish he would realize how much of an idiot i am and try to talk it out rather than hit me. I dont even know whats my fault other than me lying. I don't know what to do anymore

wait so you lied to him and he punched you in the face and threw you down the stairs?! thats way to extreme.

[QUOTE="teh_destroyer"][QUOTE="Blin220"]

[QUOTE="Xeros606"]what exactly is your fault? whatever, just dont run away. it never works out, unless your the rl version of that guy from the pursuit of happyness.freshgman

thats what i keep asking myself. because i honestly dont know. I got a detention for being late school, and then i lied to my dad about going when i really didnt. So then he started talking about how he doesnt trust me and i was like mhm. Suddnely he throws me out of the computer chair punches me in the face and throws the chair at me. And just keeps yelling. My day goes on and start to recover from my anger and confusion, my friends come over and we hang out and they make me feel better. I goto sleep at around 12 and then my dad wakes me up at 2 banging on my door and yelling to open the door. He's still mad about it even after an entire day went by and grabs me by my neck and throws me down the steps and hits me again. I think he over reacts, I realized i lied about something so silly. But i wish he would realize how much of an idiot i am and try to talk it out rather than hit me. I dont even know whats my fault other than me lying. I don't know what to do anymore

wait so you lied to him and he punched you in the face and threw you down the stairs?! thats way to extreme.

how should I start the conversation?

Blin220

go up to him and say "dad, i just want to say i'm sorry for doing *what ever u did*, its my fault that this happened, can i please stay here, i realy like it here because i have my life here."