I'm Not Letting My Girl Drink Alcohol Ever Again

last night at a party my girlfriend and I had a few beers (her first experience with alcohol), and she totally turned into a skeez. Flirting with my friends, yelling for no reason, and just being really obnoxious. She just kept getting pissed at me whenever I would take her smirnoff away and at one point I couldn't find her and I think i even saw her smoke pot outside with a group of strangers. She just embarassed me the whole night. Now i'm not even returning her calls saying 'sorry'

I think I should dump her but I'll give her a another chance cause i'm a cool guy. i'm just not gonna let her touch the hard suff again

Don't blame her, one of the things that you loose when get drunk is your mind. she didn't know what she was doing. You said she's been calling you saying how sorry she is, she's learned her lesson, I'm pretty sure she'll never dring again.

if its her first time than let it goNYiVtec

... My dad get's happy when he get's drunk. I think he's depressed or something.

Personally I don't drink, and thus hate it when everyone else is. Everyone get's full of **** and says stuff they can't bring up when they are sober.

Blog it bud.Nintendo-Nerd

i'm just not gonna let her touch the hard suff again

Boogie_J

I think your understanding about how relationships work is a bit off the mark.

don't drink = win.

dehydration FTW

Saying that your not going to let her drink again is a pretty arrogant statement man. If you cared about instead of how she projects onto you then you would let her decide if she wants to drink or not.Big_player

Excellent point. You shouldn't try to control her like that, people tend to resent attempts to control them.

Wow I'm surprised at the number of people here who don't drink.

[QUOTE="Nintendo-Nerd"]Blog it bud.teh_destroyer

Let her drink? I think the decision is hers....:|LJS9502_basic

uhh no cause i'm her boyfriend

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Let her drink? I think the decision is hers....:|Boogie_J

uhh no cause i'm her boyfriend

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Let her drink? I think the decision is hers....:|Boogie_J

uhh no cause i'm her boyfriend

jesus christmas. would you care to explain wether this is a joke or if by what autorithy you have the right to make any decisions for anyone except yourself?

Actually after reading that, if I were her I would be dumping you.

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Let her drink? I think the decision is hers....:|Boogie_J

uhh no cause i'm her boyfriend

No its really not up to you what someone else does. What gives you the right to control another person?

[QUOTE="Boogie_J"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Let her drink? I think the decision is hers....:|NaiKoN9293

uhh no cause i'm her boyfriend

jesus christmas. would you care to explain wether this is a joke or if by what autorithy you have the right to make any decisions for anyone except yourself?

sometimes girlfriends have to make sacrifices if its hurting the relationship, just like i would do for her. so its not like i'm trying to control her

[QUOTE="NaiKoN9293"][QUOTE="Boogie_J"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Let her drink? I think the decision is hers....:|Boogie_J

uhh no cause i'm her boyfriend

jesus christmas. would you care to explain wether this is a joke or if by what autorithy you have the right to make any decisions for anyone except yourself?

sometimes girlfriends have to make sacrifices if its hurting the relationship, just like i would do for her. so its not like i'm trying to control her

Read your thread title again and make sure you comprehend.

last night at a party my girlfriend and I had a few beers (her first experience with alcohol), and she totally turned into a skeez. Flirting with my friends, yelling for no reason, and just being really obnoxious. She just kept getting pissed at me whenever I would take her smirnoff away and at one point I couldn't find her and I think i even saw her smoke pot outside with a group of strangers. She just embarassed me the whole night. Now i'm not even returning her calls saying 'sorry'

I think I should dump her but I'll give her a another chance cause i'm a cool guy. i'm just not gonna let her touch the hard suff again

Boogie_J

give her a chance, its a lesson well learned. Now if she didnt learn from this experience and does it again....THEN LEAVE HER

[QUOTE="NaiKoN9293"][QUOTE="Boogie_J"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Let her drink? I think the decision is hers....:|Boogie_J

uhh no cause i'm her boyfriend

jesus christmas. would you care to explain wether this is a joke or if by what autorithy you have the right to make any decisions for anyone except yourself?

sometimes girlfriends have to make sacrifices if its hurting the relationship, just like i would do for her. so its not like i'm trying to control her

That is exactly what you're talking about.

[QUOTE="NaiKoN9293"][QUOTE="Boogie_J"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Let her drink? I think the decision is hers....:|Boogie_J

uhh no cause i'm her boyfriend

jesus christmas. would you care to explain wether this is a joke or if by what autorithy you have the right to make any decisions for anyone except yourself?

sometimes girlfriends have to make sacrifices if its hurting the relationship, just like i would do for her. so its not like i'm trying to control her

There is a big difference between saying to her "Hey the way you act when you're drunk really bothers me" and saying "I don't like how you act when you're drunk, so you're not allowed to drink anymore". Let her know it bothers you by all means, but if she drinks in future or not is her decision and not yours.

I know how you mean, alcohol can destroy any healthy relationship. Sooner or later she will probably see that you are trying to control her and she will get really defensive about it and drink just to spite you. It's probably best to just end the relationship before it gets to that point, because by then you will probably realize how much you care for her and when you eventually do break up for whatever reason, you will be the one that feels the worst about it.

I know how you mean, alcohol can destroy any healthy relationship. Sooner or later she will probably see that you are trying to control her and she will get really defensive about it and drink just to spite you. It's probably best to just end the relationship before it gets to that point, because by then you will probably realize how much you care for her and when you eventually do break up for whatever reason, you will be the one that feels the worst about it.

ElectronicMagic

It was her first time, shes not exactly what you would call an alcoholic.

[QUOTE="Boogie_J"][QUOTE="NaiKoN9293"][QUOTE="Boogie_J"]

[QUOTE="LJS9502_basic"]Let her drink? I think the decision is hers....:|Aznsilvrboy

uhh no cause i'm her boyfriend

jesus christmas. would you care to explain wether this is a joke or if by what autorithy you have the right to make any decisions for anyone except yourself?

sometimes girlfriends have to make sacrifices if its hurting the relationship, just like i would do for her. so its not like i'm trying to control her

Read your thread title again and make sure you comprehend.

whatever man. you guys read too much into things and are trying to make me look like the bad guy here. i didn't mean it like that