Is attraction a choice?

Attraction not a choice? Agreed.

Women being attracted by what can not be seen? Disagreed. Many, many women feel attraction from looks alone.

muirplayer

true...it's just instincts and the animal side of human. If the guy she is together with is tall, it means her baby will be tall and stuff like that.

A bit of both I think. Everyones different.

Why do people say women are attracted to confidence and being funny? Confidence is good yes, but then you get the people acting like an ass. Why not intelligence, etc? Is this just some stupid sterotpye, or is it true for the majority?