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Of course it's alright to be sensitive/emotional. 'Think of the judge from the Anna Nicole Smith case. He's pretty cool, right? TopDreg
Your emotions are what make you an individual. And it's the separate emotions that every existing person has that forms the puzzle which makes life so enjoyable. Look at your emotions in a positive manner, and feel enlightened towards the knowledge that despite what misery, angst, or sadness your feelings may bring you, such emotions are what also allow happiness, excitement, and pride to be experienced.Â
Basically, you can't have one emotion without the existence of the other, just as you can't have every person having similar emotions to one another. Feel proud as being the individual for which people recognize you as, which is determined by the emotions you have portrayed.
Maturity is all based on perception. Do you feel that you are mature? That's the question one has to ask themselves.Â
As I said before, emotions are what individualize ourselves, through what we portray. The girl who recently broke up with you does not accept you for whom you are, and the emotions that you show. Analyze the relationship in a calm, relaxed manner. You may be in love with the girl, yet if the chemistry is not two-sided, for whatever the reason may be, chances are it will not work in the end. And chances are if you believe you can find a better girl for yourself, then you probably can, along with the added benefit of being able to drive yourself forward in life, rather than getting bent out of shape.Â
well familyguy i agree with you pal, but i cannot accept bad fates in life, i do not cry but i do get frustrated a lot,
and i cannot afford to lose her no way!:cry:
yeah i too hope sometime soon she will realize my love for her, and appreciate it as well.:oops:GrandSlasher26Good luck, if she doesn't then it's her loss and just make the best of what you do have:)
I've found it hard being sensitive, and emotional but I have been lucky to have found good people to be around, I haven't found a woman who appreciates how I am yet, but I am hoping someday it will happen for me:)double_deckerI have problems showing my emotions as well. Finding it hard to show my emotions has cost be dearly in the past. It cost me a relationship with a very special lady that I still think about even after a year and a half. Back on topic though it's better to be able to show emotion then not.
I think being sensitive can be a harmful trait, that should be desensitized through experience.
Sensitivity should be desensitized. Doing so makes that goddamn hard punch in the stomach, feel not so bad (hopefully). And desensitization occurs through repeated experiences.
thanks a lot for your wish double decker pal, but hey i cannot afford to lose her and there is no way now that i would be able to love any girl else, by the way i think you are a male but why do you have an image of some female in your post?!
and zeus well i have just seen your post pal, and all i can say is that i can understand a bit of your pain of broken heart, (i wish i never get that kind of pain), basically i think your image icon tells your sad facts of life and also from the fact that you gaved me the advise to express my self to the girl i love, if you are still single and if that girl/lady of yours is also single and if you think you can still accept here or if there is a chance then go for her pal!
i am having all sorts of emotional plannings in my head for her, for e.g. what if she is about to get hit by some vehicle and i am there and save her just in time and getting hurt myself in the process, so that she can feel and realize my love for her, or something like some punks try to talk bad jokes in front of her and i go and clean them up in front of her! (yeah in the society where she lives there is a small group of losers, i am always in tension whether is anyone harassing her in the road or that society, and all i can do is sit back and imagine and assume random situations of whats going on right now, what is she doing right now which is making me more sad! its sad to be alone from you love the most)
and yes i agree being too emotional and sensitive makes a person too soft which is wrong as small disappointments too would harm one's mind, especially its bad for a male in my opinion.
omigod thats what my therapist says to me all the time. its true you know reconditioning your mind can make you less sensitive.I think being sensitive can be a harmful trait, that should be desensitized through experience.
Sensitivity should be desensitized. Doing so makes that goddamn hard punch in the stomach, feel not so bad (hopefully). And desensitization occurs through repeated experiences.
cpthurme
[QUOTE="cpthurme"]omigod thats what my therapist says to me all the time. its true you know reconditioning your mind can make you less sensitive.I think being sensitive can be a harmful trait, that should be desensitized through experience.
Sensitivity should be desensitized. Doing so makes that goddamn hard punch in the stomach, feel not so bad (hopefully). And desensitization occurs through repeated experiences.
JustQuest
[QUOTE="JustQuest"][QUOTE="cpthurme"]omigod thats what my therapist says to me all the time. its true you know reconditioning your mind can make you less sensitive.I think being sensitive can be a harmful trait, that should be desensitized through experience.
Sensitivity should be desensitized. Doing so makes that goddamn hard punch in the stomach, feel not so bad (hopefully). And desensitization occurs through repeated experiences.
lord_mordain
[QUOTE="lord_mordain"][QUOTE="JustQuest"][QUOTE="cpthurme"]omigod thats what my therapist says to me all the time. its true you know reconditioning your mind can make you less sensitive.I think being sensitive can be a harmful trait, that should be desensitized through experience.
Sensitivity should be desensitized. Doing so makes that goddamn hard punch in the stomach, feel not so bad (hopefully). And desensitization occurs through repeated experiences.
Canuck3000
[QUOTE="Canuck3000"][QUOTE="lord_mordain"][QUOTE="JustQuest"][QUOTE="cpthurme"]omigod thats what my therapist says to me all the time. its true you know reconditioning your mind can make you less sensitive.I think being sensitive can be a harmful trait, that should be desensitized through experience.
Sensitivity should be desensitized. Doing so makes that goddamn hard punch in the stomach, feel not so bad (hopefully). And desensitization occurs through repeated experiences.
lord_mordain
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