Is it morally ok to sleep with someone the first time you meet them?

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#1 nicksonman
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Is it morally ok to sleep with someone the first time you meet them?

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#2 metroidprime55
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Yeah sure, if the two of them are fine with it than who care.
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#3 JML897
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I don't see any problem if both people consent to it
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#4 Spitfirer
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I agree with the sentiment so far. Nothing wrong with a sexual encounter.

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#5 ZumaJones07
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hi! -hi! wanna bang? -yes. k don't see a problem.
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#6 Fightingfan
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Yeah sure, if the two of them are fine with it than who care.metroidprime55
Same view here.
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#7 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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Not really seeing a problem so long as both are consenting adults.

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#8 ad1x2
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What may be moral to one person may be disgusting to another. I've done it and didn't feel bad later but I know others who would think you're a bad person for doing it. Religion would come into play as well for some people since in some denominations fornication is wrong.

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#9 worlock77
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Yes, it's perfectly fine.

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#10 markop2003
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Yes, however it is common courtesy to ask them first.
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#11 AussieePet
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Yes its is its dirty

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#12 WhiteKnight77
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I don't see a problem with it. It makes one night stands fun.

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#13 Fightingfan
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Yes its is its dirty

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I like dirty.
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#14 samuraiguns
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considering that sex is a human necessity, yeah, I'd think its quite alright...

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#15 worlock77
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Yes its is its dirty

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What's wrong with dirty? Dirty can be fun.

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#16 megagene
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I don't see why it wouldn't be okay barring any religious reasons.
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#17 minh800
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Morally? Not according to most religions. Ethically? Hey, if he/she is consenting, who cares?

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#18 Skarwolf
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If you're worried about morals you wouldn't be in that type of situation anyways.

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What may be moral to one person may be disgusting to another. I've done it and didn't feel bad later but I know others who would think you're a bad person for doing it. Religion would come into play as well for some people since in some denominations fornication is wrong.

ad1x2

This is true. For me, it is morally wrong to be that irresponsible(reckless.)

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#20 NerubianWeaver
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Nope. Sex is a sacred act and should only be saved after marriage.
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#21 Stinger78
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Is it morally ok to sleep with someone the first time you meet them?

Nicksonman
I'd say it is ok to sleep with anyone, as in literal sleeping. Now, it's actions commonly referred to as 'sleep' that would cause issues with some belief systems. To samuraiguns who said 'human necessity' - well compared to eating and drinking and anything to do with survival of a person, no. Sex is not a necessity for a person to live, it's only necessary in the continuation of the human race.
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#22 Skarwolf
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Nope. Sex is a sacred act and should only be saved after marriage. NerubianWeaver

In your opinion, you mean.

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#23 willzthegamer
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No, I wouldn't like that. I would prefer to get know them a bit more before sleeping with one.
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#24 nicksonman
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Nope. Sex is a sacred act and should only be saved after marriage. NerubianWeaver
Yeah, it's the same crap over and over. It needs to be proven that it's sacred.
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#25 JML897
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[QUOTE="Nicksonman"]

Is it morally ok to sleep with someone the first time you meet them?

Stinger78
I'd say it is ok to sleep with anyone, as in literal sleeping. Now, it's actions commonly referred to as 'sleep' that would cause issues with some belief systems. To samuraiguns who said 'human necessity' - well compared to eating and drinking and anything to do with survival of a person, no. Sex is not a necessity for a person to live, it's only necessary in the continuation of the human race.

You overthink things
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#26 Skarwolf
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In a persons opinion if they've been brainwashed to think that its somehow sacred and requires marriage then thats what they can believe.

The majority of normal, and not insane and not brainwashed people don't believe that however.

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#28 AussieePet
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"]

Yes its is its dirty

Fightingfan

I like dirty.

How dirty are u ?

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#30 Bucked20
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Nothing is wrong with it,just don't go raw
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#31 AussieePet
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[QUOTE="AussieePet"]

Yes its is its dirty

worlock77

What's wrong with dirty? Dirty can be fun.

Dirty is only fun when theres more than 2 people involved jk

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#32 DocDelicious
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Is strange fun? Yes. Is it morally acceptable? Depends on your moral compass.
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#33 Skarwolf
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Yes I declare by my superior morals its ok to sleep with people you meet the first time. So long as they're willing :P Forcing them isn't morally acceptable :twisted:

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#34 Overlord93
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Depends if they consent or not
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#35 FlamesOfGrey
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I personally think it's disgusting but if someone else wants to do it then that's on them. We all have different standards and morals.
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#36 Stinger78
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Yes I declare by my superior morals its ok to sleep with people you meet the first time. So long as they're willing :P Forcing them isn't morally acceptable :twisted:

Skarwolf
"Forcing" may also be considered rape and is illegal, but I may just be 'overthinking things' as someone else commented on my last post.
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#37 Skarwolf
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Its not that you're over thinking its that you aren't comprehending sarcasm.

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#38 needled24-7
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as long as it's consentual, then sure.

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#39 Krelian-co
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no, contrary to what anyone her e says man unconounciously thinks any woman that does its is an easy one and will not be taken seriously.

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#40 -DirtySanchez-
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depends on your morals
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#41 DroidPhysX
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no, contrary to what anyone her e says man unconounciously thinks any woman that does its is an easy one and will not be taken seriously.

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yeah...we'll go with this......
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#42 MistressMinako
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Morally okay? If it is a guy, then it is probably okay. If it is a girl, get ready to be called a whore, the answer would be no. Personally, I don't care. What people do in their lives is none of my business.
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#43 ToastRider11
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It's shallow and pathetic.

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#44 worlock77
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Nope. Sex is a sacred act and should only be saved after marriage. NerubianWeaver

What makes it sacred?

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#45 Fandangle
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Why not?

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#46 GazaAli
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It's obvious that this is gonna be mostly influenced by religious views/upbringing. On a more purely logical point of view, I don't think it's safe to do so, but I could be wrong. Enlighten me.
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#47 worlock77
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It's obvious that this is gonna be mostly influenced by religious views/upbringing. On a more purely logical point of view, I don't think it's safe to do so, but I could be wrong. Enlighten me. GazaAli

It's not really safe or unsafe in and of itself.

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#48 HoolaHoopMan
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Yes, and its quite fun.
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#49 zeldaluff
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Voted no, but I don't think it's 'disgusting'.

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#50 dkdk999
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lol people use the word "morally" so oddly. Immoral to sleep with someone ?