Is it wrong to find the same sex attractive?

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#51 Pixel-Pirate
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[QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

No. Nobody can really control what they're attracted to.

mindstorm

I don't think that argument really applies for other moral questions. What if a pedophile makes that argument?

From what I've read, studies point to that pedophiles can't control their attraction.

It is a mental illness for a reason.

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#55 LikeHaterade
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Exactly. I find the sight a guy's luggage gag-inducing.

dhyce

You're just jealous.

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#56 jubino
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[QUOTE="Hygiene_Product"] The ropes?

Oh wow. Not what I ever expected to see :lol:
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#57 deactivated-6016f2513d412
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No, absolutely not.
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#58 roflumadkid
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Sexual attraction? Yes.... Otherwise, no.
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#59 dhyce
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You're just jealous.

LikeHaterade

It's hideous. It makes me desire lobotomization, so as to remove the memories inspired therefrom. I occasionally have war-sque flashbacks pertaining to spotting the off male family member in the nude and a few (drunken) friends; I've enough night terrors, thanks.

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#60 LikeHaterade
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"]

You're just jealous.

dhyce

It's hideous. It makes me desire lobotomization, so as to remove the memories inspired therefrom. I occasionally have war-sque flashbacks pertaining to spotting the off male family member in the nude and a few (drunken) friends; I've enough night terrors, thanks.

Alright. Now you're starting to make me feel bad lol.

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#61 dhyce
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Alright. Now you're starting to make me feel bad lol.

LikeHaterade

I kid. But really, it does show the huuuuge differences in attraction. How I can practically view men as so unsexually attractive, I cannot fathom finding them as such. It's a subject I do find immensely fascinating: sexuality in general, not just the homosexuality versus straight and bi debacle. I'm fervently passionate on the topic of sexual attraction, although too tipsy to rightly comment now. I'm far too giddy.

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#62 Upparoom
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I have no strong feelings one way or the other

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#63 LikeHaterade
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I kid. But really, it does show the huuuuge differences in attraction. How I can practically view men as so unsexually attractive, I cannot fathom finding them as such. It's a subject I do find immensely fascinating: sexuality in general, not just the homosexuality versus straight and bi debacle. I'm fervently passionate on the topic of sexual attraction, although too tipsy to rightly comment now. I'm far too giddy.

dhyce

Nice. I'd try and take advantage of you but, well... you know.

In all seriousness though, I see where you're coming from. I have no sexual attraction to men whatsoever either. It's just the way that I am. Well, every guy except Xaos.

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#64 MagnumPI
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Depends on what you mean when you say wrong. Maybe wrong as inincorrect or abnormal butNOT wrong as in unacceptable or criminal. It's not absolutely wrong.More like improper, I say improper because wrong is a term that often means unacceptableor NOT okay. Nobody is perfect. Who can say they are 100% proper? Maybe a lier.

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#65 dhyce
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Nice. I'd try and take advantage of you but, well... you know.

LikeHaterade

Long distances across separate computers have been known to inhibit rape from time to time. I know, it's very tragic. I could be neck-deep in regret by now.

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#66 LikeHaterade
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Long distances across separate computers have been known to inhibit rape from time to time. I know, it's very tragic. I could be neck-deep in regret by now.

dhyce

Well I was hoping you'd be interested in me, but I have a penis Don't judge me.

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#67 MuddyMaestro
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I think think that it's made a bigger issue than it really is. Why people need to infringe on others fulfilling their sexual attractions, whether it's straight or not, really makes no sense; it makes no difference to me, and should be the business of others. It exists and it isn't going to just go away, and it's a shame when people are immediately judged by it.

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#68 dhyce
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Well I was hoping you'd be interested in me, but I have a penis Don't judge me.

LikeHaterade

You could always say it's a horrific growth. I've believed more far-fetched tales whilst drunk.

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#69 LikeHaterade
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"]

Well I was hoping you'd be interested in me, but I have a penis Don't judge me.

dhyce

You could always say it's a horrific growth. I've believed more far-fetched tales whilst drunk.

Err, I so want to say something bad about yours, but I'd be lying. It's not fair. :(

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#70 foxhound_fox
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Wrong in what way and to whom? Christianity, Islam and Judaism all teach their followers to love God in a very much erotic fashion... and then try to justify the homoeroticism for male followers in the sense that the male follower is becoming the "wife of Christ" (for Christianity at least) and makes a symbolical gender-shift... but is essentially built on a homoerotic foundation. And what about Catholic priests? How do they cope with their homosexuality in a religious system that calls it a sin? Well, they transfer that love for men onto God and remain celibate, serving only God and loving God as his "wife."

But then again, who am I as a heretical heterosexual hermeneut to say things like this?

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#71 dhyce
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Err, I so want to say something bad about yours, but I'd be lying. It's not fair. :(

LikeHaterade

I'm sure only Xaos is able to concoct an adequate criticism of my girly-luggage. Those crazy gay dudes and their vehement despisal of vagina.

So zany.

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#72 Good-Apollo
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You can't help who you're attracted to, although women seem to be more flexible in their sexuality (or maybe the straight ones are just all bisexual?).

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#73 foxhound_fox
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You can't help who you're attracted to, although women seem to be more flexible in their sexuality (or maybe the straight ones are just all bisexual?).

Good-Apollo


My theory is that we are all conceived bisexual, but certain hormonal changes and environmental effects cause those preferences to change over time (at least before hitting puberty).

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#74 1i1Demon
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so wrong......so very, very wrong :D

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#75 Teenaged
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[QUOTE="DJ-Lafleur"]

No. Nobody can really control what they're attracted to.

mindstorm

I don't think that argument really applies for other moral questions. What if a pedophile makes that argument?

It still aplies.

The pedophile just mustnt act upon his/her desires.

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#76 LIONHEART-_-
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Nah, you just find the guy attractive that's all. But I'll say yes that's wrong if you actually like the guy.

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#77 l4dak47
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If I see an extremely attractive guy, I'll admit that he's attractive. But I won't try to have sex with him. Is it wrong? No, it's not.
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#78 BiancaDK
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Depends on where You live
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#79 Neon_Blaster
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No. It's the way you are and you aren't changing it, so live with it and enjoy it. I did.

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#80 scorch-62
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Of course not.
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#81 markop2003
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Of course it is!!! Only sinners are attracted to things, repent! Repent!
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#82 Bourbons3
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Of course not.
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#83 joesh89
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Well if your gay no... and if you're not gay no again.

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#84 SteverXIII
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The short answer

Yes.

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#85 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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I don't think you have a choice in what you sex you find attractive. So no, it is not wrong.

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#86 joesh89
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The short answer

Yes.

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And whats the long answer?

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#87 BiancaDK
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I don't think you have a choice in what you sex you find attractive. So no, it is not wrong.

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If something simply by not being an option is automatically excempt from not being wrong, it cannot by the same merit be right. If it isn't objectively right, I can claim it to be as wrong as you can claim it to be right, so unless Your comment is merely a reflection of Your own personal feelings on the matter, it doesn't really say much I'm afraid
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#88 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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[QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="sonicare"]

I don't think you have a choice in what you sex you find attractive. So no, it is not wrong.

If something simply by not being an option is automatically excempt from not being wrong, it cannot by the same merit be right. If it isn't objectively right, I can claim it to be as wrong as you can claim it to be right, so unless Your comment is merely a reflection of Your own personal feelings on the matter, it doesn't really say much I'm afraid

I'm saying sexual attraction is neither right nor wrong, it just is.
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#89 BiancaDK
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[QUOTE="sonicare"][QUOTE="BiancaDK"][QUOTE="sonicare"]

I don't think you have a choice in what you sex you find attractive. So no, it is not wrong.

If something simply by not being an option is automatically excempt from not being wrong, it cannot by the same merit be right. If it isn't objectively right, I can claim it to be as wrong as you can claim it to be right, so unless Your comment is merely a reflection of Your own personal feelings on the matter, it doesn't really say much I'm afraid

I'm saying sexual attraction is neither right nor wrong, it just is.

There we go! =3
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#90 travisstaggs
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No its not.

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#91 Second_Rook
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I don't think so. I was watching an episode of Fear Itself last night and none of the women in it were nearly as attractive as Brandon Routh. I'm not even gay but I can recognize sex appeal in either gender.
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#92 Theokhoth
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No. . .
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#93 mitu123
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But it feels good man.

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Yep, I don't mind either.:D

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#94 CaptainSchwamm
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I don't think so. I was watching an episode of Fear Itself last night and none of the women in it were nearly as attractive as Brandon Routh. I'm not even gay but I can recognize sex appeal in either gender. Second_Rook
I hated that guy in Chuck! :x
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#95 fabz_95
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Lol, there's nothing wrong with that.
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#96 WHATWHATISIT
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Of course it bloody isn't
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#97 nintendoboy16
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Any reason why it would be wrong? Because I see no reason why it should be. Meaning: No. Not at all.
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#98 yellerbelly
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Acknowledging someone of the same sex is good looking =/= attraction Sexual attraction =/= acting on inclinations.
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#99 Atmanix
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[QUOTE="LikeHaterade"]

You're just jealous.

dhyce

It's hideous. It makes me desire lobotomization, so as to remove the memories inspired therefrom. I occasionally have war-sque flashbacks pertaining to spotting the off male family member in the nude and a few (drunken) friends; I've enough night terrors, thanks.

I think I just inverted.

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#100 AussieePet
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Wow there are a lot of gay/bi people on here. Seems like everyone on here is in the closet.