is religion really that important in a relationship?

my buddy jimmy was going out with some chick for a month,and when she found out he didnt beleive in jesus the other day,she broke itup!can you believe that?
i was talking with my friend meaghan today,and she said its very important to her that her boyfriend has the same beliefs.

i just dont see why its important to have the same beleifs in that kind of relationship.how much passion you have for a religion does not equal how much passion you have for eachother.

redicoulus imo.

gays dont think it is.123625

I think its perfectly fine, some people firmly believe that believers should not marry non-believers, my best friend is that way, and he was the one who showed me god for the first time. So I've been saved and in the process I found the girl I plan to marry. Personally, I think its fine for believers to marry non-believers because the bible says they should not "lay" together, and in the bible "lay" is generally used in the sense of intercourse. My interpretation is that believers should not bare children with non believers.Beaman

wuh?so wait...this girl who you plan to marry,you probably love her for the usual stuff,shes the better half yada yada yada.so you would let her go if she decided one day that she didnt believe in jesus anymore?

gays dont think it is.123625

...thats a little....uhhh...
forget it :roll:

Well, it's kind of forbidden for a christian to marry a non christian.jim_shorts

[QUOTE="Beaman"]I think its perfectly fine, some people firmly believe that believers should not marry non-believers, my best friend is that way, and he was the one who showed me god for the first time. So I've been saved and in the process I found the girl I plan to marry. Personally, I think its fine for believers to marry non-believers because the bible says they should not "lay" together, and in the bible "lay" is generally used in the sense of intercourse. My interpretation is that believers should not bare children with non believers.guitboxdude25

wuh?so wait...this girl who you plan to marry,you probably love her for the usual stuff,shes the better half yada yada yada.so you would let her go if she decided one day that she didnt believe in jesus anymore?

[QUOTE="guitboxdude25"]

[QUOTE="Beaman"]I think its perfectly fine, some people firmly believe that believers should not marry non-believers, my best friend is that way, and he was the one who showed me god for the first time. So I've been saved and in the process I found the girl I plan to marry. Personally, I think its fine for believers to marry non-believers because the bible says they should not "lay" together, and in the bible "lay" is generally used in the sense of intercourse. My interpretation is that believers should not bare children with non believers.Beaman

wuh?so wait...this girl who you plan to marry,you probably love her for the usual stuff,shes the better half yada yada yada.so you would let her go if she decided one day that she didnt believe in jesus anymore?

[QUOTE="Beaman"][QUOTE="guitboxdude25"]

[QUOTE="Beaman"]I think its perfectly fine, some people firmly believe that believers should not marry non-believers, my best friend is that way, and he was the one who showed me god for the first time. So I've been saved and in the process I found the girl I plan to marry. Personally, I think its fine for believers to marry non-believers because the bible says they should not "lay" together, and in the bible "lay" is generally used in the sense of intercourse. My interpretation is that believers should not bare children with non believers.-MuadDib-

wuh?so wait...this girl who you plan to marry,you probably love her for the usual stuff,shes the better half yada yada yada.so you would let her go if she decided one day that she didnt believe in jesus anymore?

Then thats her choice. But I can GUARANTEE that wont ever happen.Beaman

Not saying that it's probable, but it's certainly something that you should consider.

my buddy jimmy was going out with some chick for a month,and when she found out he didnt beleive in jesus the other day,she broke itup!can you believe that?
i was talking with my friend meaghan today,and she said its very important to her that her boyfriend has the same beliefs.

i just dont see why its important to have the same beleifs in that kind of relationship.how much passion you have for a religion does not equal how much passion you have for eachother.

redicoulus imo.

guitboxdude25

[QUOTE="Beaman"]
Then thats her choice. But I can GUARANTEE that wont ever happen.-MuadDib-

Not saying that it's probable, but it's certainly something that you should consider.

[QUOTE="guitboxdude25"]

my buddy jimmy was going out with some chick for a month,and when she found out he didnt beleive in jesus the other day,she broke itup!can you believe that?
i was talking with my friend meaghan today,and she said its very important to her that her boyfriend has the same beliefs.

i just dont see why its important to have the same beleifs in that kind of relationship.how much passion you have for a religion does not equal how much passion you have for eachother.

redicoulus imo.

Nerfit

yes,they were in love,although most love as teens isnt really love,they were in love.thats what i thought was bad about it.

[QUOTE="-MuadDib-"]

[QUOTE="Beaman"]
Then thats her choice. But I can GUARANTEE that wont ever happen.Beaman

Not saying that it's probable, but it's certainly something that you should consider.

[QUOTE="-MuadDib-"]

[QUOTE="Beaman"]
Then thats her choice. But I can GUARANTEE that wont ever happen.Beaman

Not saying that it's probable, but it's certainly something that you should consider.

i understand what your saying,its just kind of hard to comprehend someone as religous as you are,especially when your not the same way.its just strange to me when people let religion interfer with things in there life when relgion really shouldnt influence.

i understand what your saying,its just kind of hard to comprehend someone as religous as you are,especially when your not the same way.its just strange to me when people let religion interfer with things in there life when relgion really shouldnt influence.

guitboxdude25

my buddy jimmy was going out with some chick for a month,and when she found out he didnt beleive in jesus the other day,she broke itup!can you believe that?
i was talking with my friend meaghan today,and she said its very important to her that her boyfriend has the same beliefs.

i just dont see why its important to have the same beleifs in that kind of relationship.how much passion you have for a religion does not equal how much passion you have for eachother.

redicoulus imo.

guitboxdude25

Yes it's important, and it's why I'll never date a religious person.

I can spend my entire time teaching my kids science and reason. But then when I'm at work, my religious wife is just gonna whip out her holy texts behind my back and try to undermine everything I tried to teach my kids.

Hell yes, religion is important. Do you want your wife telling your firstborn son/daughter that you are an ingerently evil man who is going to hell?

[QUOTE="guitboxdude25"]

i understand what your saying,its just kind of hard to comprehend someone as religous as you are,especially when your not the same way.its just strange to me when people let religion interfer with things in there life when relgion really shouldnt influence.

-MuadDib-

i see,but i just wish people could guide themselves......idk.

[QUOTE="guitboxdude25"]

my buddy jimmy was going out with some chick for a month,and when she found out he didnt beleive in jesus the other day,she broke itup!can you believe that?
i was talking with my friend meaghan today,and she said its very important to her that her boyfriend has the same beliefs.

i just dont see why its important to have the same beleifs in that kind of relationship.how much passion you have for a religion does not equal how much passion you have for eachother.

redicoulus imo.

MrGeezer

Yes it's important, and it's why I'll never date a religious person.

I can spend my entire time teaching my kids science and reason. But then when I'm at work, my religious wife is just gonna whip out her holy texts behind my back and try to undermine everything I tried to teach my kids.

Hell yes, religion is important. Do you want your wife telling your firstborn son/daughter that you are an ingerently evil man who is going to hell?

well,if your wife really loved you,she wouldnt in the first place.thats the thing,you could be the most hardcore athiest,and marry the most extreme christian,but it shouldnt matter because your married,and most likely in love.

well,if your wife really loved you,she wouldnt in the first place.thats the thing,you could be the most hardcore athiest,and marry the most extreme christian,but it shouldnt matter because your married,and most likely in love.

guitboxdude25

[QUOTE="MrGeezer"][QUOTE="guitboxdude25"]

my buddy jimmy was going out with some chick for a month,and when she found out he didnt beleive in jesus the other day,she broke itup!can you believe that?
i was talking with my friend meaghan today,and she said its very important to her that her boyfriend has the same beliefs.

i just dont see why its important to have the same beleifs in that kind of relationship.how much passion you have for a religion does not equal how much passion you have for eachother.

redicoulus imo.

guitboxdude25

Yes it's important, and it's why I'll never date a religious person.

I can spend my entire time teaching my kids science and reason. But then when I'm at work, my religious wife is just gonna whip out her holy texts behind my back and try to undermine everything I tried to teach my kids.

Hell yes, religion is important. Do you want your wife telling your firstborn son/daughter that you are an ingerently evil man who is going to hell?

well,if your wife really loved you,she wouldnt in the first place.thats the thing,you could be the most hardcore athiest,and marry the most extreme christian,but it shouldnt matter because your married,and most likely in love.

If my wife really believed that the only way to avoid eternal damnation was to accept Jesus Christ as her saviour, then she ought to love my kids enough to try to prevent them from following me on the path towards Hell.

Doesn't mean she doesn't love me, it just means that she loves our children more. Which she most certainly should.

respect for someones religion is always more important than having the same religion.

Most likely somewhere along the road even w/ the same beliefs you're going to differ on something. If you can't learn to work with and respect those differences then your relationship won't work if you're the same religion or not.

my buddy jimmy was going out with some chick for a month,and when she found out he didnt beleive in jesus the other day,she broke itup!can you believe that?
i was talking with my friend meaghan today,and she said its very important to her that her boyfriend has the same beliefs.

i just dont see why its important to have the same beleifs in that kind of relationship.how much passion you have for a religion does not equal how much passion you have for eachother.

redicoulus imo.

guitboxdude25

Seems like a bit of a ***** to me...

lol religionWhicker89