Is Sex before marriage bad?

if pregnancy is bad, then possibly.

It's considered a sin. But lying is a sin. And people lie everyday.mii56

so that makes it right? Many of my friends think this way. For ex. because they see many doing it they think its ok but in reality it isnt.

Only if you are.

I'm afraid when I start looking for some one again, their gonna temp into sex before marriage... so is it bad?Simsfreak14

[QUOTE="mii56"]It's considered a sin. But lying is a sin. And people lie everyday.Tjeremiah1988

so that makes it right? Many of my friends think this way. For ex. because they see many doing it they think its ok but in reality it isnt.

[QUOTE="Simsfreak14"]I'm afraid when I start looking for some one again, their gonna temp into sex before marriage... so is it bad?VacantPsalm

I'm Roman Catholic...

its only bad religiously, not really societally. so if you arent really that relious then it isnt that bad.curtkobain

Not really. I have heard some agnostic people say they will wait till marriage. People have different principles regardless of religion.

16 year old's are getting pregnant left and right, so you're fine. Just you know...wear protection.-hotaru-

[QUOTE="curtkobain"]its only bad religiously, not really societally. so if you arent really that relious then it isnt that bad.muffincakes87

Not really. I have heard some agnostic people say they will wait till marriage. People have different principles regardless of religion.

You don't want to marry someone and then find out that the sex is terrible, do you? Of course not, then you'll be tempted to look elsewhere.

That's right, premarital sex strengthens a marriage when you think about it.

Bio_Spark

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]

[QUOTE="mii56"]It's considered a sin. But lying is a sin. And people lie everyday.mii56

so that makes it right? Many of my friends think this way. For ex. because they see many doing it they think its ok but in reality it isnt.

how isnt it wrong?

[QUOTE="VacantPsalm"][QUOTE="Simsfreak14"]I'm afraid when I start looking for some one again, their gonna temp into sex before marriage... so is it bad?Simsfreak14

I'm Roman Catholic...

[QUOTE="Bio_Spark"]

You don't want to marry someone and then find out that the sex is terrible, do you? Of course not, then you'll be tempted to look elsewhere.

That's right, premarital sex strengthens a marriage when you think about it.

quiglythegreat

[QUOTE="mii56"][QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]

[QUOTE="mii56"]It's considered a sin. But lying is a sin. And people lie everyday.Tjeremiah1988

so that makes it right? Many of my friends think this way. For ex. because they see many doing it they think its ok but in reality it isnt.

how isnt it wrong?

[QUOTE="Simsfreak14"]

[QUOTE="VacantPsalm"][QUOTE="Simsfreak14"]I'm afraid when I start looking for some one again, their gonna temp into sex before marriage... so is it bad?VacantPsalm

I'm Roman Catholic...

[QUOTE="mii56"][QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]

[QUOTE="mii56"]It's considered a sin. But lying is a sin. And people lie everyday.Tjeremiah1988

so that makes it right? Many of my friends think this way. For ex. because they see many doing it they think its ok but in reality it isnt.

how isnt it wrong?

Sex should be saved until you're ready, period. For some people that means marriage, for some it doesn't.famicommander

You definitely win the award for the most intelligent response. Moral decisions that affect the individual such as this one are best left out of the hands of the masses.

[QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"][QUOTE="mii56"][QUOTE="Tjeremiah1988"]

[QUOTE="mii56"]It's considered a sin. But lying is a sin. And people lie everyday.curtkobain

so that makes it right? Many of my friends think this way. For ex. because they see many doing it they think its ok but in reality it isnt.

how isnt it wrong?

[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"][QUOTE="Bio_Spark"]

You don't want to marry someone and then find out that the sex is terrible, do you? Of course not, then you'll be tempted to look elsewhere.

That's right, premarital sex strengthens a marriage when you think about it.

ssc0n

You don't want to marry someone and then find out that the sex is terrible, do you? Of course not, then you'll be tempted to look elsewhere.

That's right, premarital sex strengthens a marriage when you think about it.

Bio_Spark

[QUOTE="-hotaru-"]16 year old's are getting pregnant left and right, so you're fine. Just you know...wear protection.quiglythegreat

I've hear dless then that :| Like 7 or something.

[QUOTE="quiglythegreat"][QUOTE="-hotaru-"]16 year old's are getting pregnant left and right, so you're fine. Just you know...wear protection.NFS102

I've hear dless then that :| Like 7 or something.

[QUOTE="ssc0n"][QUOTE="quiglythegreat"][QUOTE="Bio_Spark"]

You don't want to marry someone and then find out that the sex is terrible, do you? Of course not, then you'll be tempted to look elsewhere.

That's right, premarital sex strengthens a marriage when you think about it.

quiglythegreat

no its not bad for a guy but it is for a girl

I agree with you to an extent. But I see it as an amazing way to express your love for your companion, which isnt trivial to me.ssc0n

[QUOTE="muffincakes87"]

[QUOTE="curtkobain"]its only bad religiously, not really societally. so if you arent really that relious then it isnt that bad.curtkobain

Not really. I have heard some agnostic people say they will wait till marriage. People have different principles regardless of religion.

True.

Hey to the Op who is Catholic, ya premarital sex is a very bad sin to committ, against the commandment of adultery. In the Catholic Church, sex is only justified between two people married to each other open to the possiblity of life.

As for a general viewpoint, i would say sex b4 marriage is still bad, even at school they teach us to Just Wait. It makes sense, you don't wanna risk getting a std or getting pregnant so on so. Too much risk. Furthermore, i think it's important to view that sex should be reserved for the right one, your spouse. Many times sex is just done to feed our urges, which sometimes just objectifies women, and i think women need more respect from males.

What I don't understand is people think as soon as your married that automaticaly makes you able to have a kid and invunerable to STDs.

You can get STDs not just from sex, but from sharing clothes, public toilet seats and sharing the same bed.

If your partner has a major STD chances are you won't know about it and WILL pick it up regardless if you have sex inside or outside marriage.

Sex will also come into play when deciding when to get married and often result in a rushed marriage, then loss of virginity and makes the heartbreak worse.

And back to my original point, just because your married does not mean HEY I CAN SUPPORT A CHILD! There are couples in young 20s who are married and just starting their careers. Do they want children? Possibly not. Would it make a difference if they were married or just partners when they have a kid? Probably not.

Marriage is just a slip of paper and something to the goverment. It shouldn't dictate what you can or cannot do.

Afterall if you push sex back because you arn't married but you are indeed ready it'll end up turning worse out for yourself.