I really do not understand what is going on here. I am the only one contributingsomething worthwhile to this discussion in the way of an original opinion based on astrong logical argument and even though there are several here who are eager to weigh in not ONE person has even acknowledged what I am saying.
No nobody specifically choose to be gay....however someone could choose their attitudes in life which could lead them to have a bad experiencewith the opposite sexwhich could then in turn lead them to beopen to "bi-curious" behavior where they fantasize about the opposite sex instead and they could then do this enough to the point where the male brain believes it is female and viceversa.
PEOPLE ARE NOT BORN GAY It is a pyschological condition the result of social attitudes towards passive males and dominant females and also conditioning oftenwhat someone does to themselves.
Gay people wanteveryone else to believe it is not a choiceNOT because of the science but becauseof POLITICS. You see ifthey can convince the world that it is not a choice then theyfeel they willnot be made responsible forwhat the world and themselves have done to themselves.
Many people won't like this answer but I am confident it is the best one.
People can have predispositions to either being submissive or dominant. How an individual reacts to their own tendency can detirmine how their brain becomes "programed". As anyone who has studied psychology knows, the brain can be conditioned to automatically respond to external stimuli. So this means the guy who says biochemistry has a role in homosexuality is correct in a sense but neglects the fact that your choices can change how your brain chemistry is programed. The heredity aspect is not 100 percent the answer because your stereotypical gay man is still compatible with your average "lesbian." The truth is that human sexuality is much more complicated then most straights or gays would like to admit. This is because Straights want to conclusively establish they will never be gay and gays want to rationalize a decision that much of the world persecutes them for.
In the end it is a choice influenced by heredity and social attitudes. Nature and nurture.
Seriously someone actually argue this. Most of you gay or bi-curious people know this is the truth but don't want to admit it. Straights don't want to touch it either because they want to feel comfortable in their permanent straight identities.
For those of you struggling with this I promise you were not born that way and you don't have to spend your whole life that way.
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