Is this considored bullying?

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#51 chansaet
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dude kick there ass. If you show them that you don't take any $%! they'll most likely leave you alone and probably even respect you more. Since most likely there doing this because they know you wont do anything about it.

I really don't remember alot of people being bullied back in HS. I think like these 2-4 guys were getting bullied by like all of the douche bagred necks (Yeah I came from a rural town). Anyway they stopped getting bullied once all of them joined together. People left them alone after that I think.

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#52 cooler890
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how old are you that you still get bullied?
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#53 I_pWnzz_YoU
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dude kick there ass. If you show them that you don't take any $%! they'll most likely leave you alone and probably even respect you more. Since most likely there doing this because they know you wont do anything about it.

I really don't remember alot of people being bullied back in HS. I think like these 2-4 guys were getting bullied by like all of the douche bagred necks (Yeah I came from a rural town). Anyway they stopped getting bullied once all of them joined together. People left them alone after that I think.

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They'll either back off, or get back up.

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#54 MrGeezer
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Not only are they bullying you, they are also assaulting you. You better do something about it (such as defend yourself or call the police) or be aware that they may step up their game and do something worse to you.

Some people think walking away or turning a blind eye to a problem is avoid trouble, but that simply is not always true.

If everyone ignored a problem, the world would be in complete ruin.

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Keep in mind that by reporting the problem, that is also very likely to make them "step up their game".

Thing is, what the hell do you think is gonna happen if these bullies happen to find out that the TC reported them? In all probability, they will REALLY let him have it for being a punk snitch.

Really, the only one in any position to say what SHOULD be done is the TC. He clearly states that their bullying doesn't really bother him. So his next step is up to him.

He could fight back. That may get the bullies to back off in the long run, but it's probably sure to guarantee at least one severe ass-beating. It also may cause the bullies to step up their game. Possible outcome #1: they leave him alone. Possible outcome #2: they beat the **** out of him, then they leave him alone. Possible outcome #3: they severely escalate the bullying, and make it worse than it ever was before.

Or he could report the bullies. In all likelihood, that WILL get the bullies to escalate their bullying. Though it MAY save him from a tragedy in the unlikely event that the bullies were eventually going to seriously escalate things regardless of what he did.

I'm not one for telling people what they should do (at least not in this case). I'd rather just point out that there could be varying possible outcomes for ANY course of action, and it's up to the TC to judge for himself what to do.

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#55 MrGeezer
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Uhm...if they hit you, you can punch them in their f***ing faces until their noses break. It's called self defense and they had it coming. What will happen is you'll get suspended for a few days while the whole situation gets resolved, no biggie.Ghost_702

Or he could get expelled. Some schools have a zero tolerance policy on any kind of fighting, regardless of whose fault it was.

Or he could get his pants sued off by the kids whose nose he broke.

Or he might try to break their noses, at which point they cripple/murder him.

Probably none of those things will happen. But let's suppose that he retaliates and DOES break someone's nose. Let's say he causes one of the bullies to lose an eye. Next thing you know, he's getting sued in court for medical expenses and the trauma that he inflicted. His defense will be that they had it coming. But he'll not be able to prove any instance in which they injured him, which makes taking their eyes sort of excessive.

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#56 yabbicoke
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Sounds like you're in denial.
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#57 Akm4everz
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Currently, these two kids (totally different ppl, so no ganging up here) I guess are bullying me. But, I dont really care that they do it. They usually punch & kick and blah blah blah (and it doesnt even hurt most of the time). But, I just dont care. I just shrug it off. The only time it really annoyed me was when I took a History test and the bruise on my shin kinda hurt and was distracting (although it didnt really change my overall grade). So, is this bullying? Do you think it will be a problem in the future? Should I even do about it?tri-edge99

dude where do they live... i'll eff these kids up for u.

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#58 foxhound_fox
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They are hitting you hard enough to leave bruises? That is easily considered bullying. Talk to an administrator at your school about the problem and don't feel embarrassed about it, they deserve to be punished quite thoroughly.
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#59 boshlonavish
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If they leave bruises, they obviously aren't doing it in a friendly way. If they do it again, tell them to stop, and if they do it again after that, punch or kick one of them as hard as you possibly can, just enough to hurt him but not do any serious damage, and that should tell them that you aren't to be f*cked with.
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#60 ElectronicMagic
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Yes, I consider that bullying. You need to stand up for yourself or people will walk all over you for the rest of your life. Be fearless and stand up for yourself, bullies pick on those that they perceive to be weak. If you stand up for yourself they will realize you weren't weak at all and will eventually leave you alone.

I was bullied a bit when I first started junior high, but after awhile I had enough and I called the bullies bluff and they backed down and I was never bothered again.