And honestly, if someone says they "love" a person, thus they want to have sexual contact with that person, how is pleasuring each other "love"? Can't you show love through kind deeds? How are you loving the person when you're using them as your source of physical pleasure?
I would say that if this is truly human nature, than the other party is the accomplice of the "crime," not the victim, like France in the coup d'etat of 1848. People aren't like toys that you can just have such an intimate fun with
Then how do couples manage to do so? Love is shown through kind deeds and sacrifices for the person. It's understandable that a kiss is a symbol of love, but this can lead to something more intense which can become immoral and out of control, which in no way is "love."
What are 'love' and 'kindness'? On the point of sacrifices, if one is used by another for sex in a relationship, while also using the other person, are they not, in allowing themselves to be used, sacrificing for another? Maybe this is the raison de'etre for the relationship. If one continues to pleasure him/herself, it can get out of control like a drug or addiction, and take over their mind. This is just a possibility, but still something to be concerned about.
Good, you recognized that it is just a possibility. Then, as long as I retain control, I can **** whenever I please, right? I'm sure some of you are wondering, "Then why is eating tasty food for pleasure, or playing video games for pleasure not wrong?" The answer is moderation. With moderation with these things, and if we conrol ourselves, it's fine.
You are still making the choice --- wherefore should one be moderate about it? Stimulating the mind with games or soothing our taste buds are healthy if we can have moderation.
You are projecting this too thin and opaque, over the situation and over your retina: if we base this solely on 'moderation' we are still running the risk of irresponsibility. Just because we drink something in moderation does not mean that we are being responsible or healthy. In conclusion, I'm not saying that its a sin to pleasure yourself sexually, I'm saying that it isn't the reason that we've been given these urges,
Given by who and what, when and where? and that with moderation and understanding, we can see that people shouldn't be seen as sexual icons,
Why not? With the knowledge that just because something is used in moderation does not mean that it is beneficial, we should not take your word for it. and that we won't be taking these pleasures with us when we die. If people balance their portions of sexual pleasure, it will help develop a cleaner mind.
What is a cleaner mind, and how are pleasures taken with you when you die? If people begin to understand the sexual impulse and learn to harness it, we will become more mature and less like non-intellectual animals. Sex is a big thing these days, actually it's always been a big thing. But if we concentrat a lttle less on it (and I don't mean just stop right now) and focus more on developing our qualities. I know that everyone does this already, but I'll say it anyway.
So we should not have sex until we are 1337 at it? Finally, I want you all to know that I respect your opinions and will read everything. Even if you don't believe in anything I said, atleast consider it? The sexual impulse is understandable and the urges are alright, everything is your decision, I just want to explain what I thought.
But you just told us above that the pleasures and impulses are wrong. 
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