Life turn out the way you planned?

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#1 TheHighWind
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Mine sure as heck didn't.

In 2009 I lost my job

I lost my fiance

I lost my apartment

I lost my car.

Now I'm 25 years old and living with my parents. Oh well, life doesn't pan out the way you want sometimes, or does it? That's why I'm asking you, OT, did your life turn out the way you planned?

This is a question for the older members of OT. I don't want to see any "IDK cause im 15" responses! 8)

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#2 black_cat19
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Well, I'm 23, and so far things are going just as expected. Of course not everything is perfect, but I really can't complain.

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#3 Pirate700
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Not even close. The economy hit the skids at a bad time for people in their early-mid 20s trying to get their life going.

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#4 cheese_game619
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Mine sure as heck didn't.

In 2009 I lost my job

I lost my fiance

I lost my apartment

I lost my car.

Now I'm 25 years old and living with my parents. Oh well, life doesn't pan out the way you want sometimes, or does it? That's why I'm asking you, OT, did your life turn out the way you planned?

This is a question for the older members of OT. I don't want to see any "IDK cause im 15" responses! 8)TheHighWind

lol

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#5 pero2008
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Yes, except I'm like two years behind in college then I'm supposed to be and I'm 21 and still living at home.

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#6 notsoawesome
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Not quite, but hey I still have a lot of time to procrastinate.:D

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#7 ravengirl101
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Well I'm 24 and i never expected to be where i am now, paying a mortgage and house hold bills etc. always thought id do something like jet off around the world, never staying in one place to long, something adventurous.

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#8 lancea34
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Well possibly... I'm still in High school and I'm very worried about what I'll do after I finish it... :|

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#9 Kcube
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It has and it hasn't...I worked out the money part...forgot the happeniess part :P
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#10 horgen  Moderator
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Kinda did yes... I thought I would go to uni when I was done with high school... And I did... It is what I currently do. And hopefully by the time I'm done here, the times will be better
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#11 -Vulpix-
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Nope can't say anything went to plan. If things gone to plan I had I would of been working at a job at 17 then in college right now, instead I am 22 no job yet still looking for one then gonna try college eventually. and will be 23 at the end of this year. Suppose most of it being my fault for not trying hard enough and my lack of confindence in things really doesn't help.

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#12 joesh89
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As of yet... no. But there is still plenty of time, and I'm trying.

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#13 MushroomWig
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I'm in a similar situation OP, I had the best job up until 2007 and then people were laid off, now I'm living with my sister. I'm 24 soon, hopefully I can move out sometime soon.
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#14 punkpunker
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no but god make up for some lost opportunties for time to time.

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#15 flipin_jackass
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No, but I'm doing okay... I'm just happy that I'm not living in the street or sick.
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#16 Ilovegames1992
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I never had any plans or expectations so i guess everything is a bonus for me.

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#17 worlock77
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I've never really planned it, I just kinda roll with it as it comes along. So I guess I can't really complain that it hasn't gone as I'd expected or hoped.

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#18 DrPickle
Member since 2011 • 370 Posts

Mine sure as heck didn't.

In 2009 I lost my job

I lost my fiance

I lost my apartment

I lost my car.

Now I'm 25 years old and living with my parents. Oh well, life doesn't pan out the way you want sometimes, or does it? That's why I'm asking you, OT, did your life turn out the way you planned?

This is a question for the older members of OT. I don't want to see any "IDK cause im 15" responses! 8)

TheHighWind
If it makes you happy, I failed in college and my parents no longer talk to me. Im 17 yrs old.
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#19 worlock77
Member since 2009 • 22552 Posts

[QUOTE="TheHighWind"]

Mine sure as heck didn't.

In 2009 I lost my job

I lost my fiance

I lost my apartment

I lost my car.

Now I'm 25 years old and living with my parents. Oh well, life doesn't pan out the way you want sometimes, or does it? That's why I'm asking you, OT, did your life turn out the way you planned?

This is a question for the older members of OT. I don't want to see any "IDK cause im 15" responses! 8)

DrPickle

If it makes you happy, I failed in college and my parents no longer talk to me. Im 17 yrs old.

How do you fail in college by the age of 17?

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#20 DrPickle
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[QUOTE="DrPickle"][QUOTE="TheHighWind"]

Mine sure as heck didn't.

In 2009 I lost my job

I lost my fiance

I lost my apartment

I lost my car.

Now I'm 25 years old and living with my parents. Oh well, life doesn't pan out the way you want sometimes, or does it? That's why I'm asking you, OT, did your life turn out the way you planned?

This is a question for the older members of OT. I don't want to see any "IDK cause im 15" responses! 8)

worlock77

If it makes you happy, I failed in college and my parents no longer talk to me. Im 17 yrs old.

How do you fail in college by the age of 17?

As in dropped out and not going to any. I have 3 brothers who are all medical doctors; to the standard of my parents, I am a failure.
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#21 Mochyc
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Well, when I was in high school I planned on studying engineering or medecine. Now I'm 19 and I'm studying economics and finance (I took econ and became passionate about it) and I've got a new plan. Until now everything's going fine (excellent grades, working as an editor-in-chief of an academic journal, a student senator, and the vice-chair of the Clubs Committe), but I'm still deciding what I want to do exactly after graduating.
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#22 soulless4now
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Not really, but then again, I don't plan anything out. I have long term goals, but that's about it.

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#23 Dogswithguns
Member since 2007 • 11359 Posts
No not exactly. but Im doing fine, still got my house, car, all my stuff. my kids doing great at school. and I got a new job now with decent pay. as far as my dream career may or never gonna come true, but Im not in a bad shape without it. just broke up with my g/f but she almost never here to spend time with me anyway..
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#24 ehhwhatever
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Life has thrown everything plus the kitchen sink at me from day 1 when my mom had to drive herself to the hospital in an electrical storm. btw I was a mistake, she had an operation to stop having kids but I guess it didn't work and since I was born the marriage fell apart. Guess whose brothers and sister blame for that?
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#25 Bane_09
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I never really had a plan to begin with but my life has taken some unexpected turns for sure

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#26 UprootedDreamer
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In a weird way it has.:)
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#27 kulmiye
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Nope but there still is so hope to change things around....or not.
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#28 Darksonic666
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Not really no.
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#29 TonyDanzaFan
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I dropped out of college, and am still trying to figure out what to do. I want to be an actor. To be fair though, when I was a little kid, I didnt even expect to get into any colleges, especially not the one I got in to.
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#30 invisibletearsx
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No. But we'll see when the results out during December.

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#31 thriteenthmonke
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I'm not rich yet, so no.
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#32 Bloodseeker23
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Well I would say so..but im still on it, but I've yet to find a successful relationship after breaking up with my last gf that I really loved...:( I think thats what missing..
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#33 supa_badman
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Eh, it's got its ups and downs. Mine isn't so bad though.

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#34 -Jashan-
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nope life just slapped me in the face today.
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#35 SaudiFury
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So far so good at the moment.

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#36 CammiTac
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Not at all. But I'm not sure that is a bad thing, just different. I try not to think about what could have been if this and that hadn't happened and instead try to make the best of what I do have.

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#37 Thuganomic05
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So far --- not really. I didn't expect/plan to have a child while I was 19 years old.. I didn't plan to drop out of college, mainly due to my ambitious nature... but -- that's life.
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#38 Ronstera
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I'm 22 and I don't usually plan everything, I just go with the flow..
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#39 Pearl_of_Egypt
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Not at all. But I don't mind. It's what makes life interesting.

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#40 DigitalExile
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I'm 22 and have no life so... looks like it's going according to plan. :P

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#41 poptart
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Well, no - broke up with a chick after 5 years, went to Australia on a whim and still here over 8 years later. Now broken up with another girl after 5 years, she kept all the stuff (and I mean everything), and now I started again, back to living in a shared house, just quit my job and, well, who knows what 2012 will bring. My plan to move back to Europe's kind of fizzed out as the place is pretty f***ed. So no.... But actually thinking about it I'm notsure if I had any plans in the first place. I just took for granted I would have sorted life out by now but hey - there's time yet and who cares - I gave up worrying about keeping up with the Jones's long ago, although those 'why me' times to make myself feel a little better I just have a peek on facebook at some kids from my year from school with 20 year old sons/daughters, never left the city and think, well, I least I aint one of them.

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#42 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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I'm not very old, only 19, but no, it hasn't gone quite as expected. One of the main things being that I planned on going into medicine, which isn't going to happen. I guess I also kinda hoped to be out of the house or at a different school as well. Also, I've lost touch with a lot of friends that I didn't think I would. A boyfriend would've been nice too -.-

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#43 DigitalExile
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I'm not very old, only 19, but no, it hasn't gone quite as expected. One of the main things being that I planned on going into medicine, which isn't going to happen. I guess I also kinda hoped to be out of the house or at a different school as well. Also, I've lost touch with a lot of friends that I didn't think I would. A boyfriend would've been nice too -.-

Suzy_Q_Kazoo

As if you can't have a boyfriend. I'm sure many are surprised that you don't.

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#44 deactivated-58df4522915cb
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oh god no.

i wish i had a time machine so i could quantum leap my way back to the 6th grade version of myself and make myself beat the crap out of some bullies i had issues with, so i would have gotten my confidence back and so that life would be much much better for me today. sorta like back to the future when martys dad beats up biff, and life is much better for them in the present

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#45 ernie1989
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When I compare it to what I, at 17 or 18, thought I'd be at my current age, my life is nowhere near that. But I've accepted that and I try to enjoy living in the present as much as I can. As far as planning ahead goes, I worry about the near future, but not a distant future.

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#46 194197844077667059316682358889
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God no, my life has gone a million times better than I ever imagined it would. From when I was about 24-25, it feels like each year gets better.
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#47 deactivated-5d0e4d67d0988
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Meh. Finished school wanting to be a lawyer, half way through law school I realised I had no interest in law. Still finished my degree and now work in IT for a logistics firm.

Currently 23. It's not what I planned for but I'm happy with it tbh.

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#48 edinsftw
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Actually mine turned out better than i thought, i got a good job doing what i want(80k) and a friends with benefits, currently my life is exactly where i want it to be.

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#49 Suzy_Q_Kazoo
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[QUOTE="Suzy_Q_Kazoo"]

I'm not very old, only 19, but no, it hasn't gone quite as expected. One of the main things being that I planned on going into medicine, which isn't going to happen. I guess I also kinda hoped to be out of the house or at a different school as well. Also, I've lost touch with a lot of friends that I didn't think I would. A boyfriend would've been nice too -.-

DigitalExile

As if you can't have a boyfriend. I'm sure many are surprised that you don't.

OUT OF ALL THE THINGS TO PICK. [spoiler] :P [/spoiler]
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#50 DigitalExile
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OUT OF ALL THE THINGS TO PICK. Suzy_Q_Kazoo
That's the one that stands out for me though. :P Getting into Medicine would be hard, moving out of home (here) isn't even a big deal, friends come and go, then you go and say something which makes no sense to me! :P

Anyway, none of my business! *Runs off making monkey sounds*