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#51 greenprince
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[QUOTE="michael_1234576"]

Nah, I can't see why its so hard for some people to find friends..

-FlyLo-

Same, man up, grow a pair and socialize :lol:

Whether you like it or not, some people do experience anxiety when they want to join various group activities or large gatherings. To them social rejection is the worst possible outcome and they don't want to experience such a feeling. To me and certainly to you, joining in such social gatherings is quite a easy thing to do but for others it's probably the most difficult, not everybody is as sociable as you, cut them some slack.

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#52 -FlyLo-
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[QUOTE="-FlyLo-"][QUOTE="michael_1234576"]

Nah, I can't see why its so hard for some people to find friends..

greenprince

Same, man up, grow a pair and socialize :lol:

Whether you like it or not, some people do experience anxiety when they want to join various group activities or large gatherings. To them social rejection is the worst possible outcome and they don't want to experience such a feeling. To me and certainly to you, joining in such social gatherings is quite a easy thing to do but for others it's probably the most difficult, not everybody is as sociable as you, cut them some slack.

Again, I was joking...
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#53 AAllxxjjnn
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[QUOTE="-FlyLo-"][QUOTE="AAllxxjjnn"][QUOTE="-FlyLo-"] Same, man up, grow a pair and socialize :lol:

That usually has nothing to do with it, some people just prefer to keep to themselves...

Well, it was a joke if you didn't catch that emote towards the end...

":P" is a better smiley to use for jokes like that.
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#54 deactivated-61d91d42c39df
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yep.

I only have 1 friend outside of work I ever see.

people think because you are alone you are miserable but I disagree since you become self sufficient.

I can mix at social eventsbut I find it tiresome because I have to be outgoing and talkative and that isn't me.

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#55 trentman7
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This picture describes it pretty well:
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#56 -FlyLo-
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[QUOTE="trentman7"]This picture describes it pretty well:

I want that pillow :|
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#57 mrbojangles25
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Ya I feel like a longer, though my attachment to society tells me it is wrong so it makes me feel bad.

I think if I actually lived somewhere with very few people, I'd be happier.

Thats not to say life is not good, I just dont need much in my life.

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#58 mrbojangles25
Member since 2005 • 60822 Posts

yep.

I only have 1 friend outside of work I ever see.

people think because you are alone you are miserable but I disagree since you become self sufficient.

I can mix at social eventsbut I find it tiresome because I have to be outgoing and talkative and that isn't me.

Deano

Yup, when I go to parties I usually end up just standing there and listening. I tried to be interested, but frankly it just isnt somethng I am into. Add to the fact that, idunno, I am kind of scary looking (my neutral face is a 1000 yard stare, im 6'3'', and look pissed/sad when just chillin even though im not) and it just makes for an awkward situation.

Plus im fat, that makes me extremely self concious lol.

Anyway, I can tolerate parties but I feel much better grabbing a few pints at my quiet little pub downtown with some close friends.

I'm a introvert. But, I don't feel alone, I have quite a few friends and relationships for me to have a stable social life. What's weird is I only realized I enjoyed solitude in college when the large parties and huge social gatherings I went to didn't interest me as I expected.

greenprince

Ya I agree with both.

When I got to school, went to my first rager, it was fun but I just enjoyed being drunk. It was fun seeing people act drunk too, but in terms of socializing it just wasnt interesting.

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#59 C_BozkurT_C
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[QUOTE="-FlyLo-"][QUOTE="michael_1234576"]

Nah, I can't see why its so hard for some people to find friends..

AAllxxjjnn
Same, man up, grow a pair and socialize :lol:

That usually has nothing to do with it, some people just prefer to keep to themselves...

yup, it's called being an introvert. nothing wrong with it.
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#60 Bioshockraptor
Member since 2008 • 21483 Posts

I know a loner. His lonelyness power is over 9,000 :o

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#61 Pvt_r3d
Member since 2006 • 7901 Posts
Well with certain types of people I indeed am a Loner. With my friends in the game club and anime club though, I see them frequently to play alot of games. I just really hate people who drink and can't handle themselves after so I tend to stay away from alot of people in college.
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#62 optiow
Member since 2008 • 28284 Posts
I have good friends, but sometimes I like to be alone yes.
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#63 Bigboss232
Member since 2006 • 4997 Posts

I am a loner.

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#64 kayn83
Member since 2004 • 2214 Posts

I was kind of a loner in elementary school but that was years ago lol

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#65 BohemianAndy
Member since 2007 • 1413 Posts
I'm not a loner. I have enough friends and people to talk with to keep me satisfied. I also value my alone time, though, but I don't feel lonely when I'm alone. t3hrubikscube
Me too :)
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#66 b3yondstupidity
Member since 2007 • 12500 Posts
No I am not a loner.
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#67 njean777
Member since 2007 • 3807 Posts

Well i guess im somewhat of a loner to a point but i do hang out with friends a lot. I rather be at home and just talk to them online, so i can listen to my music and play games, but i do go to the occasional party and such.