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#51 _Marisa_
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Refuse him sex unless he goes to class. He needs to be better motivated and that will do it.

Or maybe just talk to him about it, tell him his c1asses are important and he can't skip them and if he does don't talk to him and don't see him. Make it so there is no point of skipping c1assdarklord888


Ummm, that might end up being bad for BOTH of us :|:lol: Besides, I don't think it's right to use sensuality against men as a form of control. :P
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No offense toward you, but you're boyfriend really isn't smart at all if he's skipping his mandatory classes and quizes to be with you. Again, not to suggest that you're not worth being with......... Anyways.

I don't know the type of guy you're boyfriend is, but I have two ideas. He's either A) The fool in love or B) The Fool with no self-worth.

If he's A) then the separation is a good short term fix, but he really need to be told that you're not his top priority. And he can't throw away so many years of work and study just to spend an extra few hours with you.

Now is He's B)(Which form your account I wouldn't say he is, but hey, you gotta be through) Then the separation idea could be a fatal mistake. I've know a few fools with no self-worth, and doing something like that to them would ruin them for life, for lack of a better term. The idea could send him into crisis mode and he would completely choke on all his exams. The best thing for him, would be for you to force him to study until the exams are over, be with him while he studies and what-not. Then after exams...... the balls in your court then.

Well that's my advice....... in all my glorious wisdom. I hope it doesn't ruin your life if you follow it.

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#53 Def_Jef88
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tell him to go to class or youll kick his ass....
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#54 Mercury88
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Speak to him about your fears and make sure he takes it all in......the rest is up to him.
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#55 helium_flash
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I think you should avoid him or make plans with friends when he has to take exams.  On exam days, make sure he can't come over or aren't home.  Or just slap some sense into him.  Girls can do that.
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#56 cheetah_TM
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I got a great solution. Email him what you told us..
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#57 soroush7
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Hahahha...C1ass
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#58 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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Doesn't sound like he will be a very good doctor if he's skipping out on all those things.  That field requires brains and dedication.  You can't get by with just one.  I'd give him a kick in the rear.
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#59 _Marisa_
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No offense toward you, but you're boyfriend really isn't smart at all if he's skipping his mandatory classes and quizes to be with you. Again, not to suggest that you're not worth being with......... Anyways.

I don't know the type of guy you're boyfriend is, but I have two ideas. He's either A) The fool in love or B) The Fool with no self-worth.

If he's A) then the separation is a good short term fix, but he really need to be told that you're not his top priority. And he can't throw away so many years of work and study just to spend an extra few hours with you.

Now is He's B)(Which form your account I wouldn't say he is, but hey, you gotta be through) Then the separation idea could be a fatal mistake. I've know a few fools with no self-worth, and doing something like that to them would ruin them for life, for lack of a better term. The idea could send him into crisis mode and he would completely choke on all his exams. The best thing for him, would be for you to force him to study until the exams are over, be with him while he studies and what-not. Then after exams...... the balls in your court then.

Well that's my advice....... in all my glorious wisdom. I hope it doesn't ruin your life if you follow it.

Private_Vegas


Yeah, you're right, he is type A. His self-esteem is quite fine at the moment, he just seems to be very love sick. I love how you put "he can't throw away so many years of work and study just to spend an extra few hours with you." That's exactly how I'm going to word it when I speak with him about it.


"Hope it doesn't ruin your life if you follow it" Nice disclaimer :lol:
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#60 Account_27
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Hide from him.  That way he can't find you and will go to class.
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#61 _Marisa_
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Hide from him.  That way he can't find you and will go to class.Account_27


:lol: Yeah, I can just picture myself ducking and rolling behind trees as he makes his way to the door...Although, I can be quite clumsy, so I'd probably blow my cover, get spotted and he'd be thinking "Wtf is she on? O_o" Then I'd have to sneakily come up with some kind of excuse as to why I was doing the "James Bond" roll :|
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#64 Def_Jef88
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[QUOTE="MoonSpoon"]

Oh no, my boyfriend loves me too much and I don't know what to do.

What a great thread.

_Marisa_



Do you pride yourself in being a douche, or does it just come naturally?

why cant it be both?

... 

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#65 Account_27
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[QUOTE="Account_27"]Hide from him. That way he can't find you and will go to class._Marisa_


:lol: Yeah, I can just picture myself ducking and rolling behind trees as he makes his way to the door...Although, I can be quite clumsy, so I'd probably blow my cover, get spotted and he'd be thinking "Wtf is she on? O_o" Then I'd have to sneakily come up with some kind of excuse as to why I was doing the "James Bond" roll :|


That's why you buy a box silly.
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#67 Def_Jef88
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[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Account_27"]Hide from him. That way he can't find you and will go to class.Account_27


:lol: Yeah, I can just picture myself ducking and rolling behind trees as he makes his way to the door...Although, I can be quite clumsy, so I'd probably blow my cover, get spotted and he'd be thinking "Wtf is she on? O_o" Then I'd have to sneakily come up with some kind of excuse as to why I was doing the "James Bond" roll :|


That's why you buy a box silly.

when bond fails.... go solid snake...
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#68 Kikouken
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[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Account_27"]Hide from him. That way he can't find you and will go to class.Account_27


:lol: Yeah, I can just picture myself ducking and rolling behind trees as he makes his way to the door...Although, I can be quite clumsy, so I'd probably blow my cover, get spotted and he'd be thinking "Wtf is she on? O_o" Then I'd have to sneakily come up with some kind of excuse as to why I was doing the "James Bond" roll :|


That's why you buy a box silly.

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Account_27"]Hide from him. That way he can't find you and will go to ****Account_27


:lol: Yeah, I can just picture myself ducking and rolling behind trees as he makes his way to the door...Although, I can be quite clumsy, so I'd probably blow my cover, get spotted and he'd be thinking "Wtf is she on? O_o" Then I'd have to sneakily come up with some kind of excuse as to why I was doing the "James Bond" roll :|


That's why you buy a box silly.

This will be like Metal Gear Solid.

*Marisa hides in box*

*boyfriend walks in*

Boyfriend: ! A box. What is this? *kicks*

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#69 MoonSpoon
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:lol:

 The seriousness of this thread is hilarious. Lighten up.

 If the guy is planning to be a doctor, then he better smarten up and not throw away this apparent bright future. If you ask me, I want a doctor who is dedicated. Not one who plans to go meet up with his girlfriend rather than do life threatening heart surgery on my grandmother.

To put it simply, the guy shouldn't be a doctor. It's the type of job that can't be taken lightly. 

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#70 crucifine
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Make yourself scarce except on weekends or just one day of the week. 
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#71 _Marisa_
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[QUOTE="Account_27"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Account_27"]Hide from him. That way he can't find you and will go to class.Kikouken



:lol: Yeah, I can just picture myself ducking and rolling behind trees as he makes his way to the door...Although, I can be quite clumsy, so I'd probably blow my cover, get spotted and he'd be thinking "Wtf is she on? O_o" Then I'd have to sneakily come up with some kind of excuse as to why I was doing the "James Bond" roll :|


That's why you buy a box silly.

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Account_27"]Hide from him. That way he can't find you and will go to ****Account_27


:lol: Yeah, I can just picture myself ducking and rolling behind trees as he makes his way to the door...Although, I can be quite clumsy, so I'd probably blow my cover, get spotted and he'd be thinking "Wtf is she on? O_o" Then I'd have to sneakily come up with some kind of excuse as to why I was doing the "James Bond" roll :|


That's why you buy a box silly.

This will be like Metal Gear Solid.

*Marisa hides in box*

*boyfriend walks in*

Boyfriend: ! A box. What is this? *kicks*



:lol: Clearly the answer to my problems.


I'm now considering this lol...I'll have to explain why I'm in a box and it'll be a great way to start the conversation about the situation.
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#72 NapsterX
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I wouldnt wannabe a doctor, 8+ years of school, plus when ur finshed u never get to see ur family, but hey as long as the stress doesnt kill u, ur making 75k+
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#73 Def_Jef88
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[QUOTE="Kikouken"]

[QUOTE="Account_27"][QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Account_27"]Hide from him. That way he can't find you and will go to class._Marisa_



:lol: Yeah, I can just picture myself ducking and rolling behind trees as he makes his way to the door...Although, I can be quite clumsy, so I'd probably blow my cover, get spotted and he'd be thinking "Wtf is she on? O_o" Then I'd have to sneakily come up with some kind of excuse as to why I was doing the "James Bond" roll :|


That's why you buy a box silly.

[QUOTE="_Marisa_"][QUOTE="Account_27"]Hide from him. That way he can't find you and will go to ****Account_27


:lol: Yeah, I can just picture myself ducking and rolling behind trees as he makes his way to the door...Although, I can be quite clumsy, so I'd probably blow my cover, get spotted and he'd be thinking "Wtf is she on? O_o" Then I'd have to sneakily come up with some kind of excuse as to why I was doing the "James Bond" roll :|


That's why you buy a box silly.

This will be like Metal Gear Solid.

*Marisa hides in box*

*boyfriend walks in*

Boyfriend: ! A box. What is this? *kicks*



:lol: Clearly the answer to my problems.


I'm now considering this lol...I'll have to explain why I'm in a box and it'll be a great way to start the conversation about the situation.

Be sure to use box C though.... if you use Box A or B he will know its you...
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#75 NavigatorsGhost
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This is where I refrain from making a joke using the word "box" as a euphemism for vagina
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#76 MAILER_DAEMON
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Let's keep the sarcasm and douche-tossing elsewhere, please. >_>
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#77 nightshade85
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This is where I refrain from making a joke using the word "box" as a euphemism for vagina NavigatorsGhost

I got a kick out of that

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#78 _Marisa_
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Let's keep the sarcasm and douche-tossing elsewhere, please. >_>MAILER_DAEMON


My appologies:P
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#79 Omni-Slash
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yes.....as much as it sucks.....lay down the ultimatum.....
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#80 _Marisa_
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yes.....as much as it sucks.....lay down the ultimatum.....Omni-Slash


It does suck, indeed :( But I'd rather him be good at saving lives than spending a few extra hours with me...That's really what it comes down to. If not for his future than atleast for his future patients.
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#81 _Marisa_
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yes.....as much as it sucks.....lay down the ultimatum.....Omni-Slash


It does suck, indeed :( But I'd rather him be good at saving lives than spending a few extra hours with me...That's really what it comes down to. If not for his future than atleast for his future patients.
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#82 helium_flash
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Whatever you do, make sure you yell it at him because it takes a lot to get through our heads when we are in a passion! :P
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#83 _Marisa_
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Whatever you do, make sure you yell it at him because it takes a lot to get through our heads when we are in a passion! :Phelium_flash


Haha, alright, will do ^_^
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#84 halo3-player
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go hide in the little girls room he'll never find you......
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#85 Sim_genius
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I'll be honest: Ditch him cuz you're messing him up. If you dont leave him NOW, he'll be sorry for it. That's just my advice.
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#86 cfamgcn
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Your situation is difficult... so I'll get straight to my point:

If you really love him that much, you are thinking of MARRYING him, right?

Assuming that your answer is yes, tell him: "My future depends of your studies, so wake up and do what you need to do!"

Maybe that will put him on the light... otherwise, just follow the advice of the others ^^U

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#87 slateman_basic
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Its his decision. Frankly, if he's willing to flush his efforts down the drain, thats his call.
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#88 shimekorosu
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tell him that he needs to study and that if he don't pass then you will feel as if it's your fault or something
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#89 GiygasFanima
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What was with the constant "c1ass" thing? Will you get modded for saying class?

As for advice, I'm failing Math, I doubt you wanna ask me anything that has to do with school.

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#90 -InsrtNameHere-
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Best to talk to him, have him concentrate on his studies, and if you must, distence yourself from him.