Me, 3 guys, and a girl..

This is going to start out as kind of a blog but bear with me because i have to explain so you can give me advice..

So about 2 months ago i started talking with this girl. She is two grades below me and is kind of a flirt. I never thought of her much until she came over to my friends house while i was there (she came cuz of his sister) and we flirted the whole time. Then the next thing i know every day at school she flirts with me. One day she took my phone and put her number in it and then i started texting her. It started getting more serious and we talked like everyday and went out on one date (this was like one day before thanksgiving). We arnt technicly going out because she says she wants to take it slow because shes been hurt so many times in the past so she tells people we are just talking. But we talk like we are dating so i call it that lol. But since i started talking to her theres been this one guy in particular who has been trying to get in the way of us. She used to love him and think he was all that but they never went out. And ever since ive been talking with her hes gave her a teddy bear and texts her a lot and says that she wants him to get me mad. The reason she doesnt like him and will ever like him again is because doesnt commit to one girl, he always talks with several girls and has sex a lot from what i hear. I will get back to him in a second. Anyways a couple days ago we kind of broke up because she thought i was being to attatched to her. I knew appoligizing would be dumb so i ended it myself and 2 days later she txts me begging me to take her back and gave me reasons why she said that(this is when i finnaly found out that she does like me and not this other guy). We havnt really gone out since but i hang out with her and other plp after her basketball games and what not.

So now ill get to the real problem. Two guys that some how she knows (i dont) have been talking to her over myspace have been like giving her their numbers and telling her she looks cute. But she never really uses myspace and never commented them back so they arnt really threats. But this one kid that really likes her told me he is going to beat me up because he heard i was talking about him behind his back. I am not affraid of him but i know my girl will get really mad if i do cuz she thinks its over her. He keeps saying that she texts him all the time and they flirt a lot and i end up finding out when he says that. I asked her about it twice and she swears she didnt and i do trust her more than him. he keeps with it but she really likes me i think, but i know this guy wont stop.

So how to i make this guy just stop? Can i trust her?

She sounds like an attention seeking tween skank. Just get out while you can.XilePrincess

lol i cnt i like her too much...and she isnt btw lol

That was a pain in the behind to read... The enter button is very friendly it won't bite!

Anyways... How old are you? At the age I'm thinking you are at I wouldn't be concerned about women... At that age the average length of any "relationship" is a week or two.

Wow big letdown after reading thread title. Please don't be so misleading next time. As a result, no advice goes your way from me.Neon-Tiger

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Sounds like shes too much trouble then shes worth. Unless you really really like her I suggest you just move on, or atleast sit down and talk to her about this.EVOLV3

shes worth it i think.....like before we broke up for that little bit i did talk to her a lot about if she really likes me and if she likes this kid who likes her.

This was really more of a problem before i posted this...i trust he a lot and i like her a lot now...but i just made it now because this kid is threating to fight me

i thnk u should just ignore the guy that saids he talks to her and flirts. just go on with life with the girl since u do trust her in saying that she said no. maybe u should get out of just friends. get the chick to tell other guys that she is taken, so they will stop. iam2green

she tells me she does and i believer her...but this guy will not stop at anything for her......and the hell of it is that he has a girlfriend and he has like 20 other girls that like him and that is not an exageration

So this one guy is just poking at you, making threats and talking crap? (being a bully?)

Why not ignore his butt? I mean, if your're sure this girl likes you, then you have nothing to worry about, right?

how old are you 12spliffstar12

16...

i mean seriously how does this make me seem young

Is it because this is my first girlfriend and i have some doubt? Thats a common problem bud

She sounds like an attention seeking tween skank. Just get out while you can.XilePrincess

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Dissapointing thread is dissapointing.

Anyway... sounds odd to me. Just carry on with it and see how she reacts to other guys harassing you.

The only logical thing to do, is give that guy's myspace out to gamespot and let fellow forum goers tramatize him.< Seriously i was joking, that would be bad.

If your bigger than him, just ignore him. That way if he tries to beat you up, you'll be fine. If hes larger, stop talking to the girl.