[QUOTE="Skarwolf"] You make too many assumptions, that are totally wrong. You see the thing with my wife and its the same for most females. They have a double standard. Its ok for them to do or say something but if its done back to them they freak out. I generally do all the dishes. I hate having dirty plates in the sink, I rinse them off and put them in the dishwasher. My wife just puts a plate with food still on it in the sink, or a cup half full of milk in the sink without dumping it out. When I say rinse them off or dump it out she yaps back at me to do something else. Its all about control with her, she thinks she has to control everything. I do my best to disrupt everything. Its the only way to cure her.br0kenrabbit
This is why I believe in co-habitation before marriage, lol. My ex-wife was much the same way (not telling me to do stuff, just not doing her fair share) and had I known that before, the relationship would have ended BEFORE marriage.
Another thing I've noticed with some 'liberated' women, who say they don't believe in 'man jobs and women jobs' are they're fine being equals, until it involves dirt, trash, oil or dead animals.
But what are you going to do? Many women think they control the strings in a relationship, but that's only if you let them. ;)
I do it chronically. Instead of a long draw out fight I do little things constantly. Guerilla warfare.
For example... take into considreation she's extremely OCD.
1..She would organize all the fkn forks, spoons, big spoons, butter knives, steak knives exactly on top of each other. I'd go and purposely knock them all around. Or I'd switch their spots, or turn them upside down from previous. She used to flip out at this now she has given up.
2. The upstairs bathroom has to have all the white towels. The downstairs the yellow and green. I'd do the opposite until she just stopped trying to OCD organize that.
3. She used to complain about making a mess in the kitchen while making supper. I dumped everything I was currently mixing on the countertop and yelled "ITS A F---ING KITCHEN THIS IS WHAT HAPPENS WHEN YOU F----ING COOK!" She hasn't bothered me about that since.
4. If she left me some chores to do on my two days off after having worked 50 hours all week I wouldn't do any yard chores. Then I'd leave her chores to do while I went to work telling her to wash the cares, do the lawns, clean the gutters. I'd let the lawn grow. Now there aren't anymore notes left for me other then asking me to pick something up from the store that we both need.
5. I twist the shower head so its aimed at about face height. Nice blast of cold water when you first turn it on. Feign ignorance when questioned, "You must've bumped it." Play dumb ... it works. They think you're dumb anyways.
6. When asked to run out and get something... go out and get alot of things and take 4 hours. Go visit a friend have a couple beers come home late. Guess what she won't ask you to go out anymore and get stuff.
7. We always had to watch her shows on tv. If I wanted to watch something she'd constantly complain about my choice. I'd go downstairs and watch tv without her to watch my shows and she'd question why I was downstairs.... ? BTW downstairs has a nice gas fireplace and a recliner so wtf do ya think why I'd go down there.
8. She complained that I played WOW too much so initially I stopped and only played while she was at work or late at night. She complained I stayed up too late. I stopped playing wow and got an Xbox 360. Shortly later she complained all I did was play Xbox 360. So guess what. I started going out to bars again and not coming home all night. When questioned about that I said would you rather I stayed home and played video games ? The battle continues....
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