Most MESSED UP Ways You've been/ Witnessed someone REJECTED

One time my friend Erik Lehnsherr and I went up this guy named Logan to tell him about our mutant sanctuary, and he told us to go f*** ourselves. :(

I started hitting on a guy and he then said "do I look like a f****** queer to you?"

which I then responded with "well, sorry but you do"

Needless to say I ended up with a black eye.

toast_burner

Yeah you kinda have to be careful about that, bars are best.

My friend asked this girl, "Do you want to dance?" and she said, "not with you". So he said, "No, I said you look fat in those pants".

I don't think I've ever been rejected. Dumped yes, but never rejected on the spot. I don't think most girls are heartless banshees, at least not the ones I go for. So most women will at least give you a shot. Whether or not it pans out...well, that's another story.

Well I liked this girl once but she called me skinny and said I smelled like fries

5 years later we are in a relationship together......4 of those 5 years we've been together.

XileLord

This girl decided to dump this guy for no reason, when he came to give her a hug she wouldn't return it and just ignored him, giving him a blank stare before saying "you're dumped." I felt sorry for the poor guy. She isn't a nice person.

PiscesChick93

considering i have never asked a girl out, this thread is not helping my confidence... :D

i may just wait for one to come to me, like a pigeon.

PcGamingRig

you can opt for that strategy if you're physically attractive

however the problem with playing the catch, is how relative being considered a catch actually is, e.g fugly girl approaching you because you're attractive according to her somewhat non-existing standards, and no one wants a fugly let alone being approached by one in a public space

the situation is out of your hands, you will be forced into circumstances where you have to make choices that you do not necessarily feel like making at the time, whereas being the instigator atleast will let you choose the target and the timing yourself

I wouldn't say it was an exact rejection dating rejection, but I was suspose to dance with a girl for fun in grade 10 in my gym's social dance class.When it was my turn to dance with the girl she said she didn't want to dance with me. Another girl then decided to dance with me instead.

Me? Rejected? :lol:

Silverbond

[QUOTE="toast_burner"]

I started hitting on a guy and he then said "do I look like a f****** queer to you?"

which I then responded with "well, sorry but you do"

Needless to say I ended up with a black eye.

tenaka2

Yeah you kinda have to be careful about that, bars are best.

[QUOTE="PiscesChick93"]

This girl decided to dump this guy for no reason, when he came to give her a hug she wouldn't return it and just ignored him, giving him a blank stare before saying "you're dumped." I felt sorry for the poor guy. She isn't a nice person.

JasonDarksavior

Yep :(

There was a time when the girls in my primary school voted me as the 'ugliest'.

Of course, I became obsessed with currency afterwards.

There was a time when the girls in my primary school voted me as the 'ugliest'.

Of course, I became obsessed with currency afterwards.

TehFuneral

I knew a guy who saw this girl and immeadiately started to persperate and shake when he saw her. He had no idea how to get her attention so he gave her 2 love notes. After realiasing the girl had no interest of himself at all, he made an attempt to forget about her. It didn't work, he tried again but this time the girl just ignored him. Right now, the guy is in a recovery mode trying to stop having thoughts on this girl. Hes doing better but I think it scared him. The girl doesen't even realiase the pain and love this guy is feeling.

That guy is me.

Don't worry I'm doing way better now lol

When my friend asked out this girl he liked

Friend: "Courtney will you go out with me?"

Girl: "Um"

*awkward*

Girl's friend: "Taylor you're kidding right?"

Friend: "No"

*awkward*

considering i have never asked a girl out, this thread is not helping my confidence... :D

i may just wait for one to come to me, like a pigeon.

PcGamingRig

maybe people reject you because you write in really big font and in bold so its really straining on the eyes

My friend asked this girl, "Do you want to dance?" and she said, "not with you". So he said, "No, I said you look fat in those pants".

sonicare

One of a girl's multiple personalities told me that they weren't in to me. this is after she told me another one wanted to make love to me.

[QUOTE="TehFuneral"]

There was a time when the girls in my primary school voted me as the 'ugliest'.

Of course, I became obsessed with currency afterwards.

GulliversTravel

:lol:

My friends kept telling to me to talk to a girl I liked and eventually I gave in. One day I was like "Hey (insert name here)" she was with her friends and they like giggled and ran off. I didn't realize we were stillin elementary school :(

[QUOTE="GulliversTravel"][QUOTE="TehFuneral"]

There was a time when the girls in my primary school voted me as the 'ugliest'.

Of course, I became obsessed with currency afterwards.

AsadMahdi59

:lol:

My friends kept telling to me to talk to a girl I liked and eventually I gave in. One day I was like "Hey (insert name here)" she was with her friends and they like giggled and ran off. I didn't realize we were stillin elementary school :(

Dude! that's when you whip it out! Then you can say that Magus made you do it! You are in elementary school after all.

[QUOTE="AsadMahdi59"]

[QUOTE="GulliversTravel"]Disregard females Acquire currency.:Pturtlethetaffer

:lol:

My friends kept telling to me to talk to a girl I liked and eventually I gave in. One day I was like "Hey (insert name here)" she was with her friends and they like giggled and ran off. I didn't realize we were stillin elementary school :(

Dude! that's when you whip it out! Then you can say that Magus made you do it! You are in elementary school after all.

MAgus? lol what?

My "good friend" told me she would go out with me if I wasn't fat (Well, she used the word "big"), she said it wouldn't "look good" for us to be together, aka she'd be embarrassed. This was like 5-6 years ago when I was in middle school, I'm not fat anymore and my current girlfriend is amazing, whilst my old "friend" is the biggest snob imaginable :P

There was this girl I had been talking to for months. Beautiful, funny, sweet. We talked and texted each other all the time. One day, I just couldn't hold my feelings in. I told her how amazing I thought she was, how I felt about her, and asked her out. Her response? "Sam (my name), you're cool and all, but you will NEVER be Jake Johnson. ;)" Jake Johnson was the name of the guy she liked. Getting rejected sucks big time, however I don't know if this is just me, but being rejected in favor of someone else SUCKS. It didn't end there, either. Every day when we would text, she would just randomly say something along the lines of "Oh my God...still can't believe you asked me out. Lmao." Eventually I just decided to delete her number and try to forget her.Razor-Lazor

I was on a break with my girlfriend of a year and she started dating an illegal Mexican; that was a blow to my ego. It sounds funny telling people that my girlfriend cheated on my with an illegal immigrant though. Haha that happened during the whole controversy with Bush and closing the borders and such so it was perfect.

The only noteworthy rejection i ever got was getting shot down by a lesbian.

we were friends in college, would play video games, took classes and generally knew each fairly well person to person level. so finally one day gathered enough courage to ask her out, she just smiled and got shy for a moment and said she didn't swing that way.

She did have some odd manners, but i generally don't judge people based on their behavior quirks.

Thing was i later found out, she really DID have a girlfriend, but it never came up and i never asked the other guys either. Because the time we spent together was generally around college, and we did not discuess each others families.

nice girl, didn't tease me or torture me over it either.

sadly lost contact with her after she dropped out because of finances.

I haven't been rejected, and I've only seen one. Which was horribly uneventful. My friend told a guy she liked him and he was like "I know, I've been leading you on. I don't like you that way though and I'm so sorry to hurt you".

And then they hugged it out. Boring.

i had a friend in high school who had a girl that he wasn't interested in whom would not leave him alone. She was pretty relentless about it, asking him out following him around and such. So to finally drive the point home that he didn't want anything to do with her, he gave her a saltlick for her birthday. She started to cry, it was harsh, but it worked, she never spoke to him again.

So I liked this girl quite a bit and we were good friends. On valentine's day i decided to try my luck and put both a teddy bear and a box of chocolates on her desk saying they were from me. She simply went ewww to me and crushed my heart :cry: . Curse 4th grade, being a hopelessly romantic 9 year old was tough. CosmoKing7717

I was quite horrible about rejecting someone. It wasn't out of cruelty, or spite, it was just uncomfortable.

She asked me out, out of the blue, and I was really awkward about it, and I didn't give any explanation whatsoever, I eventually kind of just walked off, leaving her standing there. We're good friends now:P

[QUOTE="Razor-Lazor"]There was this girl I had been talking to for months. Beautiful, funny, sweet. We talked and texted each other all the time. One day, I just couldn't hold my feelings in. I told her how amazing I thought she was, how I felt about her, and asked her out. Her response? "Sam (my name), you're cool and all, but you will NEVER be Jake Johnson. ;)" Jake Johnson was the name of the guy she liked. Getting rejected sucks big time, however I don't know if this is just me, but being rejected in favor of someone else SUCKS. It didn't end there, either. Every day when we would text, she would just randomly say something along the lines of "Oh my God...still can't believe you asked me out. Lmao." Eventually I just decided to delete her number and try to forget her.[/QUOTE I wish you luck on forgetting her. She actually said you'll never be like that guy? Tbh, thats a bit pathetic on her part because of her lack of consideration towards your feelings. Girls can be so heartlessTheStarM4n

Ya, why would she say something like that? And as if the first time wasn't bad enough, why would she keep bringing back up like it's some kind of joke? Unreal...

Me? Rejected? :lol:

My friend asked this girl, "Do you want to dance?" and she said, "not with you". So he said, "No, I said you look fat in those pants".

sonicare

It wasn't a devastating rejection, but the events leading up to it made it devastating. I was going to homecoming with a girl I really liked, but her parents wanted to meet me before I went anywhere with her. So we set up a date for me to go to her house to meet her family. One day my dad calls and tells me he has Philadelphia Phillies tickets scheduled for the same day as when I'm supposed to meet her parents. I'm a huge Phillies fan, and I would have jumped at this opportunity other wise, but I told him that it was really important that I meet this girls parents. He says alright, and eventually I go to her house as planned. Now while I'm eating dinner and talking to her parents (I passed by the way. I got permission to go to homecoming with their daughter) I see the Phillies game on TV, the one I would have gone too. My heart sank as I watched Roy Halladay pitch a no-hitter. I missed a no hitter, and a few days after homecoming, she says she wants to stay friends. I missed a no-hitter for friendship. tylergamereview

You know, it's not really immediate rejection, or anything, because I've never had that. But the worst kind of way to break off contact with someone you are dating is to just ignore them.

I don't know when that became the most popular way to say "I'm just not feeling it", but the past year or so I've had 3-4 girls I dated just ignore texts/phone calls to tell me that they weren't feeling it.

I never really got that, as I would think, even after only a couple dates, that you would want to at least be honest and tell someone that it wasn't working out instead of breaking their ego.

I mean, I didn't take it too personally because I was dating 3-4 people at a time when I was dating the past year. But still, the least a girl should be able to do is honestly express that the compatibility just isn't there. When I have broken off contact with women I was dating, I have been honest, and they always seem to appreciate it. I know I would love the same respect.

i was rejected once, by text message :|