My dad is virtually suicidal now....

Something big just happened tonight, something that could shape my future.

My dad owns a salon. It makes a lot of money, that is a fact, but he has to work with a lot of women. However i never thought he would be the sort of person to have an affair with one of these thai bimbos.

My mum found out about this 4 years ago on my 12 birthday. The fights were EXPLOSIVE when she brought it up, him denying it and all, while she calling him a liar. Eventually they cooled down and she gave him a second chance, and i thought that would be the end of it, never to be heard of again.

But tonight my mum read my dads mobile phone. Here was one of the messages, to his previous lover.

"Missing you so much. Really bored here in the house.

Love David

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

with a picture of a bear holding a heart

So as you can imagine my mum and Dad became EXTREMELY hostile towards each other and the tension finally ended in a nuclear argument the likes of which i have never seen before.

You can imagine the scene.

Them shouting at each other. Him hitting her. She crying.

Usually i just let them get it out of themselves but when i heard he hit her and twisted her arm, I...I couldn't contain myself.

So after my mum was talking to us in our bedroom. He came in and accused her off spreading lies and making for her again, wanting to HIT HER INFRONT OF HIS OWN CHILDREN.

SO I EXPLODED.

BAM

I was out of my chair like a flash and lifted him off his feet shouting at him never to hit my mum again. I never knew i could be so angry.

So when i put him down he was in a state of shock. He loves me very much me being his only son, and i love him so much too.

And then he went APE trashing the house and crying and shouting swear words at my mum as if she had twisted me against him which is not true. I think he thought it was the ultimate betrayal.

Im pretty sure he has some mental problems deep down inside after what he witnessed as a child. Perhaps physical abuse seemed normal to him after seeing his mother and father at each others throats.

So he crashed out of the house and into the car , driving away into the night.

10 mins later he phones crying and saying he wants to kill him self(i think hes being dramatic-he'd never do that no matter what state he was in). Ive never heard him so sad. and that makes me sad too:(

I honestly cant see any way out of this except divorce, but if it goes that way im praying to god it wont be messy.

Anyone else been through a divorce before, or seen their parents have massive fights?

Much advice would be appreciated im feeling really sad atm. Ive even shed a few tears which is unusual even for me.

:( :( :( :(

Blog it or ask just the simple question at the bottom "Anyone else been through a divorce before, or seen their parents have massive fights?" no I haventWhicker89

well i thought you'd have liked to know the story behind it.

sorry :(

how long ago did he call saying he wanted to commit suicide? seriously, check hes ok.

something a little like this happend here once, and everyone thought he was just being dramatic until he ran to the kitchen and tried to take his own life with a breadknife. we called the police and ambulance, and luckily the police station is only down the road or who knows what might have happend. it took three of them to restrain him.

My parents divorce happened under similar conditions. If they do it's gonna be messy.

pics of thai bimbos?Weapons_Free

epic phail

as for TC, how old are you? do you have any siblings? if its really bad still, try staying at a friends house for a day or two.

no offense but i was expecting something with a bear at the endblazinpuertoroc

Same here. I really don't know what to say, TC, other than to keep on pushing?

yeah man, i ve been through that before with my stepfather before, i was like 12 or 13, but when he hited my mother i hit him back even tho he was older and stronger than me, i dont what to tell you man, i guess you should try to talk to your mom and tell her that, that cant go on, and that they should divorce or something, get a better life somewhere, about your dad: just let him alone maybe with time he changes but i dont know, i hope everything turn out well for you and your family :D

good luck man

[QUOTE="Weapons_Free"]bojingles4393

epic phail

really? it made me laugh...

Uh, the phone message said "Love David"? Your dad was with a guy or something? Pretty creepy message there.SPD_WeBmAsTaH

his dads name is david

/pwnt

Thai bimboes?

I know it's probably hard on you, but seriously, thai bimboes?

pics of thai bimbos?Weapons_Free

lol after i was reading TCs post i was sad but when i read that i laugh so hard ...so thank you cause i dont feel like being sad right now lol

pics of thai bimbos?Weapons_Free

there you go

[QUOTE="Weapons_Free"]pics of thai bimbos?bojingles4393

epic phail

as for TC, how old are you? do you have any siblings? if its really bad still, try staying at a friends house for a day or two.

He's sixteen years old. He said something along the lines of "Four years ago, on my twelfth birthday." And yeah, four plus twelve equals sixteen, obviously.

He does have siblings, but they are all girls. He said something about his mother explaining to the children why their father went beserk and all.

Something big just happened tonight, something that could shape my future.

My dad owns a salon. It makes a lot of money, that is a fact, but he has to work with a lot of women. However i never thought he would be the sort of person to have an affair with one of these thai bimbos.

My mum found out about this 4 years ago on my 12 birthday. The fights were EXPLOSIVE when she brought it up, him denying it and all, while she calling him a liar. Eventually they cooled down and she gave him a second chance, and i thought that would be the end of it, never to be heard of again.

But tonight my mum read my dads mobile phone. Here was one of the messages, to his previous lover.

"Missing you so much. Really bored here in the house.

Love David

xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx"

with a picture of a bear holding a heart

So as you can imagine my mum and Dad became EXTREMELY hostile towards each other and the tension finally ended in a nuclear argument the likes of which i have never seen before.

You can imagine the scene.

Them shouting at each other. Him hitting her. She crying.

Usually i just let them get it out of themselves but when i heard he hit her and twisted her arm, I...I couldn't contain myself.

So after my mum was talking to us in our bedroom. He came in and accused her off spreading lies and making for her again, wanting to HIT HER INFRONT OF HIS OWN CHILDREN.

SO I EXPLODED.

BAM

I was out of my chair like a flash and lifted him off his feet shouting at him never to hit my mum again. I never knew i could be so angry.

So when i put him down he was in a state of shock. He loves me very much me being his only son, and i love him so much too.

And then he went APE trashing the house and crying and shouting swear words at my mum as if she had twisted me against him which is not true. I think he thought it was the ultimate betrayal.

Im pretty sure he has some mental problems deep down inside after what he witnessed as a child. Perhaps physical abuse seemed normal to him after seeing his mother and father at each others throats.

So he crashed out of the house and into the car , driving away into the night.

10 mins later he phones crying and saying he wants to kill him self(i think hes being dramatic-he'd never do that no matter what state he was in). Ive never heard him so sad. and that makes me sad too:(

I honestly cant see any way out of this except divorce, but if it goes that way im praying to god it wont be messy.

Anyone else been through a divorce before, or seen their parents have massive fights?

Much advice would be appreciated im feeling really sad atm. Ive even shed a few tears which is unusual even for me.

:( :( :( :(

druglord6

Man, that sucks....sorry to hear what you're currently going through. Depending on your age, domestic violence in front of children is a Child Protective Services referral. Also, if you have insureance or a local community mental health agencey, I'd call them and ask to talk to someone, it sounds like that may help a little.

i'm sorry to hear that. reading this almost made me cry :(

this has never happened to me but my friend his parents are deforced weekdays his at his moms weekends his usualy at his dads. His dad is a alcholic, his dad lives with his parents it sounds like all of them are... (i never realy ask about it) i hang out with both brother and friend they both dislike him. they hate going to his house because his always drunk... hopefully ur parents don't end up like my friends.

[QUOTE="SPD_WeBmAsTaH"]Uh, the phone message said "Love David"? Your dad was with a guy or something? Pretty creepy message there.bojingles4393

his dads name is david

/pwnt

lol how stupid is that huh?

Thai bimboes?

I know it's probably hard on you, but seriously, thai bimboes?

Cerussite

you killed it