My GF is scareing the living crap outta me...

Long story short, she told me "I love you so much" and I was like :shock: and then I HAD to tell her it back, but now I realize I dont really feel that way and shes got the wrong idea. Mind you that was a week ago, shes been calling me nonstop, emailing me and she judt wont leave me alone. She acted so chill before but now shes gotten so clingy. It also doesnt help that she knows all my secrets and might do somthing to me if I lay her off the wrong way. Be SERIOUS people, how do I handle this?

Answer to all your problems is.....................................buttsecksIconic_D

What if she likes it?

Time to break up.

[QUOTE="Iconic_D"]Answer to all your problems is.....................................buttsecksSuperbored

What if she likes it?

Why did you tell her your secrets?

If you said she loves you, you should have responded with "you're so good looking" or something similar. Not a fake "I love you".

You must abandon ship now. I would suggest the "Its not you, its me." breakup scenario.  

Answer to all your problems is.....................................chloroformIconic_D

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K she alsoo told me she'd do anything for me so thats probly what made me say it. She will act out if I dont handle this well soo I cant make any mistakes.specialzed

Give her chloroform, and then just run away. RUN AWAY.

And when I sent her one email back after her 5 she told me how much it means to her I responed and she thanked me for the response... like wtf? i cant think straight.specialzed

Thats really bad.

I think you're really overreacting over this. I mean, you're going to a message board and complaining to a anonymous group of users, and most of us probably don't have girlfriends! People like you make me sick! :P Rubbing your problems in our faces!

first thing is you cant be scared to love it will never work with anyone if your scared to love them, but if you dont do something she will figure it out eventually and probly be mad and from what you said her being mad isnt in your best intrests

[QUOTE="Iconic_D"]Answer to all your problems is.....................................chloroform then buttsecksm1993

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pics or i don't help youindian_playa

:lol:

[QUOTE="Iconic_D"]Answer to all your problems is.....................................buttsecksObama71

What you just did, was against the TOS, you aren't allowed to post and just say that you reported someone, you are now spamming, and will prolly be reported aswell.

As for the OP, honestly you just need to tell her that you need your space, the sooner the better

Answer to all your problems is.....................................buttsecksIconic_D

Yes please, thank you! :oops:

Reported for offensive content.Obama71

Obama71, do you have anything to contributeto this thread or did you simply troll on in here to report people for bringing a little bit of laughter to the Off-Topic board. And so you know, telling someone that you reported them will get you moderated it is in the TOU or TOS, whatever it is called, I believe it is labeled as trolling.

[QUOTE="Iconic_D"]Answer to all your problems is.....................................buttsecksObama71

Get back under your bridge you troll! :P

You know, you may not like these things, but when you lose her, you'll probably find out that you actually miss her intimacy. The fact that she is contactig you often, she's showing that you are deeply cared for. However you can talk to her and let her know that you miss the old GF instead of all this intimacy.

You guys give the worst advice ever...

Why would he dump a girl who loves him for who he is just because he said a bone head thing?

Talk to her about it. Say you want to take things slowly, and that you're commited to the relationship, but not quite at the stage she is. If she loves you like she says she does, she'll understsand and takes things slow.

You guys give the worst advice ever...

Why would he dump a girl who loves him for who he is just because he said a bone head thing?

Talk to her about it. Say you want to take things slowly, and that you're commited to the relationship, but not quite at the stage she is. If she loves you like she says she does, she'll understsand and takes things slow.

Tim_Q

TC said he doesnt feel the same way. It wouldnt work out in the long run.

Long story short, she told me "I love you so much" and I was like :shock: and then I HAD to tell her it back, but now I realize I dont really feel that way and shes got the wrong idea. Mind you that was a week ago, shes been calling me nonstop, emailing me and she judt wont leave me alone. She acted so chill before but now shes gotten so clingy. It also doesnt help that she knows all my secrets and might do somthing to me if I lay her off the wrong way. Be SERIOUS people, how do I handle this?

specialzed

[QUOTE="Tim_Q"]

You guys give the worst advice ever...

Why would he dump a girl who loves him for who he is just because he said a bone head thing?

Talk to her about it. Say you want to take things slowly, and that you're commited to the relationship, but not quite at the stage she is. If she loves you like she says she does, she'll understsand and takes things slow.

Zerocrossings

TC said he doesnt feel the same way. It wouldnt work out in the long run.

So? Not everyone plays at the same speed. It takes him longer, doesn't mean he won't love her later down the line. Unless he's unhappy in the relationship, there's no reason for him to end it.

Return fire with similar behavior.  Give her a big bear hug the next time you see her and and tell her how much you luv her. 

She won't see it coming.  :)

Long story short, she told me "I love you so much" and I was like :shock: and then I HAD to tell her it back, but now I realize I dont really feel that way and shes got the wrong idea. Mind you that was a week ago, shes been calling me nonstop, emailing me and she judt wont leave me alone. She acted so chill before but now shes gotten so clingy. It also doesnt help that she knows all my secrets and might do somthing to me if I lay her off the wrong way. Be SERIOUS people, how do I handle this?

specialzed

Well, some people use the word "love" freely and say it interchangeably with "I like you" but that doesnt seem to be the case with your girlfriend. Anyways, the fact that she loves you shouldnt be a bad thing, its always nice to be loved :P But I can see why its bad, since you dont feel the same. I think the first mistake you made was telling her than you love her too.

Now, I need to know how old you are. I mean if you are still in highschool, then you are worrying over nothing, but if you are out of highschool and independent, well, then it might be a bigger problem. If you dont feel the same, I suggest you sit her down one time when you are alone at home or something (preferably at her place so if it goes south, you can leave at anytime) and explain to her that you dont feel the same. And do it as gentle as possible! Now if you dont love her but still like her, then you can say that you dont feel the same because you havent been together long enough, but in time you are sure your feelings for her will grow. If you dont love her and dont like her then wtf are you doing with her!? :x Anyways, if you dont love her and dont like her, tell her that her telling you she loves you made you reevaluate the relationship, and you dont want to put her through an unfair relationship where you dont feel the same...and then pray she doesnt blackmail you with tears and guilt :?

K she alsoo told me she'd do anything for me so thats probly what made me say it. She will act out if I dont handle this well soo I cant make any mistakes.specialzed

Just say, "Then break up with me".

She is expressing how much she loves you, I really don't think that is a reason to break up.69ANT69

She's expressing crazy psycho obsession. That's definitely a reason to break up.