My GF is scareing the living crap outta me...

So.. why are you in a relationship if you're not looking for commitment, or love? I don't get it. You're just wasting her time. Be honest with her.EMOEVOLUTION

Love is such a big word, it changes everything. You shouldn't have said it unless you meant it. It's either break-up or man-up.

Tell her you need to slow things down. X360PS3AMD05

Eh, this. Did you really know what you were geting in to when you started going out with her? Be honest.

Put the relationship on slow motion.  I'm not saying to end the relationship but do not progress farther than you are ready.  Do not be pursuaded into doing more than you feel comfortable and do not pur her in uncomfortable situations either. 

If you do not think you will ever want the relationship to progress further then there is no need to continue in the relationship.

Why not try to find out if she really does love you for who you are? Say you want to break down all the barriers to truth that keep you apart. Tell her the size and consistency of your bowel movements, tell her which of her friends you'd most like to sleep with and voice your most disgusting fantasies and opinions and how you'd really like to realise them with her. Trust me, there are things at the back of your mind which could really cool her down. If, however, she still loves you, then you've laid the groundwork for being utterly honest with her about your feelings, and when she's equally honest then maybe there's something that will give you a legitimate grievance and decent grounds for a breakup.jimmyjammer69

TELL HER THE TRUTHFrKnPuertoRican

She can't handle the truth!

And when I sent her one email back after her 5 she told me how much it means to her I responed and she thanked me for the response... like wtf? i cant think straight.specialzed

Go for the easy, manipulative way..  that's what I always do..

Example: "You know, when I said I loved you, I meant it, really, but ever since I said it you've changed a little...  as in calling me more often, need to see me more, etc.  Well, you know, part of why I loved you so much was that you'd let me have some free space/time to chill, see my friends, etc.  I need that...  Now, it's been going a bit overboard between us two, you know?"

IF she says "oh yeah well sorry!" and fixes it, then great, and carry on what what you had before.

If she says" oh yeah well sorry!" and DOESN'T fix this, which will most likely happen, hit that 2-3 times and then dump her, you won't have a choice if you like your sanity.

Give her chloroform, and then just run away. RUN AWAY.

m1993

Your the kind of guy that stocks bottles of chloroform in you garage aren't you... :P

Long story short, she told me "I love you so much" and I was like :shock: and then I HAD to tell her it back, but now I realize I dont really feel that way and shes got the wrong idea. Mind you that was a week ago, shes been calling me nonstop, emailing me and she judt wont leave me alone. She acted so chill before but now shes gotten so clingy. It also doesnt help that she knows all my secrets and might do somthing to me if I lay her off the wrong way. Be SERIOUS people, how do I handle this?

specialzed

Well she's your girlfriend or not? How the hell can you tell it's your girlfriend if you don't even love her? If you were dating and now you don't love her anymore. Well you tell her that.

But if you never loved her but told her otherwise, you dug the crappiest hole ever.

The best thing to do right now would be to be more insane than her. Get a little bit distant, when she asks what is bothering you say "y'know, I uh...I can really only ever love a woman who dresses like Harley Quinn. Not just on dates either, all the time - school, work, home - I need someone who can be my Harley 24/7".

And well, if she's willing to do that for your then hey, problem solved, because now you're dating a Batman villan, and that is just awesome.

I think you shouldn't have let her get so attached to you if you dont really love her. The only way to lay her off would be to tell her the truth about how your feeling.