my girlfriend just broke up with me ...

Relationship break ups are so hard to handle..
Me and my boyfriend have broken up 3 times in the past few weeks
It was so hard... The day he broke up with me for the THIRD time, he stayed over and I didn't understand why.. I love him so much so I was happy for him to stay.. We watched The Phantom Of The Opera and it turned all romantic.. From cuddling and kissing, I would say that marked us back together again..

It hurt me so much when we broke up. It was so hard.
I still love him...
Takashi_7

Yeah, i still feel sick when i think of other guys doing 'things' to my ex :(GenTom

Yeah, that hurts....

@ Topic creator: Just move on dude! I know it's hard, but eventually, you will adapt.

Get hairy and burly, hit the gym and kain-nihiliate your body to the extreme.

The endorphins will make you feel like a crack addict without the annoying withdrawl symptoms. Plus, chicks dig burly men. In theory.

Realistically, I don't know what to do. These things leave me bewilldered. I would advise, no matter how crap you feel, do NOT drink to get over it. That path leads to madness,failure and extreme hangovers. Hangovers = s***.

I basically decided to not drink ever again today. Its just not worth it. Every male in my family has had a problem with alcohol. My father was a booze hound in his younger days, my grandfather as well. My great grandfather died in a bar room brawl. He was the first of us to move here from Ireland. Before that we were apparently the family of local drunks.

I hate alcohol so much its not funny but I'll bet next friday I'll still get drunk.

Just think of all the "things" you used to do with your girl. After pondering that, think what she will be doing with a guy that DOES give her the boyfriend vibe :P BUAHAHAHA!!

Never had a girl break up with me, so don't know what to tell you to do but to get over it. I always do the breaking up. xSIZEMATTER

Oh a pimp are you? :|

[QUOTE="xSIZEMATTER"]Never had a girl break up with me, so don't know what to tell you to do but to get over it. I always do the breaking up. KrunkMastaX

Oh a pimp are you? :|

I wasn't trying to sound like a pimp or trying to show off. I was just telling it like it is.

Girls bewilder me. My ex is very emotionally unstable, and broke up with me a couple months ago. I've taken it pretty hard, but in my mind, I find that I am better off without her, because as I said before, she's pretty emotionally unstable.

I still think about her, but I am talking to a few other prospects of dating now, so I'm doing okay.

Just think of all the "things" you used to do with your girl. After pondering that, think what she will be doing with a guy that DOES give her the boyfriend vibe :P BUAHAHAHA!!

Poedon

Works vice versa. Next boyfriend she gets shuff it in his face that you already did everything there is to do to her...

Edit...that kinda came off a little cold but whatever

Since it sounds like you really cared about this person, getting into a relationship too soon would only make things worse for you in the long run. You should enjoy being single for now and concentrate on the other important things about your life. When you get to the point where you can go almost a week straight without even thinking about your ex, then your ready for a new relationship. This will take a while, but you will eventually get to that point.Achilles438

Agreed. That's basically the situation I'm in. One thing that helps greatly in all this is do not hang out. It will only be harder for you to try to be friends, at least for a while. Reasons being you'll be around her so you naturally think about her. Another reason is if she starts dating then what are you going to do? Would you sit calmly by with no emotion involved as she sits near by holding a guys hand? At breakup there needs to be a complete separation or there will be problems down the road. Also, by becoming friends soon after can also leave one with a false hope about getting back together. If you are a religious man like I then use this time to strengthen your relationship with God.

I wasn't trying to sound like a pimp or trying to show off. I was just telling it like it is.

xSIZEMATTER

Mhm I'm sure. And if you had no advice for him but to "get over it" then maybe you shouldn't have entered the thread. Seeing as how you apparently have no experience with his situation.

[QUOTE="xSIZEMATTER"]

I wasn't trying to sound like a pimp or trying to show off. I was just telling it like it is.

KrunkMastaX

Mhm I'm sure. And if you had no advice for him but to "get over it" then maybe you shouldn't have entered the thread. Seeing as how you apparently have no experience with his situation.

I hate alcohol so much its not funny but I'll bet next friday I'll still get drunk.RKfromDownunder

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just dont cut yourself