My Girlfriend turned into a "Bible Freak"

Just get the hell outta there.Ugalde-

I see what you did there. And christians don't demand people to go to church.

She seems to have found a great desire to do the things of God but in her spiritual childhood she might not handle everything wisely. Her desire to have you live a more holy life that is pleasing to God? Good. Her way of going about it in a condemning attitude? Bad. If you care for her then be patient with her as she grows. mindstorm

This. Either she's going to the wrong church, or she just hasn't been in it long enough.

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Just get the hell outta there.dunl12496

I see what you did there. And christians don't demand people to go to church.

[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Just get the hell outta there.dunl12496

I see what you did there. And christians don't demand people to go to church.

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[QUOTE="Ugalde-"]Just get the hell outta there.cee1gee

I see what you did there. And christians don't demand people to go to church.

Her desire to have you live a more holy life that is pleasing to God? Good.mindstorm

I don't see how.

[QUOTE="mindstorm"] Her desire to have you live a more holy life that is pleasing to God? Good.Pffrbt

I don't see how.

Unknowingly dose her with a hallucinogen, freak her out, then drop the line

"where is your God now?"

one of 2 things will happen

1) she will lose her belief in God and you will assume the role

2) She will fight your attempts and attribute her resolve to God, in which case she will be turn into perma- Bible Freak

DivergeUnify

This sounds like the right choice :P
But really, dump her.

And, you know, God's as well assuming Christianity to be true. I do assume it to be true. :Pmindstorm

I don't.

[QUOTE="mindstorm"]And, you know, God's as well assuming Christianity to be true. I do assume it to be true. :PPffrbt

I don't.

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[QUOTE="mindstorm"]And, you know, God's as well assuming Christianity to be true. I do assume it to be true. :PDeihjan

I don't.

Thank you.

I think you should talk to her then decide if it is worth continuing the relationship.

To get out of the situation of not going to church, just say i will go to church if you show me one peice of evidence of god. after that maybe she'll realise the stupidity and you wont have to go to church!!11!1

Run. Fast.

To get out of the situation of not going to church, just say i will go to church if you show me one peice of evidence of god. after that maybe she'll realise the stupidity and you wont have to go to church!!11!1

iliatay

Dump her. God is good, but i hate it when people over use him thinking they will go to heaven just by screaming his name. God is something special that's in the inside.

martinX3X

Didn't you read the OP? She said she didn't want to do that anymore.

But now she says shes saving herself til shes married...

cee1gee

Little too late for that. Do what the Frosty Banana says:

Break up with her.frostybanana

[QUOTE="iliatay"]

To get out of the situation of not going to church, just say i will go to church if you show me one peice of evidence of god. after that maybe she'll realise the stupidity and you wont have to go to church!!11!1

cee1gee

You aren't wrong. Faith is a personal matter that does not extend beyond the individual. If she is unwilling to understand your perspective and continues the fanatically insistent mentality, odds are it will take some sort of life shaking event to make her realize she is going about the issue the wrong way. Ironically something like seeing a year+ relationship fall apart because she went overboard with her faith could be just such an event.

Aside from her not being Catholic (and the sex), I was in the same boat.

It's not worth it man. If she can't see beyond her religion to see your opinion on the matter then she isn't ready to change right now.

Ask her to be more open and if she goes for it then swell. If she's not willing to compromise then move on. It's not worth the problems.

That's a lost cause dude. Just dump the girl and move on. She's been brainwashed.

Put her on churchie watch.

Get married, it's the only solution.luisen123

im not ready for marriage right now, i rather not have sex cee1gee

[QUOTE="cee1gee"]im not ready for marriage right now, i rather not have sex luisen123

Sounds like a lunatic...more so than normal. Doesn't seem like a stable girl.metallica_fan42

[QUOTE="metallica_fan42"]Sounds like a lunatic...more so than normal. Doesn't seem like a stable girl.cee1gee

[QUOTE="cee1gee"][QUOTE="metallica_fan42"]Sounds like a lunatic...more so than normal. Doesn't seem like a stable girl.metallica_fan42

This happened over night...and it has become VERY annoying...not that i dont believe in religion because im Catholic and shes Christian, i dont preach it or pray i was just raised Catholic, but its like she has become demanding wanting me to go to church with her, tells me im going to go to hell if i dont accept Jesus as my savior...we have been going out for 1 year already and we have "done it"

But now she says shes saving herself til shes married...any thoughts on how should i handle this? She dont even let me throw in any thoughts on religion she just doesnt want to hear anything that i tell her about it, shes being very close minded and contradicting...like for example she judges me for things i do but in other conversations she tells me how no body is supposed to judge another....HELPPPPP

cee1gee

If it's that much of a problem, just dump her.

Don't even try to change her mind. This is you competing against God. If she's serious about the whole change, then you can't compete. So just tell her that you're leaving.

Similarly, if she's just doing it for attention or something (as opposed to actually being serious about it), then the best way to find out is to flat-out dump her ass. If you dump her and then she immediately drops the whole act and starts begging you to come back, then at least you know that she was full of ****. At that point, you can stay separated or get back together. But if you DO choose to get back together, at least now she knows that YOU know that she's full of ****. So she probably won't try pulling the same stunt. Maybe a DIFFERENT stunt, but probably not the whole "Bible Freak" thing.

[QUOTE="iliatay"]

To get out of the situation of not going to church, just say i will go to church if you show me one peice of evidence of god. after that maybe she'll realise the stupidity and you wont have to go to church!!11!1

cee1gee

OT: talk to her, if she won't calm down and be respectfull then dump her.

Sorry to hear that man...

Have you considered asking her to just read this thread? :lol:

Have you considered asking her to just read this thread? :lol:

raynimrod

[QUOTE="raynimrod"]

Have you considered asking her to just read this thread? :lol:

cee1gee

It sounds like she may have done that already, my friend.

obviously you "did it" bad and now shes finding a way to never "do it" with you again. Now there is only two obvious solutions to this.

1) You beat the crazy out of her. By beating her, you drive away the evil spirits through her open wounds and allow good spirits to enter through them. This should work 85% of the time.

2) The second option is only used as a last ditch effort to make her see the light. You have to force her to "do it" with you and be so good at "doing it" that you shock all the evil spirits to death. With this method she might be screaming and protesting but that is just the evil spirits dying.

Hope this helped

[spoiler] I am obviously not serious, nobody should do the two above options ever [/spoiler]

If your unhappy then I'd say yeah your best bet is to breakbreak up with herand leave. However, if you wanna make it work, doyour best to talk to her if she won't listen or won't have it just dump her @$$ and move on.

[QUOTE="cee1gee"][QUOTE="iliatay"]

To get out of the situation of not going to church, just say i will go to church if you show me one peice of evidence of god. after that maybe she'll realise the stupidity and you wont have to go to church!!11!1

Gibsonsg527