My little sister just died.

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#1 001011000101101
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I feel like crap right now. She was only 8 years old and got cancer about two years ago. I'm really feeling down at the moment. You guys got any idea how to handle this? :?

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#2 GenTom
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the fridge...comfort food.

*hug*

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#3 II_Seraphim_II
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Thats really sad :( But dont you think you would be better off talking to a family member or close friend than random strangers on OT? Just saying...but if this makes you feel better, then do stay :)
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#4 thusaha
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I'm so sorry about that. :(
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#5 001011000101101
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Of course. I've talked with my parents and friends the whole morning. I'm just asking if anyone got any suggestions that could make me think of something else than my sister. Just for a while.

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#6 SolidTy
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I recently had a very close family member die as well (three months ago) and it is horrible. Let out your emotions, and remember that the best way to honor their memory is too do something she would be proud of.It remarkable the things we can achieve, and she will always be there when you think of her. I'm sorry for your loss, I understand it so well. Be strong, as humans, this is something we have to endure, but value your life and do something with it.

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#8 vlin1108
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Sorry for your loss. Play a video game; it always keeps you away from reality. Like Fable 2.
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#10 CreepingDeath_
Member since 2007 • 3342 Posts

Watch a funny movie. Nothing sad though.

Sorry for your loss :(.

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#11 pancreasjuice
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damn dude, thats heavy, sorry to hear about that, the best i can say is get out your most mindlessly violent videogame. 3 years ago when one of my best mates died, we all got together, went out and got completely hammered, toasted to his life, and tried to remember, maybe you can try that.

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#12 shadowlusterx
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Play a game. Force yourself to do it. And then sleep.

Sorry about your loss.

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#14 WestSideAzn
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Hey,

 

I apologize for your loss. I feel as though that in honor of her death, you should do something that she will like. If she looked up to you, make sure that you do something that she will be proud of...

Use her as your inspiration to do things later in your life.

I hope you feel better. God bless you and your family. 

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#15 tOtalPWNaAe
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sorry for your loss:(
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#16 iki080
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im sorry about your lost i cant image how i would act aswell
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#18 escapeoftheape
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im so sorry.. i tend to listen to music when im feeling down, dont know if thatll work for you.

i guess you could hang out with friends, go to the movies etc and have a good time to get your mind off it for a few hours?

maan, this must be so tough :( nothing like that has ever happened to me, so yeah.. play a video game, maybe?

good luck, man. hope it wont be too hard for you to get through it. 

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#19 sAndroid17
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thats horrible :( so sorry
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#20 char1968
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ugh thats sad...hope ya get better
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#21 GTR2addict
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thats really sad but... im surprised this hasnt been said yet but... : dont moan her death, celebrate her life
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#22 001011000101101
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Thanks everyone. I'm going to the movies tonight with two of my frinds to see the new Bond movie.

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#23 deactivated-5901ac91d8e33
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Tough luck.
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#24 R0cky_Racc00n
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Do stuff to make you feel better, like charity, and indulge yourself a little at the same time. It's tough, I know what it's like to loose a family member. Just what ever you do don't feel any guilt and find the person you're closest with and spill your whole guts out with them. Don't spill your guts out to a so called professional because it will be like spilling it to a wall since they can't understand you. A professional can help you cope but they're not the best person to reflect with.
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#25 DarkPrinceXC
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I'm very sorry for your loss. I have no idea what I would do if I were to lose one of my brothers or my sister....
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#26 1bigsmoke55
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not to long ago my grandmom on my dad's side died because she was in a coma, what i did was think about somthing else, read a book, play. it'll help.
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#27 kingdre
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I'm sorry to hear that. :(

I don't have any suggestions, I'm afraid. You're just gonna have to learn to live without her. It will take a while but eventually, you'll come to terms with it.

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#28 czort666
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Sorry for your loss:(
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#29 Travo_basic
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I'm sorry to hear that. I would recommend getting off of Gamespot and hanging out with friends and family.

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#31 Vfanek
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Sorry to hear. Nothing can be done about it though, life needs to keep going.
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#32 Mercenary848
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Sorry man just stay strong, and to be honest with you your not going to recover from this completly. You just cope day by day.
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#33 aliblabla2007
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Can't do anything about it now. I suggest you mourn her, then move on with life.
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#34 _LiquidFlame_
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Oh my god, dude I'm sorry. :(
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#35 KHfanboy2
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Damn... that sucks. :( Sorry for your loss.
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#36 deactivated-64b76bd048860
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My condolences to you and your family. Play some games to try and feel better.
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#37 entropyecho
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My deepest condolences to you and your family.
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#38 JIT93
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I'm so sorry :cry:

The closest I ever felt any family member die is my aunt, I woudn't imagine any one of my sisters dying

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"Life's a b**ch and if i ever meet her ima tell her"
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#40 msudude211
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I'm really sorry to hear that. :(

My aunt died when she was really young. She had Leukemia, and I believe she died when she was ten. :(

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#41 Memberino
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I'm surprised no one has said "picherz or it didnt happen" yet.

Well I'm really sorry for your loss, do you have any other siblings? I suggest burying your emotions deep deep down so they never need surface again. 

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#42 mastetofthedark
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My condolences, man.
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#43 seker456
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thats sad. i had a brother who wasnt born who died
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#44 II_Seraphim_II
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Well TC, there isnt much you can do. I think you need to mourn and feel the pain before it gets better. When my grandma died I didnt try to avoid the pain or anything. I dealt with it head on and mourned/cried for a couple of weeks then I was feeling a lot better. Plus my family and friends were very helpful. All my friends would take turns babysitting me, trying to get me out of the house just spending time with me so I didnt feel lonely and that helped alot. My advice for you, is be around the living. Dont mourn alone, its alot easier to heal with other people around you.
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#45 hot_juicy_steak
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sorry to hear that man, :( try to play a game or do something.
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#46 Locke562
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Sorry for your loss. Play a video game; it always keeps you away from reality. Like Fable 2.vlin1108

 

Yeah, That's a good game to play! 

 

...Jerk.

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#47 UnamedThing
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Just get out a insanely violent video game and go on a killing spree. I feel so bad for you right now. It's hard to put it into words.

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#48 YoungDollaFresh
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[QUOTE="vlin1108"]Sorry for your loss. Play a video game; it always keeps you away from reality. Like Fable 2.Locke562

 

Yeah, That's a good game to play! 

 

...Jerk.

Woah have to admit i just had a big laugh at that but for some reason i don't think vlin1108 did that intentional, but if so thats just... wrong

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#49 Parandrus
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Go build a bridge to an imaginary land and become king. But seriously though, I have no idea.
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#50 ChiddaPotta
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Try and watch a funny movie or play game.

Sorry for your loss :(