My wife had sex with another man should I take her back?

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index?qid=20100627201202AAx2oDd

This is what is wrong with modern men. Taking back women after they have cheated. Once a cheater, always a cheater. This should be no question to let her go

cliffs:

couple is married for 5 years,
woman goes on "girls" night out,
she takes off her ring to get guys to dance with her,
she ends the night by fukking the guy while drunk,
next morning they **** again

Just have sex with another woman. CRS98

[QUOTE="CRS98"]Just have sex with another woman. Darthkaiser

No, get rid of her.MrPraline

Every relationship is different.

For my marriage, she'd be gone.

WHats the reason behind why she did it, im sure they are more cracks that need to be heard before we can make rational asnwers.

inb4 pics or it didn't happen.

Once a cheater, always a cheater.

mingmao3046

fvcking animals.

IF she has some hot friends...then demand a threesome or foursome...

Yes then you cheat on her and you'll be even.

IF she has some hot friends...then demand a threesome or foursome...

masiisam

wait that sounds better.Do that.

[QUOTE="Darthkaiser"][QUOTE="CRS98"]Just have sex with another woman. Legatus_Victix

Sorry man not to be a d*** but i really have no idea why someone would ask a question like this on an open forum. I just can not wrap my head around it for the life of me. All i can tell you is that if that happened to me i would definitely be listening to my heart and going with my instincts and gut. Obviously there are some problems with your relationship. Something some where is lacking or both of you have drifted so far apart that you did not see this coming. If you truly love her and you have the slightest idea that you may be able to salvage your marriage then i certainly would not be asking a gaming forum what to do. I would be taking my questions, doubts, ideas and opinions straight to her.

You just can't turn a ho into a housewife.

People make mistakes. I'm not going to go from loving someone to hatting someone simply because they had a moment of weakness. However, if this were reoccurring, or accompanied by other acts of dishonesty then we have an issue!Meinhard1

I always enjoy reading the advice and decrees on relationships and women from the mostly virginal crowd here at OT.worlock77

worlock77 - OT Master of sex

There are situations where I think I would forgive cheating but these 2 things are 2 big red flags:

1. she takes off her ring to get guys to dance with her - she had full intention to cheat

2. next morning they **** again - she was not drunk and did it again, so no remorse

She seems like a party girl.

[QUOTE="worlock77"]I always enjoy reading the advice and decrees on relationships and women from the mostly virginal crowd here at OT.kingkong0124

worlock77 - OT Master of sex

Personally? No.

However, this is up to him and his "wife." Then again, what struck me was that he met her in a club. Not an ideal place.

If it doesn't work the first time. It probably wont work the next time eitherCanuck3000

she betrayed his trust, so no.

I personally can't fathom why someone would take back a person that cheated on them. I'd feel so betrayed and angry I'd never want to be in the same room with that person again.

He should divorce her and take all he can.

A cheater can be a reformed cheater who through weekly councilling meetings and support from fellow ex-cheaters can be accepted once again by the general community. Don't be so cruel as to brand cheaters for life. They're human just like you

I honestly thought this was going to be a personal thread.

Would explain all the anti-feminists posts of yours.

Yeah cheaters are always cheaters though.

No