Well, picking up girls isn't really that hard. It's really something that comes naturally if you have a bit of nerve.
Here's the one thing that will turn a girl off instantly: Being a wussy, and looking weak. All girls say they want a sensitive guy. That is a huge loaf of bologna. Notice how the sensitive guys in the world never get the girl, and she always stays with the one who treats her like gum on his shoe? They want a guy who will take care of them. They want a guy who is strong, masculine, and mysterious. Don't be a jerk, but don't look weak either. Always respect the girl, but you'd be surprised at what lines you can bend, and which you can't. Just never cross the line.
First of all, don't be afraid to say anything to a girl. Say what's on you mind. Say it honestly. Say it bluntly. Just don't hide the truth. If you look like you're afraid to say something, or she senses that you have a little fear, the level of attraction drops instantly, and your battle is already half lost.
Next, you've got to be funny. Being ironic is funny. A lot of things are funny, find one that works for you. I personally am sarcastic, and some girls just can't get enough of it. A girl will never be interested if she can't laugh. If you look afraid to say something, and you're not funny, you might as well wear a necklace made of sulfur.
Another thing, don't look entirely interested in her. When the time is right, just end the conversation. Move on completely. If she's really pretty, she always gets attention from a guy. If you pretend to lose interest in her, she'll want to figure out more about why you lost interest and know more about you. See those key words..know more about you. Now your battle is already half won. If she wants to know more about you, that's already a good start.
If she brags that she can do this or that, say something like, "Eh, I've seen better". One really great question to get her going for you is when she asks "What do you do for a living?". This is where you say something hilarious. Come up with an answer no girl will ever expect. If you say any of the following like "I'm a lawyer/engineer/police officer/any other manly job" she will just be like..."eh".
If you really want her number though, this is the trick. Note: you always need a pen and pencil available. A really heavy pen is better as well. Ask her if she has an email. If she says yes tell her "Great, write it down." She'll most likely do it, figuring she can just ignore your emails later. WHILE SHE IS WRITING THE EMAIL, tell her "write down you phone number too while you're at it". She most likely will write it down just because she's writing down information and it would take too much thought for her to stop, so she'll just keep going.
So really it all boils down to this: Leave her wanting more. That's how you get a girl attracted to you. Pretend to be too busy. Even if you have no social life what so ever.
And my favorite pick up line is this "I'm predicting that I'll be hungry around 6 P.M on Saturday night. Care to join me?"
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