I ve got no time for women like that
life is too short
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[QUOTE="slateman_basic"]Is a kiss really the symbol of love? Actors and actresses kiss all the time. Are they in love?
Hewkii
they also have sex all the time (see: porn). doesn't mean anything.
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Dump her, quickly! Girls like that will never ever have a serious relationship. No kissing is basically saying "No love for me, thanks"smarb001If you do choose to dump her you can at least be friends with her afterwards. Dont be an immature prick about it though.
[QUOTE="smarb001"]Dump her, quickly! Girls like that will never ever have a serious relationship. No kissing is basically saying "No love for me, thanks"chester706If you do choose to dump her you can at least be friends with her afterwards. Dont be an immature prick about it though.
It depends really. If she's pretty and nice but just doesnt wanna kiss, you should definitely try to stick it out, maybe by staying together or becoming just friends... maybe she'll get over it at some point.
[QUOTE="stevenk4k5"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]I've heard of it. If you truly cared for her then you wouldn't mind this so much.pianist
It's just a freakin' kiss, it's not like they are having sex. Why should he have to wait until marriage to even get a kiss from her? That is one of the most simple displays of affection. I can see if she said let's wait a month before we make out but c'mon... until MARRIAGE? And most likely they are never even going to marry each other.
Who cares. Physical contact isn't (or shouldn't) be the focal point of a relationship. And Theo is right - if you really care about a person, you respect his or her beliefs as deeply as he or she would. You may not agree with them, but you damn well respect them.
I never said it was the focal point of the relationship but it is a damn big part of one. I would like to personally shake the hand of any man (or woman) that has had a successful, long term relationship with no physical contact whatsoever with the whom he or she is dating. And respect is a given; if it's not something she wants to do then so be it but I would have to call it quits with her.
[QUOTE="pianist"][QUOTE="stevenk4k5"][QUOTE="Theokhoth"]I've heard of it. If you truly cared for her then you wouldn't mind this so much.stevenk4k5
It's just a freakin' kiss, it's not like they are having sex. Why should he have to wait until marriage to even get a kiss from her? That is one of the most simple displays of affection. I can see if she said let's wait a month before we make out but c'mon... until MARRIAGE? And most likely they are never even going to marry each other.
Who cares. Physical contact isn't (or shouldn't) be the focal point of a relationship. And Theo is right - if you really care about a person, you respect his or her beliefs as deeply as he or she would. You may not agree with them, but you damn well respect them.
I never said it was the focal point of the relationship but it is a damn big part of one. I would like to personally shake the hand of any man (or woman) that has had a successful, long term relationship with no physical contact whatsoever with the whom he or she is dating. And respect is a given; if it's not something she wants to do then so be it but I would have to call it quits with her.
I can NOT be in a relationship with out sex, to me its pure madness. I dont mind waiting, weeks, or month for the first time for it to happen but It needs to happen for it to be long term with me.If you do choose to dump her you can at least be friends with her afterwards. Dont be an immature prick about it though.[QUOTE="chester706"][QUOTE="smarb001"]Dump her, quickly! Girls like that will never ever have a serious relationship. No kissing is basically saying "No love for me, thanks"smarb001
It depends really. If she's pretty and nice but just doesnt wanna kiss, you should definitely try to stick it out, maybe by staying together or becoming just friends... maybe she'll get over it at some point.
Just try and change her mind about it. There are plenty of girls who say "I'm not having sex before marriage" but what that really mean is "I'm not ready yet". The reason for the marriage excuse is cause us guys don't understand the meaning of the word "No". So if just say "No" then we'd try to push them into it.
If you do choose to dump her you can at least be friends with her afterwards. Dont be an immature prick about it though.[QUOTE="chester706"][QUOTE="smarb001"]Dump her, quickly! Girls like that will never ever have a serious relationship. No kissing is basically saying "No love for me, thanks"smarb001
It depends really. If she's pretty and nice but just doesnt wanna kiss, you should definitely try to stick it out, maybe by staying together or becoming just friends... maybe she'll get over it at some point.
I wasnt directing it at you btw I was applying your quote to fill my point. If I were you I would just be friends with her but if you really like her then you could try and stick it out.If it was sex then I would understand for I too am waiting till I am married but no kissing is extreme IMO. If you want out be nice about it please.Whoa She IIIS Hardcore!!!!!!
I would wait specially because that means she has never been touched by anyone else.
[QUOTE="Hewkii"][QUOTE="slateman_basic"]Is a kiss really the symbol of love? Actors and actresses kiss all the time. Are they in love?
I_pWnzz_YoU
they also have sex all the time (see: porn). doesn't mean anything.
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For porn stars, it certainly doesn't mean much. However, for most women, sex does mean something. Even for guys.
Obviously for this girl, it means a lot.
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