No response even worse than rejection?

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#1 slash_622
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So I tried to make plans with a girl I like to go watch a movie today. She said she had some errands to run in the morning but she would call me to let me know about what time would be good for her. Well I woke up and waited for a call, nothing... ate lunch and waited some more and still nothing. Not wanting to intrude, in case shes in the middle of something, I send her a text casually asking about our plans today. An hour goes by and still nothing. Finally I decide, I'd better give her a call since the last show time is coming up pretty soon. I call and the phone just keeps ringing and ringing before finally going to voicemail. Now the last showtime for our planned movie has just gone by and I've heard not a word from her. So I'm wondering, this is a pretty bad sign isn't it? I mean she didn't even tell me no, just plain no response.
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#2 Engrish_Major
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Yeah, it's not good. It will happen a lot though - girls are like that. Retain your pride and move on.
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#3 Oleg_Huzwog
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Meh. I've been stood up. I've stood others up. It happens.

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#4 awesome3496
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Maybe her phone broke but yes it is it leaves you thinking What happened

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#5 BlindBluMonstah
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thats horrible :( ignore her if she texts you :x :P

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#6 Travo_basic
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Learn from this and move on. There are more girls out there.
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So I tried to make plans with a girl I like to go watch a movie today. She said she had some errands to run in the morning but she would call me to let me know about what time would be good for her. Well I woke up and waited for a call, nothing... ate lunch and waited some more and still nothing. Not wanting to intrude, in case shes in the middle of something, I send her a text casually asking about our plans today. An hour goes by and still nothing. Finally I decide, I'd better give her a call since the last show time is coming up pretty soon. I call and the phone just keeps ringing and ringing before finally going to voicemail. Now the last showtime for our planned movie has just gone by and I've heard not a word from her. So I'm wondering, this is a pretty bad sign isn't it? I mean she didn't even tell me no, just plain no response.slash_622
This could either mean two things, She doesn't like you or she put her phone on silent and forgot where it is.

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#8 F1_2004
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Pretty much. In the past when I've made plans with a girl that was interested in me, sometimes she'd be the one texting me to ask if we were still going. If they're interested, they'll do the errands some other time. I'd say drop it and call after a few days to figure out what's the deal.
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#9 TyrantDragon55
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Nope that's definitely not a good sign, your best bet is to just move on and when you see her pretend like you couldn't care less.

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#10 Trollsters
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So I tried to make plans with a girl I like to go watch a movie today. She said she had some errands to run in the morning but she would call me to let me know about what time would be good for her. Well I woke up and waited for a call, nothing... ate lunch and waited some more and still nothing. Not wanting to intrude, in case shes in the middle of something, I send her a text casually asking about our plans today. An hour goes by and still nothing. Finally I decide, I'd better give her a call since the last show time is coming up pretty soon. I call and the phone just keeps ringing and ringing before finally going to voicemail. Now the last showtime for our planned movie has just gone by and I've heard not a word from her. So I'm wondering, this is a pretty bad sign isn't it? I mean she didn't even tell me no, just plain no response.slash_622
dude get the hint shes not interested.
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#11 stormingly
Member since 2009 • 123 Posts

She may have just dealt with family drama or something similiar/was unable to go out and too busy to tell you, or she was to cowardly to tell you that she didn't feel like going out. If she agreed to go out with you in the first place, it probably wasn't personal.

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#12 jorler333
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I wouldn't call it worse because there is that chance something happened and she didn't stand you up. But it's not a good sign.

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#13 JonnyEagle
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Yeah, no response is no good, haha something similar happened to me yesterday where this girl didn't respond to a text, anyway the best thing to do is move on, plenty of girls out there.....
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#14 themagicbum9720
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maybe she died.
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#15 awesome3496
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maybe she died.themagicbum9720
Woah unexpected.
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#16 Oleg_Huzwog
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maybe she died.themagicbum9720

Hmmm, I don't know. I think rejection would still be worse.

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#17 megagene
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Meh. In general, no response is pretty much the same thing as rejection. It just wastes more time.
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#18 x8VXU6
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well just sit in ur room all weekend until u get ur pride back(cuz I know its hurts) the come monday move on cuz their is other fish in the sea

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#19 charomid
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do u know this girl from school or something?? if so, wait until you see her at skool and ask her why she didnt reply or call you for the movie thing. or u could just call her with private number and hope she picks up. lol

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#20 aransom
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Chances are she didn't want to go to the movies with you. Don't do anything rash that would burn your bridges, though. There's a teeny tiny chance her grandma died or something.

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#21 Pirate700
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That's not that bad. Consider yourself lucky she didn't stand you up someplace.

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#22 Pirate700
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do u know this girl from school or something?? if so, wait until you see her at skool and ask her why she didnt reply or call you for the movie thing. or u could just call her with private number and hope she picks up. lol

charomid

I wouldn't ask her in person. That's about as awkward as it gets. Either forget about it or just shoot her another text in a couple of days.

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#23 deactivated-5b31d3729c1fa
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being ignored is a lot worse than rejection...

...at everything...

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#24 Bedizen
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Either she doesn't want to go out with you or something important has happened