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#1 Japan-Japanese
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I been like this since Kindergarden, sure the kids in my class were nice and all but they weren't really my friends and it was like this until 3rd grade. In 4th grade I just stood in one place at recess and didn't know how to communicate while my class mates had lots of friends and this happend tell 7 grade when I moved. When I moved thing became worst, I still sate at lunch by my self like always and now in the 12 grade still do it because I just don't know what to talk about to make friends.

No I'm not crazy, artisitic, or any thing like that just nevrous as hell around people and no way to control it, in other words scared of what they may think or say. I been sitting by my self at lunch since 1st grade and even in Kindergarden I ate at lunch in the cafateria with no one in their but me but can't remeber why, I was loud and disruptive in school in the begining so that probably why. Ok you know that weird nevrous shaky feeling you get on stage, thats how the hell I feel around people. So I sit by these group of people and I like this girl and don't know what the hell to do oh well I guess thanks for your time.

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#2 pokeracc
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Hey dont worry about it. Give it your best shot, and be comfortable with yourself ;)
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#3 -Rail_Man-
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i'm kinda like that...but i fall under the artistic catagory.
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#4 Silver_Dragon17
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Blog it.
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#5 Big_player
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in your surrent situation you have absolutly nothing to lose from approaching someone and trying to make friends, seriously if they hate youll be stuck by yourself like you already are.
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#6 The_Late_ADJ
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I been like this since Kindergarden, sure the kids in my class were nice and all but they weren't really my friends and it was like this until 3rd grade. In 4th grade I just stood in one place at recess and didn't know how to communicate while my class mates had lots of friends and this happend tell 7 grade when I moved. When I moved thing became worst, I still sate at lunch by my self like always and now in the 12 grade still do it because I just don't know what to talk about to make friends.

No I'm not crazy, artisitic, or any thing like that just nevrous as hell around people and no way to control it, in other words scared of what they may think or say. I been sitting by my self at lunch since 1st grade and even in Kindergarden I ate at lunch in the cafateria with no one in their but me but can't remeber why, I was loud and disruptive in school in the begining so that probably why. Ok you know that weird nevrous shaky feeling you get on stage, thats how the hell I feel around people. So I sit by these group of people and I like this girl and don't know what the hell to do oh well I guess thanks for your time.

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See a doctor about being nevrous. Sounds nasty.

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Go the emo way it helps a little :?
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#8 guitboxdude25
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well,about the extreme nervousness and stuff,i would seek profesional help.but dont be ashamed of it,no one even has to know.if you dont think thats necesary,then you should really start off slow,make a friend,talk to someone,be pleasant and open doors for people.theyll become more comfortable with you as you become comfortable with them.and if your afraid of what theyll think of you,trust me they will think alot worse of you if you just sit around alone.
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#9 SlashDementia3
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I'm like that, been like that since I was in 2nd grade. Just talk go little by little, stop caring whats going to happen. I'm getting better like that, I stopped caring about everything. Just for the love of all thats good, don't go emo. Several psychiatrist said I have social phobia, psh but like I care as much as I used too :P Hope ya get better.
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#10 lycrof
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I hear eatign live gold fish boosts your social standing
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I hear eatign live gold fish boosts your social standinglycrof

This is true.

And the effect is ten times greater if you regurgitate it and eat it again.

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I been like this since Kindergarden, sure the kids in my class were nice and all but they weren't really my friends and it was like this until 3rd grade. In 4th grade I just stood in one place at recess and didn't know how to communicate while my class mates had lots of friends and this happend tell 7 grade when I moved. When I moved thing became worst, I still sate at lunch by my self like always and now in the 12 grade still do it because I just don't know what to talk about to make friends.

No I'm not crazy, artisitic, or any thing like that just nevrous as hell around people and no way to control it, in other words scared of what they may think or say. I been sitting by my self at lunch since 1st grade and even in Kindergarden I ate at lunch in the cafateria with no one in their but me but can't remeber why, I was loud and disruptive in school in the begining so that probably why. Ok you know that weird nevrous shaky feeling you get on stage, thats how the hell I feel around people. So I sit by these group of people and I like this girl and don't know what the hell to do oh well I guess thanks for your time.

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I went through a similar situation when I was younger. I wasn't the most outgoing person, but because I grew up with a lot of the kids at school it was much easier making friends with them. Between my fifth and sixth grade year however, I moved and had a difficult time making any real friends.

The best advice that I can give you is to get involved with something you like. That is probably my biggest regret and probably one of the big reasons I had such a hard time making friends. If you can get involved with something you like, then you'll be in a group with people who you have something in common with and that can be a great spring board for making new friends.