Not enough faith or taking faith to seriously?

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#1 _R34LiTY_
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I'm sure most of you remember the one little girl who died sometime around April last yearbecause her parents refused to take her to the hospital and preferred to keep her at home and pray to God for the healing of their daughter.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,341869,00.html

Obviously it didn't work because the poor girl died, but my question is ...... Why wasn't the payer answered? The parents attribute it to a lack of faith while others say they are delusional and took faith to seriously.

What is the more likely scenario IYO?

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#2 darkmoney52
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Too much praying and not enough ritual sacrifice.

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#3 TLM16
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The prayer wasn't answered because there's probably no one there to receive it.

If there is he's one cruel bastard.

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#4 unholymight
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Too much praying and not enough ritual sacrifice.

darkmoney52
I'm going to go with this.
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#5 super_mario_128
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Too much praying and not enough ritual sacrifice.

darkmoney52
POSEIDON WANT DEAD CATTLE. RAWR! But yeah, anyone who thinks prayer can heal physical pain is a tad deluded...
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#6 Dr_Manfattan
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having faith is fine, its your choice, but to put your daughters life into the mercy of just your faith is taking it too far.

if you believe there is a god, then by all means pray for your daughter, but you have to see logic and take her to the doctors.

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#7 unholymight
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[QUOTE="darkmoney52"]

Too much praying and not enough ritual sacrifice.

super_mario_128
POSEIDON WANT DEAD CATTLE. RAWR! But yeah, anyone who thinks prayer can heal physical pain is a tad deluded...

So anyone who thinks prayer can heal emotional pain is not a tad deluded?
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#8 Darth-Caedus
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The prayer wasn't answered because there's probably no one there to receive it.

TLM16
Agreed with this.
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#9 darkmoney52
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[QUOTE="super_mario_128"][QUOTE="darkmoney52"]

Too much praying and not enough ritual sacrifice.

unholymight

POSEIDON WANT DEAD CATTLE. RAWR! But yeah, anyone who thinks prayer can heal physical pain is a tad deluded...

So anyone who thinks prayer can heal emotional pain is not a tad deluded?

It works for some people. You don't need faith in god to have faith in the placebo effect.

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The bottom line: prayer doesn't work.

There have been countless studies done, many by religious people/groups, that have tried to show the efficacy of prayer, and all its shown is it has a slight placebo effect for those who know they are being prayed for, and no effect for people who didn't know.

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#11 super_mario_128
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[QUOTE="unholymight"][QUOTE="super_mario_128"][QUOTE="darkmoney52"]

Too much praying and not enough ritual sacrifice.

POSEIDON WANT DEAD CATTLE. RAWR! But yeah, anyone who thinks prayer can heal physical pain is a tad deluded...

So anyone who thinks prayer can heal emotional pain is not a tad deluded?

I think prayer can heal emotional wounds, though not in the intended way.
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[QUOTE="unholymight"][QUOTE="super_mario_128"] POSEIDON WANT DEAD CATTLE. RAWR! But yeah, anyone who thinks prayer can heal physical pain is a tad deluded...darkmoney52
So anyone who thinks prayer can heal emotional pain is not a tad deluded?

It works for some people.

What's the difference between physical and emotional? Any emotion can be traced to electrical nerve impulses and hormones.

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They shouldn't be allowed to have children...
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#15 darkmoney52
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[QUOTE="darkmoney52"][QUOTE="unholymight"] So anyone who thinks prayer can heal emotional pain is not a tad deluded?unholymight

It works for some people.

What's the difference between physical and emotional? There is a continuum between these two and they are thus inseperable. Any emotion can be traced to electrical nerve impulses and hormones.

I edited my post. You don't need faith in God to have faith in the placebo effect. And I'm not sure what your point was about about emotional and physical being connected.
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#16 unholymight
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[QUOTE="unholymight"]

[QUOTE="darkmoney52"] It works for some people.darkmoney52

What's the difference between physical and emotional? There is a continuum between these two and they are thus inseperable. Any emotion can be traced to electrical nerve impulses and hormones.

I edited my post. You don't need faith in God to have faith in the placebo effect. And I'm not sure what your point was about about emotional and physical being connected.

Emotions have a physical basis, that's what I meant. Electrical impulses and chemical hormones and their respective neuroreceptors.
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#18 unholymight
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[QUOTE="unholymight"]

[QUOTE="darkmoney52"] It works for some people.Greyfeld

What's the difference between physical and emotional? There is a continuum between these two and they are thus inseperable. Any emotion can be traced to electrical nerve impulses and hormones.

Wow... there's just no words to explain how incredibly stupid this statement is.

If that were true, I'd have made quite an accomplishment. It's not easy to do something so stupid that's impossible to describe with words.
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#19 darkmoney52
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[QUOTE="darkmoney52"][QUOTE="unholymight"]

What's the difference between physical and emotional? There is a continuum between these two and they are thus inseperable. Any emotion can be traced to electrical nerve impulses and hormones.

unholymight

I edited my post. You don't need faith in God to have faith in the placebo effect. And I'm not sure what your point was about about emotional and physical being connected.

Emotions have a physical basis, that's what I meant. Electrical impulses and chemical hormones and their respective neuroreceptors.

But that doesn't mean that all emotional stress must be resolved with physical cures. For many religious people, their rituals and belief that something is looking out for them can be enough to get them past some hard times.

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#20 Greyfeld
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Emotions have a physical basis, that's what I meant. Electrical impulses and chemical hormones and their respective neuroreceptors.unholymight

Yeah, because the last time I slammed my finger in the car door, I was inexplicably washed over with feelings of love.

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#21 unholymight
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[QUOTE="unholymight"][QUOTE="darkmoney52"] I edited my post. You don't need faith in God to have faith in the placebo effect. And I'm not sure what your point was about about emotional and physical being connected.darkmoney52

Emotions have a physical basis, that's what I meant. Electrical impulses and chemical hormones and their respective neuroreceptors.

But that doesn't mean that all emotional stress must be resolved with physical cures. For many religious people, their rituals and belief that something is looking out for them can be enough to get them past some hard times.

Eh, all emotional stress comes from physical stress. That's what I meant.
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#22 MasterBolt360
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Since I'm christian, I'm going to say it was destined to be, and not read any other posts.

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#23 supa_badman
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[QUOTE="darkmoney52"]

Too much praying and not enough ritual sacrifice.

super_mario_128
POSEIDON WANT DEAD CATTLE. RAWR! But yeah, anyone who thinks prayer can heal physical pain is a tad deluded...

I agree. I find that people who only rely on God to save them from anything and everything is deluded as well.
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#24 darkmoney52
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[QUOTE="darkmoney52"]

[QUOTE="unholymight"] Emotions have a physical basis, that's what I meant. Electrical impulses and chemical hormones and their respective neuroreceptors.unholymight

But that doesn't mean that all emotional stress must be resolved with physical cures. For many religious people, their rituals and belief that something is looking out for them can be enough to get them past some hard times.

Eh, all emotional stress comes from physical stress. That's what I meant.

I would disagree with you there based on... well my entire life really.
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#25 ice144
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The bottom line: prayer doesn't work.

There have been countless studies done, many by religious people/groups, that have tried to show the efficacy of prayer, and all its shown is it has a slight placebo effect for those who know they are being prayed for, and no effect for people who didn't know.

foxhound_fox

Would you be able to post links to this? I'm not disagreeing with you even remotely, I'm just curious.

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#26 mindstorm
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Why wasn't the payer answered? The parents attribute it to a lack of faith while others say they are delusional and took faith to seriously._R34LiTY_
You do realize that even one of Jesus' own prayers was denied right? But for sake topic's sake, prayer should never be an excuse for inaction for any situation.
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#27 unholymight
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[QUOTE="unholymight"][QUOTE="darkmoney52"]

But that doesn't mean that all emotional stress must be resolved with physical cures. For many religious people, their rituals and belief that something is looking out for them can be enough to get them past some hard times.

darkmoney52

Eh, all emotional stress comes from physical stress. That's what I meant.

I would disagree with you there based on... well my entire life really.

Well since those are your personal experiences and no one else is capable of testing or re-living them, there's no way to prove or disprove that.

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[QUOTE="_R34LiTY_"]Why wasn't the payer answered? The parents attribute it to a lack of faith while others say they are delusional and took faith to seriously.mindstorm
You do realize that even one of Jesus' own prayers was denied right? But for sake topic's sake, prayer should never be an excuse for inaction for any situation.

I didn't ask whether or not all of Jesus' prayers were answered,, so whatever slight point you're trying to make with that statement is pointless

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#29 Ravirr
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The bottom line: prayer doesn't work.

There have been countless studies done, many by religious people/groups, that have tried to show the efficacy of prayer, and all its shown is it has a slight placebo effect for those who know they are being prayed for, and no effect for people who didn't know.

foxhound_fox

Wow I had no idea you could prove prayers..... I don't think it works like that.

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#30 Minishdriveby
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Their prayer was answered. They were just too dumb to see modern medicine was the answer.

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#31 TLM16
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Since I'm christian, I'm going to say it was destined to be, and not read any other posts.

MasterBolt360

:? But... it wouldn't have happened if they took her to a hospital! Can't you just admit this was a lapse of judgement, an absolute failure to be responsible by the parents, rather than "oh it would have happened anyway?"

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#32 Ravirr
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[QUOTE="_R34LiTY_"]Why wasn't the payer answered? The parents attribute it to a lack of faith while others say they are delusional and took faith to seriously.mindstorm
You do realize that even one of Jesus' own prayers was denied right? But for sake topic's sake, prayer should never be an excuse for inaction for any situation.

I agree one could argue they were given the answer through a medical dr. But they refused. OMG the answer they wanted was right there but they ignored. Its all a possiblity. Parents messed up bad!

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[QUOTE="_R34LiTY_"]Why wasn't the payer answered? The parents attribute it to a lack of faith while others say they are delusional and took faith to seriously.mindstorm
You do realize that even one of Jesus' own prayers was denied right? But for sake topic's sake, prayer should never be an excuse for inaction for any situation.

From a purely technical perspective, praying during such an urgent situation would fall under the category of inaction.
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#34 darkmoney52
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[QUOTE="_R34LiTY_"]Why wasn't the payer answered? The parents attribute it to a lack of faith while others say they are delusional and took faith to seriously.mindstorm
You do realize that even one of Jesus' own prayers was denied right? But for sake topic's sake, prayer should never be an excuse for inaction for any situation.

But Jesus is God right? So that would just mean that he denied his own prayer, would it not?
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="_R34LiTY_"]Why wasn't the payer answered? The parents attribute it to a lack of faith while others say they are delusional and took faith to seriously.unholymight
You do realize that even one of Jesus' own prayers was denied right? But for sake topic's sake, prayer should never be an excuse for inaction for any situation.

From a purely technical perspective, praying during such an urgent situation would fall under the category of inaction.

I agree. Prayer is extremely beneficial for believers but prayer should always come before action, not in place of action. That idea of prayer being a magical incantation that make's God do your will is of pagan origin. Christian prayer causes a person to align one's will to God's, not the other way around.
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"][QUOTE="_R34LiTY_"]Why wasn't the payer answered? The parents attribute it to a lack of faith while others say they are delusional and took faith to seriously._R34LiTY_

You do realize that even one of Jesus' own prayers was denied right? But for sake topic's sake, prayer should never be an excuse for inaction for any situation.

I didn't ask whether or not all of Jesus' prayers were answered,, so whatever slight point you're trying to make with that statement is pointless

Jesus prayed he can avoid the passion, despite being 'full of faith' if you see where I'm saying. It's an example relevant to the discussion :|
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#37 mindstorm
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[QUOTE="darkmoney52"] But Jesus is God right? So that would just mean that he denied his own prayer, would it not?

Well, you have to read the whole prayer to understand it properly. In this prayer, the Gethsemane prayer, Jesus prayed "God take this cup from me." However, the prayer's purpose was to align Jesus' will with the Father's. Jesus, in the end, prayed that God's will be done (which, in the end, means Jesus' prayer technically did come true.).
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[QUOTE="Dr_Manfattan"]

having faith is fine, its your choice, but to put your daughters life into the mercy of just your faith is taking it too far.

if you believe there is a god, then by all means pray for your daughter, but you have to see logic and take her to the doctors.

Yep, pretty much agree with this. Problems arise when you try to impose your beliefs or values onto somebody.
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Would you be able to post links to this? I'm not disagreeing with you even remotely, I'm just curious.

ice144


http://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pubmed/16569567 (sorry, HTML isn't working)

Finding truly empirical, un-weighted/-biased studies is very difficult.

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[QUOTE="_R34LiTY_"]

[QUOTE="mindstorm"] You do realize that even one of Jesus' own prayers was denied right? But for sake topic's sake, prayer should never be an excuse for inaction for any situation.supa_badman

I didn't ask whether or not all of Jesus' prayers were answered,, so whatever slight point you're trying to make with that statement is pointless

Jesus prayed he can avoid the passion, despite being 'full of faith' if you see where I'm saying. It's an example relevant to the discussion :|

I'm not asking for example of what you're trying to say, but since you wont outrightly say it, i'll assume for you thatwhat you're saying is that they took faith to far.

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I'm sure most of you remember the one little girl who died sometime around April last yearbecause her parents refused to take her to the hospital and preferred to keep her at home and pray to God for the healing of their daughter.

http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,341869,00.html

Obviously it didn't work because the poor girl died, but my question is ...... Why wasn't the payer answered? The parents attribute it to a lack of faith while others say they are delusional and took faith to seriously.

What is the more likely scenario IYO?

_R34LiTY_
Their prayer wasn't answered because they put all their eggs in a basket with no bottom.
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#42 SapSacPrime
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Since I'm christian, I'm going to say it was destined to be, and not read any other posts.

MasterBolt360

Yep you need a good narrowminded view to keep faith these days I think ;).

Oh they have 3 other children :? yeah they dont sound like they should be looking after them, they sound mentally ill if you ask me.

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[QUOTE="MasterBolt360"]

Since I'm christian, I'm going to say it was destined to be, and not read any other posts.

SapSacPrime

Yep you need a good narrowminded view to keep faith these days I think ;).

HA! Yes. Ignorance is bliss.

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Prayer -- how to do nothing and think you're helping.
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God probably just said "no."

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#46 Dr_Manfattan
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I agree. Prayer is extremely beneficial for believers but prayer should always come before action, not in place of action. mindstorm

i would disagree with that and say that in this instance it would be the right thing for the parents to take their ill daughter to the hospital first, then seeing as they are christian and feel that prayer helps them, that would be the time for them to pray.

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#47 mindstorm
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[QUOTE="mindstorm"] I agree. Prayer is extremely beneficial for believers but prayer should always come before action, not in place of action. Dr_Manfattan

i would disagree with that and say that in this instance it would be the right thing for the parents to take their ill daughter to the hospital first, then seeing as they are christian and feel that prayer helps them, that would be the time for them to pray.

How about we come to a compromise - pray on the way to the hospital. :P
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[QUOTE="Dr_Manfattan"]

[QUOTE="mindstorm"] I agree. Prayer is extremely beneficial for believers but prayer should always come before action, not in place of action. mindstorm

i would disagree with that and say that in this instance it would be the right thing for the parents to take their ill daughter to the hospital first, then seeing as they are christian and feel that prayer helps them, that would be the time for them to pray.

How about we come to a compromise - pray on the way to the hospital. :P

Sounds like a good compromise. I remember when I spent 3 days in the hospital. The prayers came after I was in and not before, though I still like the idea of praying on the way to the hospital. :P