I have trouble socializing in real life.
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A lot of people seem to think I'm more shy than I actually am because I don't say much; truth is, if the topic of the conversation isn't something I'm knowledgeable about or genuinely interested in, I prefer not to add anything most of the time... And because my interests aren't shared by a lot of people, this is very often the case.D_Battery
Ditto.
[QUOTE="rawsavon"]Not at all. I am very opinionated and voice said opinions quite often. Though I do not like very many people. So I don't socialize as much as I probably should...,but I am certainly not shysurrealnumber5dude, like get off of my mental block, like nowish. ...an alt I never knew I had :o
I'd say that when i first meet people i am pretty shy, i guess it's because i have no idea what to talk to them about and when i do think of something, it turns out to be an awkward or not very long lasting topic :)
However round my friends and family, i'm very loud and seriously not shy in the least bit!
I'm considered boldly offensive and too aggressive so I may seem shy but that's only to keep from offending and frighteningothers. People just find large men with a deep voice intimidating. I also tend to speak very softly because otherwise people think I'm yelling at them.
incredibly
I am good with strangers, like at my job or walking around in public, but anything closer than that I tend to be really shy.
I wouldnt use the term shy, to be honest...I am just quiet and do not really go out of my way to socialize.
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