OT Girl Advice,"A Bum like me"

Being my number one source of girl advice, i have returned with a rather serious problem, A GIRL PROBLEM!. Ok so there is this girl, which is a friend of my best friends gf, so i see her quite often, never really had a proper chat with her though. Well one day my friend phones me up and says he has set me up ona date with the girl, so i not wanting to look bent, after not having a gf for 10 years agreed to go along with it, while pooping my panties.

So i take her to the cinema, me paying of course, we watch the film and she holds myhand while watching the film, me thinking,"pork that chicken", because i have ADHD and my mind is random, also "oh dear sweaty hands, stop shaking". Well anyway afterwards we have a hefty chat and go for a walk, once i have driven back.The hours seemed to drift by, we sit on a park bench and i feel that i'm starting to fall for this girl, she says, "ive always had a crush on you", which i reply,"A BUM LIKE ME",Oh dear you guessed it i said it, silence, thinking,"Whooopsie","****". She then goes on and says,"Can't i love who i want", Too much panic-attack, i ran off. Haven't contacted my friend since now wtf do i do?

If you have any dates please post what happened here, or girl problems, so we can all learn something

That's one of the worst things you can do. Never question somebody when they compliment you. Not only are you insulting the person.. but you're drawing attention to yourself in a negative way... which isn't really an attractive thing to do.. I'm not really sure what you should do about it. Probably, say you're sorry, and were out of place.

Call her and explain that you had a panic attack......and why do you wear panties?Travo_basic

Point taken if it gets serious, best to get rid of them now.

These situations are beyond me... you ran off? :?

Ummm, why would you run off like that? If you have ADHD (like you said) maybe medication could help control your randomness?

Ummm, why would you run off like that? If you have ADHD (like you said) maybe medication could help control your randomness?

Bluestorm-Kalas

I also suffer from psychosis, so i get severe anxiety. I just don't know if i have it in me to cope with a relationship.

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Ummm, why would you run off like that? If you have ADHD (like you said) maybe medication could help control your randomness?

caribo2222

I also suffer from psychosis, so i get severe anxiety. I just don't know if i have it in me to cope with a relationship.

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Ummm, why would you run off like that? If you have ADHD (like you said) maybe medication could help control your randomness?

I also suffer from psychosis, so i get severe anxiety. I just don't know if i have it in me to cope with a relationship.

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[QUOTE="Bluestorm-Kalas"]

Ummm, why would you run off like that? If you have ADHD (like you said) maybe medication could help control your randomness?

EMOEVOLUTION

I also suffer from psychosis, so i get severe anxiety. I just don't know if i have it in me to cope with a relationship.

I'm on Zyprexa antipsychotics, my does will be raised soon. But even though i have a mental illness, she doesn't know about it and if she did she would think i'm a lunatic or something, and never go out with me.

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I also suffer from psychosis, so i get severe anxiety. I just don't know if i have it in me to cope with a relationship.

caribo2222

I'm on Zyprexa antipsychotics, my does will be raised soon. But even though i have a mental illness, she doesn't know about it and if she did she would think i'm a lunatic or something, and never go out with me.

Yea you screwed that up nicely. But nothing is lost, just tell what you told us, and if she really does like you, I'm sure you'll get another chance.

That's one of the worst things you can do. Never question somebody when they compliment you. Not only are you insulting the person.. but you're drawing attention to yourself in a negative way... which isn't really an attractive thing to do.. I'm not really sure what you should do about it. Probably, say you're sorry, and were out of place.

EMOEVOLUTION

Just call her up, tell her you are really shy and was very nervous that night. You're making too much of a big deal about it, SHE LIKES YOU. It should be easy.xTheExploited

I'll just say it was my ADHD playing up or something spontaneous sprinting, no control over it. I will keep the Psychosis under cover, and from what the psychiactric nerse said most people recover from. My medication should help with my anxiety, my dose will be raised from 5mg to whatever they decide. I think i will call her, but i'm a bit clueless what to say.:(

At least you were honest about how you feel about yourself.

Ok i gave her a call, and explained that i had forgotten to take my ADHD medication and it caused a panic attack. She seemed more concerned about me than the fact i had ran off. She really is a gem, i told her i would make it up to her. I'm very scared and nervous about what the future brings, but i find it funny that evem thoughi wanted a relationship so bad, like me never having a gf for 10 years, when it comes along i still feel like i'm not ready for it or more petrified about what to do. Anyways OT you have saved the day!

[QUOTE="xTheExploited"]Just call her up, tell her you are really shy and was very nervous that night. You're making too much of a big deal about it, SHE LIKES YOU. It should be easy.caribo2222

I'll just say it was my ADHD playing up or something spontaneous sprinting, no control over it. I will keep the Psychosis under cover, and from what the psychiactric nerse said most people recover from. My medication should help with my anxiety, my dose will be raised from 5mg to whatever they decide. I think i will call her, but i'm a bit clueless what to say.:(

Ok i gave her a call, and explained that i had forgotten to take my ADHD medication and it caused a panic attack. She seemed more concerned about me than the fact i had ran off. She really is a gem, i told her i would make it up to her. I'm very scared and nervous about what the future brings, but i find it funny that evem thoughi wanted a relationship so bad, like me never having a gf for 10 years, when it comes along i still feel like i'm not ready for it or more petrified about what to do. Anyways OT you have saved the day!

caribo2222

Glad I could help.

Now onto the problem of ManBearPig.

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That's one of the worst things you can do. Never question somebody when they compliment you. Not only are you insulting the person.. but you're drawing attention to yourself in a negative way... which isn't really an attractive thing to do.. I'm not really sure what you should do about it. Probably, say you're sorry, and were out of place.

dancewithhats

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That's one of the worst things you can do. Never question somebody when they compliment you. Not only are you insulting the person.. but you're drawing attention to yourself in a negative way... which isn't really an attractive thing to do.. I'm not really sure what you should do about it. Probably, say you're sorry, and were out of place.

EMOEVOLUTION

Ok i gave her a call, and explained that i had forgotten to take my ADHD medication and it caused a panic attack. She seemed more concerned about me than the fact i had ran off. She really is a gem, i told her i would make it up to her. I'm very scared and nervous about what the future brings, but i find it funny that evem thoughi wanted a relationship so bad, like me never having a gf for 10 years, when it comes along i still feel like i'm not ready for it or more petrified about what to do. Anyways OT you have saved the day!

caribo2222

Being my number one source of girl advicecaribo2222

i lol´d.

She says shes always had a crush on you and you say A BUM LIKE ME and then run off? Serious? Why did you run off bud! Bad move!

I really dont know what you shoudl do other then call her and tell her that you where really nervous i guess, I donno!

*Ok I see that you have now called her and explained*

Best advice I can give is just stay as calm as you can! Be relaxed and enjoy her company! Get your confidence up bud! This girl said shes always had a crush on you!

No offense but, from some of the things you said in your original post, I can understand very clearly why you have not had a girlfriend for 10 years. Are you socially inept?

Ummm, why would you run off like that? If you have ADHD (like you said) maybe medication could help control your randomness?

Bluestorm-Kalas

if she actually likes you as much as she says I'm sure she'll forgive you. Most important thing now is to make sure she knows it wasn't her fault you ran off.XilePrincess