[QUOTE="Teenaged"]And I am referring to the technique that is usually appreciated here on OT for some reason even though its no worse than mine, which is more honest and direct.And I didnt say I considered it an insult. You are misunderstanding. You are the one who talked about ad hominems (and "hurling of insults" before you edited your post), no? Should I ask the same question?And I have feedback supporting my views about you. What now. Just because some users agree with you doesnt make you any more correct or my posting habits bad.LJS9502_basic
Well I merely asserted that I don't feel any rivalry towards you...and that you have kept the same styIe posts as long as I've known you. Which was neither an insult nor a complaint though you assumed it both. Honest and direct are merely words to slide an insult in. Could I be honest and direct about my impressions of you? Sure....but why? It serves no purpose really and when the "honesty" and "directness" is negative..it's nothing more than an insult. I know how certain users feel about me...and I know exactly why. Most users, however, don't tell other users how they feel until said individual is banned and so not everyone knows. Some people are quite surprised to see the negative comments about themselves. And I mentioned the feedback so you'd know it was not a personal unsupported opinion. But again....I said nothing remotely insulting by saying you had the same technique since I've known you. If you took it negatively then maybe some self reflection.....
Again you are misunderstanding.I didnt take it as an insult. You though characterised my... "technique" as ad hominem, no? And I responded that you are the one to talk about insults or ad hominems. But I wasnt referring about this discussion of ours. I even specified what I am referring to in the parentheses. Did you miss the parentheses?
Again, LJS, I thought you appreciated honesty. Time and time again, iirc, I have seen you state that you'd wish users who have something to say about you say it infront of you in stead of behind your back. In your own post right now you speak about people being honest about users only after they are banned. I assume you dont appreciate that, right? That is among the way to speak about someone, but not in their presence. I want to do the opposite and be honest. Whining about several things in OT accomplishes nothing either but I still see it happening.... so, is my technique really the only one that is counter-productive? I think not.
Sure those may be just words to justify insults, but there's nothing different behind vague accusations directed towards the crowd in order to avoid appearing uncivil or disrespectful. An insult is an insult, whether you name the person or you dont and the group of people you are referring to is a somewhat specific one.
If even despite such clarification you still believe that I thought your remark here was an insult then it would be better if you read my posts a second time before responding or ask me for clarification where that is needed.
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