OT what was your reason for engaging in sex or wanting to later on in life?

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#101 cmdrmonkey45
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..but sex makes the relationship better, you can make love before marriage. Their loss I guess.

I have come to the conclusion that you don't get any or you have no experience.

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So it's impossible to have a relationship without sex before marriage?

Believe it or not, there are people who do it! *gasp* Shocking, I know!

Obviously you think your way is the only way, so I'm not going to waste my time.

If you aren't having sex, then what are you exactly? Friends? Roommates? A romantic relationship doesn't work well with no sex, and people in sexless relationships tend to cheat.

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There are people who are in relationships who don't have sex before marriage. There's so much more to a romantic relationship than just sex.

People in relationships who have sex tend to cheat too, so I really don't get your point.

Some people just aren't sexually compatible. They could be great friends, but things just don't work in the bedroom. Marrying someone without ever having had sex with them is a really bad idea. It's like buying a car without test driving it first, except worse because if a car sucks you can just sell it, but if a marriage sucks, you risk losing half of everything you own.

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#102 broken_bass_bin
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Because the biological urge to have sex is natural, and it feels good.

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#103 Wii4Fun
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[QUOTE="Wii4Fun"]

[QUOTE="CBR600-RR"]

So it's impossible to have a relationship without sex before marriage?

Believe it or not, there are people who do it! *gasp* Shocking, I know!

Obviously you think your way is the only way, so I'm not going to waste my time.

[QUOTE="cmdrmonkey45"]

If you aren't having sex, then what are you exactly? Friends? Roommates? A romantic relationship doesn't work well with no sex, and people in sexless relationships tend to cheat.

cmdrmonkey45

There are people who are in relationships who don't have sex before marriage. There's so much more to a romantic relationship than just sex.

People in relationships who have sex tend to cheat too, so I really don't get your point.

Some people just aren't sexually compatible. They could be great friends, but things just don't work in the bedroom. Marrying someone without ever having had sex with them is a really bad idea. It's like buying a car without test driving it first, except worse because if a car sucks you can just sell it, but if a marriage sucks, you risk losing half of everything you own.

When two people are really in love, they will always have great, passionate sex.

Cliche, sure. But true.

And I'm talking about where people are together for years and mature in their relationship. Not thinking you are in love and jumping into marriage.

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#104 Palantas
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Same thing I told the cops: I was horny.

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#105 curono
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Feels good,man.

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This. There is nothing wrong in pleasuring yourself and another human at the same time :)
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#106 z4twenny
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When two people are really in love, they will always have great, passionate sex.

Cliche, sure. But true.

And I'm talking about where people are together for years and mature in their relationship. Not thinking you are in love and jumping into marriage.

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this isn't true at all. chances are if these people have never had sex before they'll have gropey awkward uncomfortable sex.

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#107 cmdrmonkey45
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There are people who are in relationships who don't have sex before marriage. There's so much more to a romantic relationship than just sex.

People in relationships who have sex tend to cheat too, so I really don't get your point.

Wii4Fun

Some people just aren't sexually compatible. They could be great friends, but things just don't work in the bedroom. Marrying someone without ever having had sex with them is a really bad idea. It's like buying a car without test driving it first, except worse because if a car sucks you can just sell it, but if a marriage sucks, you risk losing half of everything you own.

When two people are really in love, they will always have great, passionate sex.

Cliche, sure. But true.

And I'm talking about where people are together for years and mature in their relationship. Not thinking you are in love and jumping into marriage.

Any sex therapist would tell you that isn't true. Two people can love each other but be a poor match in bed. And sexual dysfunction and incompatiblity is very hard and often impossible to overcome.

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#108 Dawq902
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because i figured it would feel really awesome and i was correct. That is why i continue to have sex. It's a lot of fun and i enjoy it frequently.

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#109 james007_14
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I just lost it recently to the girl I was with and I don't regret it. I loved her and knew she was the one I wanted to lose it too. While we aren't together anymore, we still care for one another. It was good while we did it. Now I need to look else where to get a fix lol. IMO, it is best to wait till you find someone you care about to lose it. It is better then losing it to some skank, as some people here have. OT: Sex feels good and is fun.
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#110 deactivated-5c03000d4b1b4
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i want it later in life becuz i dont have a girl friend
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#111 deactivated-5f9e3c6a83e51
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It's a biological urge. Your body and mind are hard wired for it. Why do you think it's so popular?

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#112 Wii4Fun
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People can and have had relationships that didn't involve sex.

End of story.

I know in this day and age, it's a hard concept to grasp for some people, but some do it.

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#114 deactivated-5b19214ec908b
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People can and have had relationships that didn't involve sex.

End of story.

I know in this day and age, it's a hard concept to grasp for some people, but some do it.

Wii4Fun
I can believe that people do it, I just don't see why they would want to
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#115 raynimrod
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I honestly don't see how couples can survive without sexual activity before marriage..

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Neither do I. And the thing is... you wait until you're married, then find out it's the sex is horrible.

Enjoy.

WOW....really?....

Both of you have so much to learn.

Wow... really? Back at ya mate. Explain to me what we have to learn.

If you want a relationship with someone that doesn't involve sex, or in which sex isn't important, go and find a friend.

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#116 Omni-Slash
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People can and have had relationships that didn't involve sex.

End of story.

I know in this day and age, it's a hard concept to grasp for some people, but some do it.

and thsoe relationships (if ever romantic) are shallow and unfulfilling....having a romantic relationship without sex is like having a pizza without cheese...sure it can be done....but in the end....it's nowhere near as good and leaves you wondering why the **** you wasted your time with it.....