People, lend me your ears!

Or eyes, rather, since we're all looking at a computer screen. :P

So, I'm now facing a very complicated and difficult situation. There's this guy in my life that I hold very near and dear to my heart. We've known each other for about two years. We've been side by side through the worst of times and also the best of times. He's very sweet and funny, and I realize that even though we've both dated other people, we still come back to each other in the end. More recently, he's been showing signs of interest towards me such ashugging me, texting meevery night,etc. We've been closer now than we ever have been before.

But, here's where the problem lies: this guy happens to be my brother's best friend.

Could these feelings I have for him somehow work out? Or does this relationshipcross the doomed, cursed line of sibling ethic? I need some help please! :(

Ask him what he thinks about it. Is he ready to possibly hork up his friendship over this?

I say go for it.

Say to your brother, "Hey, I really like *name goes here*; you mind if we go out?"

If he says he's fine with it, do it.

If he's not, do it anyway; just don't rub his nose in it.

You should first ask your brother and what he thinks about it, then say somthing like, "hey ____, how would you react if i, like went out with____? would that upset you?" now personally, if i was in your bro's position, i would be upset. Just saying. But, if your brother doesn't mind then go ahead.

what i can't hear you? you need to speak up

Ask your brother first, if he says yes then go for it, if he says no still go for it but keep the romance away from your brother ie don't kiss in front of himmarkop2003

The title made me thought up something that i saw in that man in tights movie.

"People, Lend me your ears." (Audience plucks and throws ears)

"That was disgusting"

The title made me thought up something that i saw in that man in tights movie.

"People, Lend me your ears." (Audience plucks and throws ears)

"That was disgusting"

Wait, you're a chick, right?

Wait, you're a chick, right?

Pirate700

[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

Wait, you're a chick, right?

markop2003

lol Don't count on it. Just checking as you don't see amny dating questions ABOUT dudes. :?

[QUOTE="markop2003"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]

Wait, you're a chick, right?

Pirate700

lol Don't count on it. Just checking as you don't see amny dating questions ABOUT dudes. :?

[QUOTE="markop2003"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]

Wait, you're a chick, right?

lol Don't count on it. Just checking as you don't see amny dating questions ABOUT dudes. :?

Talk to your brother first. Don't ask him to give you the green light, but tell him how you're getting really close to his friend and explain what you're feeling. He'll probably reply by explaining how he feels about you two hanging out like that...

I don't have a baby sister, but if I did have one... I probably wouldn't like it if she went out with some of my friends. And it would be out of protectiveness. My frieds are mostly great guys, but I could probably easily reveal a few stuff to her about my friends' history with girls that she didn't know... so be prepared for that.