[QUOTE="GTA_dude"][QUOTE="worthyofnote"][QUOTE="GTA_dude"] You love her after only 3 months? She must be your first love. Thats alittle too soon to admit you love her, you should really wait till atleast over 6 months before you think about love, or else you will become clingy, and have a better chance of getting your heart crushed, then turning emo, and becoming depressed for the next couple years before you can get over her, when really would make it hard to accept that most girls can get over relationships faster then guys can.......
And to that note, relationships suck lol. So I'm not really in one, but mine as well be. We're just not really official, and its probably best that it stays that way. I love her, and she loves me, and we've kinda been together for almost 3 years, but not all officially. I've learned alot from past relationships, I want to have a girl to my own, but I still want to meet new girls and have some fun
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You're basing everything solely on personal experience and generalizations. I've never been in love myself, but it would seem that when people are truly infatuated with one another it's just the way it is, be it simple lust or something that cannot be explained in simple words. Time doesn't really matter, it's the connection that's been made.I'm basing everything I said on both personal experience, and advice from basically everyone who has experienced love before in their life, not from the basic teenage view.
Infatuation and lust are different then love......infatuation and lust do not last forever, and can be felt for anyone and will change constantly. And usually, if you feel like it's love in a short period of time, it is infatuation, your feelings will be temporary, or their feelings for you might be temporary. I mean yah, every relationship has to have some of infatuation in it, but it should have also real love. Never confuse your feelings and get the 2 mixed up, cause there are consecuences.
If you both think you love each other, and its really just infatuation, then one of you finds someone else who they suddenly like more, then their feelings for the one they are actually which will be gone, because as I said, infatuation is just temporary feelings and can easily be changed. There are more examples of why this is bad, but I dont see much need to post more unless asked. If you really think about it, then you will understand.
And if its lust then, well, I'm not even going to explain that one. You can get lust without being in a relationship. If you can get it without the relationship, then why be in one just for that?
I'm young, but not a youngin like some of the others around here, so I know what you mean. I've had my fair share of relationships be it simple lust or just plain infatuation.It just seemed like you were putting love down. Then again, I don't blame you, I can understand everything you said in your original post because "love" has no real factual evidence to back it up in terms of statistics, etc etc. People just react on their impulses.
I'm not putting love down. Its really cool when you actually find a girl you actually love, and who actually loves you back. I'm not saying I've never felt it, as I said earlier I love a girl after almost 3 years, and someday I want to get married. And its cool if you both act on your impulses, just dont think of it as being in a comitment unless you love each other. This is why I'm glad I'm out of high school, gets me away from all that drama from teenagers who have yet to relized what I said.
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