Question for a guy

okay so here's the deal guys I have a few questions for you:

1. Why is it that Guys can make a mistake but when a girl makes that same mistake she's a bad person?

2. Why is it that guys tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

3.When a guy decides he's done with a girl why does he treat her like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

The guy probably felt pressure to say "I love you" and said it without meaning it :|

1. Why is it that Girls can make a mistake but when a guy makes that same mistake he's a bad person?

2. Why is it that girls tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

3.When a girl decides she's done with a guy why does she treat him like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

1. Edit: you know, I'd rather not answer this one. >_>

2. Not all guys are like that.

3. Not all guys are like that.

4. A big ****ing ******* of a guy ruining the reputation of the million other single guys in the world.

In my experience generalizations are usually wrong.

;)

The guy probably felt pressure to say "I love you" and said it without meaning it :|

michael_1234576

last i checked all guys don't do that. in fact thinking back on all my relationships i don't think i've done a single one of those things :D

Sounds like you were dating a jerk. Don't classify all or even most guys into what you wrote. :|

Sex makes guys say & do stupid things for it.

That's why

[QUOTE="shehero"]

okay so here's the deal guys I have a few questions for you:

1. Why is it that Guys can make a mistake but when a girl makes that same mistake she's a bad person?

I think you need to go more indepth here. In many cases, it can go vice versa

2. Why is it that guys tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

I think this isn't related to sex, just how stubborn the person is

3.When a guy decides he's done with a girl why does he treat her like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

At this point, I think you had a bad boyfriend and he just dumped you.

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

Now I'm pretty positive your ex just dumped you.

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"] What's with all the slander to women in threads recently? I'm getting pretty sick of it. You don't see any of the girls on GS creating threads about how crap men can be :|tofu-lion91

No. What you said still holds true for the most part.....and will still hold true as long as the OT skews mainly young & male

This thread is just a rareexception

okay so here's the deal guys I have a few questions for you:

1. Why is it that Guys can make a mistake but when a girl makes that same mistake she's a bad person?

2. Why is it that guys tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

3.When a guy decides he's done with a girl why does he treat her like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

shehero

1. That's seems an odd question to me as it tends to be the other way around in my experience. Perhaps you're just consistantly hanging around the same type of the wrong kind of guy?

2. Men often confuse initial excitement of a prospective relationship or hookup that they confuse these feelings with a love based on more meaningful and deeper connections.

3. Some men would rather cut their connections, make a clean break of it and just start fresh. Many times women still want to be friends afterwords as a lot of women aren't comfortable with being the "bad guy" in a breakup. Depending upon the nature of the breakup a man may resent this attempt and give their ex the cold shoulder.

4. Again -- men, especially young or fairly lonely men, often confuse intense love with the excitement of making an emotional and perhaps physical connection with a woman. They may "feel" that they mean it at the time and will not abandon their feelings no matter how impracticle they are.

But all of these questions could be easily explained by the fact that all of these men you are referring to are all incredible jerks. If these types of situations are constantly happening to you then you might want to take a hard look at yourself and perhaps alter the type of guy you are pursuing.

[QUOTE="michael_1234576"]

The guy probably felt pressure to say "I love you" and said it without meaning it :|

shehero

Not all guys are douche's.

okay so here's the deal guys I have a few questions for you:

1. Why is it that Guys can make a mistake but when a girl makes that same mistake she's a bad person?

2. Why is it that guys tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

3.When a guy decides he's done with a girl why does he treat her like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

shehero

1. this seems really vague if you are talking about cheating your a bad person either way guy or girl if its something else specify.

2. They lied to you either they are lying now or they were lying then. Girls are capable of this also by the way coming from first hand experiance.

3. I don't really have enough experiance with this to have a good answer sorry.

4. Um this is getting pretty specific if some guy did this to you I'm sorry and all but its not a general enough question to get an answer that makes any sense and you are only going to agree with the person who says what you are already thinking anyways.

[QUOTE="shehero"][QUOTE="michael_1234576"]

The guy probably felt pressure to say "I love you" and said it without meaning it :|

-Twilight-

We wern't even dating that's the funny thing. I Told him I didn't want a relationship and then he told me he loved me. so after about a month of getting to know him I fell for him and five months after that he told me he didn't even like meshehero

We wern't even dating that's the funny thing. I Told him I didn't want a relationship and then he told me he loved me. so after about a month of getting to know him I fell for him and five months after that he told me he didn't even like me

shehero

[QUOTE="shehero"] We wern't even dating that's the funny thing. I Told him I didn't want a relationship and then he told me he loved me. so after about a month of getting to know him I fell for him and five months after that he told me he didn't even like metofu-lion91

[QUOTE="-Twilight-"][QUOTE="shehero"] He said it first and I didn't say it back for a whole month. I don't like the idea of it really.shehero

[QUOTE="-Twilight-"][QUOTE="shehero"] He said it first and I didn't say it back for a whole month. I don't like the idea of it really.shehero

okay so here's the deal guys I have a few questions for you:

1. Why is it that Guys can make a mistake but when a girl makes that same mistake she's a bad person?

2. Why is it that guys tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

3.When a guy decides he's done with a girl why does he treat her like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

shehero

Becuase the guy your refering to is a immature punk.

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"][QUOTE="tofu-lion91"] What's with all the slander to women in threads recently? I'm getting pretty sick of it. You don't see any of the girls on GS creating threads about how crap men can be :|Vandalvideo

Anyway yeah this thread just seems like the TC is just talking from one personal experience or sth, not that she is going through that with every guy she meets.

But yeah like many others said one or two of your points are true for girls two....

Anyway....

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"] What's with all the slander to women in threads recently? I'm getting pretty sick of it. You don't see any of the girls on GS creating threads about how crap men can be :|tofu-lion91

I was considering bringing in that quote just for the fun of it.

Am I sensing an autobiography or something?

Guys sometimes just want to fornicate for free.

Someone Just got DUMPED

I never had a relationship before, so I don't know the answers to these questions. :?

I'm pretty sure I would never do such mean things like that though! :o