Question for a guy

Question for some girls. In this accounts young life it has seen two of these types of threads where girls generalize guys as pigs cause they got dumped. My question is do you really think anyone here gives a **** and if your the type to force your unwanted probs on others have you tryed examining yourself for the problem.

1. There is no satisfactory reason why males are excused from making mistakes and females not. Perhaps it's some primitive form of chivalry carried down to modern society. 2. The man could've not meant it when he first told you, or, to hurt your feelings, he revokes any love he may have had for you. It's foul play. 3. To make him feel better. Men like control, generally. 4. I may be misunderstanding the question, but it appears that you've already answered it yourself. If someone's love for another individual is a lie, then there would be no hesitation to allow the other individual to simply move on.Genetic_Code

or maybe shes the prob. its not always the guys fault

okay so here's the deal guys I have a few questions for you:

1. Why is it that Guys can make a mistake but when a girl makes that same mistake she's a bad person?

2. Why is it that guys tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

3.When a guy decides he's done with a girl why does he treat her like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

shehero

1. What?

2. Problably because A.) the girl did something wrong, or B.) the guy is a jerk

3. Idunno...most ex's I know are still friends with eachother, and I am friends with all my ex's.

4. Because, on occasion, you meet a person, think you like them, and they turn out to be a jerk.

In short, its easy to tell someone and, in fact, love them but quite another to actually care and sacrifice for them.

I'm sorry if that happened to you but, not all guys are like that. :(

sounds like a pretty shallow dude pay somebody to shank himbuckwildbob

Answer to all: We guys can be jerks, but don't make the mistake of thinking it's just us. You girls do all that.Head_of_games

Congratulations Shehero, you've just brought shame to the whole female community by making this thread.tofu-lion91

[QUOTE="Head_of_games"]Answer to all: We guys can be jerks, but don't make the mistake of thinking it's just us. You girls do all that.shehero

okay so here's the deal guys I have a few questions for you:

1. Why is it that Guys can make a mistake but when a girl makes that same mistake she's a bad person?

2. Why is it that guys tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

3.When a guy decides he's done with a girl why does he treat her like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

shehero

2. Becasue they wanted to have sex and thought that the girl would be seduced by the 3 golden words.

3. Those are mean bastards.

4. I dont quite get it.

:lol: I'm loving the faux outrage over the TC's generalizations.

....at least I hope you guys are kidding :|

okay so here's the deal guys I have a few questions for you:

1. Why is it that Guys can make a mistake but when a girl makes that same mistake she's a bad person?

2. Why is it that guys tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

3.When a guy decides he's done with a girl why does he treat her like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

shehero

1) Uh this isn't the case at all. Women can pull the same crap and turn around and yell at the man. Just a PERSON being stupid, not a gender.

2) The guy was doing whatever possible to get in your pants, simple as that. You apparently need to learn how to judge a guys character better which trust me, alot of girls do. I see it almost as part of a girl becoming a women mentally. Of course if the girl really wrongs the guy then he can lose those feelings of love (This actually has happened to me) and sometimes they get childish and claim they never had feelings as a way of trying to deal with it (I didn't do that part).

3) If the girl wronged him in amajor way a guy can be understandably bitter. However, sometimes those idiots who use women treat them like crap after as if it makes them more of a man somehow. I personally despise such people.

4) The guy may have meant it at some point. Then again the guy could also just be one of those idiots who use women for sex then toss them aside. Guys like that end up very lonely in the end thankfully.

[QUOTE="tofu-lion91"] What's with all the slander to women in threads recently? I'm getting pretty sick of it. You don't see any of the girls on GS creating threads about how crap men can be :|tofu-lion91

Lol @ self-quote =p

I don't think you need to generalize just because you're sad and you've been dumped. Meh.

Why is it women can generalise the entire male population but men can't say something like "Women have less upper body strength than men" without being called a sexist?

Why is it women can generalise the entire male population but men can't say something like "Women have less upper body strength than men" without being called a sexist?

-_Rain_-

okay so here's the deal guys I have a few questions for you:

1. Why is it that Guys can make a mistake but when a girl makes that same mistake she's a bad person?

2. Why is it that guys tell you they love you and then five months later tell you that they never meant it?

3.When a guy decides he's done with a girl why does he treat her like crap instead of trying to end it civially?

4. Who in their right mind tells someone they love them and want to be with them forever and lets that other person make plans to move 17 hours away to be with them when their "Love" is a lie?

shehero

1. Wtf are you talking about?

2. Girls do it too, but I wouldn't be surprised if guys do it more. I don't, people are just weird and say stuff they didn't mean.

3. I've seen just as much, if not more girls treat the guy like total crap and pretend like every problem in the relationship was the guy's fault.

4. Well, I don't know why someone would lie about wanting to be with you forever, seems kind od pointless to me.