I've been seeing this girl for a few weeks now. We met on yahoo chat, both live in the same city, been flirting back and forth for a while, etc. So we finally exchange pics the day after halloween, call eachother, then actually meet in person a few days later. Yes, I was nervous (big time) the first time we met, but I thought she was a cutie pie (maybe 7/10 at least).
Our fist meeting was a bit awkward (lots of silent moments and some giggling), but overall I think we clicked. We got together a few more times, ice cream, a movie, then agreed after a few "dates" to rent a hotel room so we could spend some alone time cuddling. We had never even kissed prior to this agreement, by the way. And if you are wondering why we needed a hotel room, she has very strict parents who would proably kill her (no joke) if they found out she was dating someone outside her race/religion and my bedroom had bedbugs for the longest time so obviously I don't want to bring her there (it's embarrassing).
So anyway, long story slightly longer... we get the hotel room, turn on the TV, awkward conversation for 15 minutes or so, then I get under the covers and say "come in, it's warm" (that's not the creepy thing, although in retrospect it was a pretty creepy thing to say). She gets under the covers with me and I move close to her and we start kissing (SCORE!!!). Anyway, we "make out" for maybe 5 minutes or so and for some stupid reason I decide to whisper into her ear the following:
"God, I want to worship you, my little princess".
She completely stopped making out with me and actually pulled away from me and gave me a weird look. Instead of trying to play it off as a joke (which I obviously should have done) I said "What? I'm dead serious." and I kind of smiled. She sort of played it off like it didn't bother her that much, but only a few minutes later (only hugging, no more kissing at this point) she looks at her blackberry and says she needs to pick up her mom.
This whole incident happened a week and a half ago and she still isn't responding to my emails, my yahoo chat invites, or my calls. I don't get with a lot of girls (obviously) so this one is extremely valuable. What can I do now? Give her the silent treatment for a few days? Any advice will help.
Thanks!
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