[QUOTE="GTA_dude"][QUOTE="WhiteSnake5000"]It's not about how you find the person. It's about how you feel about the person, and how the person feels about you. I think that foxhound_fox well deserves his, despite that he found her through a dating site. Who cares? He's happy, she's happy. What difference does it make? WhiteSnake5000
How you found each other says alot about personality.... I also have something else to say that goes completely against what you just said about feeling towards each other, but it'd probably be best if I just dont say that....So, let's say this is your personality. You feel hopeless at times, and you have no luck, and no matter how much you try in person, you fail. Then you find someone online, and this person is someone you really like, and they like you back. What the hell is wrong with that?If you fail, then they are not the one. Once you find the right girl, you wont fail, she'll be after you, and you'll be after her. People dont just find the right girl the first time, or with the first couple girls they ask out, and if you just give up that easily, then you dont really seem to be ready for a relationship anyway. And if you have a hopeless attitude, girls will read that off of you, and try to stay away from you, so you'd be repelling girls yourself with your attitude, thus, its your fault your having no luck, which wouldn't really make it luck. Just have more confidence in yourself, cause thats what girls are really attracted too. And the harder you work to find someone, the better it'll be. Kinda like the situation of someone just offering you a million dollars, you take it without working for it, then once you have it it just doesn't seem that great anymore, cause you didn't really earn it. Its like its not even yours. Anyone could have been given the money, theres nothing special about you.
And yah, no one take offense by this, but usually, they arn't really 100% who you really want to be with, you just make them seem that way because they are like your last hope. And same usually goes for the other person, your not exactly who they wanted to be with, but she opened your message first, and you were willing to be with them, so you'll do. Sure, it seems fine, At First.
And no, I've never dated someone online, or someone I've met online, but I do know a girl who has, several times, and every time turned out to be a very bad idea. She was just too stupid to learn from her mistakes. So I guess I haven't had first hand experience with this, but close enough....
And if my sentences dont make sense as you read them, its like 2:20 in the morning over here, and I'm tired, so dont expect everything here to make sense. But if you really think about what I'm saying, it's all true, and you'll understand. If you dont understand, then go ahead and try online matchmaking and then see if you know what I'm talking about. Eh, maybe things will be good, I'm not saying judge your actions by what I'm saying, I'm just justifying my opinion on dating websites.
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