should i call him?

so today we were at the class when my friend got a phone call,became really upset and left and told our teacher something about his dad while leaving.after the class i asked our teacher on the matter and it turned out that he hadn't heard my friend's sentence properly. well my mate's dad had an heart attack recently and i'm really worried i might hear the bad news this time,it's been 5,6 hrs since the event occured and i haven't had the guts to call him..any tips?:?

so today we were at the class when my friend got a phone call,became really upset and left and told our teacher something about his dad while leaving.after the class i asked our teacher on the matter and it turned out that he hadn't heard my friend's sentence properly. well my mate's dad had an heart attack recently and i'm really worried i might hear the bad news this time,it's been 5,6 hrs since the event occured and i haven't had the guts to call him..any tips?:?

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Just call him.

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so today we were at the class when my friend got a phone call,became really upset and left and told our teacher something about his dad while leaving.after the class i asked our teacher on the matter and it turned out that he hadn't heard my friend's sentence properly. well my mate's dad had an heart attack recently and i'm really worried i might hear the bad news this time,it's been 5,6 hrs since the event occured and i haven't had the guts to call him..any tips?:?

Call him

Yeah I would call. A simple hey what's going or how are you doing, can go a long way. You can always text if your more comfortable with that.

You should give him a call. If he doesn't answer, just leave a voice mail to let him know you're concerned.

you should call, even if it's just to let him know you care.

I would call him.

..any tips?:?

VaguelyTagged

Call and ask if he wants to talk about it. If he doesn't then respect that and leave him alone for a while.

Yeah I would call. A simple hey what's going or how are you doing, can go a long way. You can always text if your more comfortable with that.

theycallmeRP

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Yeah I would call. A simple hey what's going or how are you doing, can go a long way. You can always text if your more comfortable with that.

VaguelyTagged

Never text in such situations, just call. Or visit.

I would text him as its less intrusive. If something real bad happened he doesn't need a call right now

I would text him as its less intrusive. If something real bad happened he doesn't need a call right now

Cruse34

Friends are supposed to be intrusive. It is a good thing. Texting has no feeling behind it. Just my opinion though, if I was said dude, I would want a friend to call or come visit me.

i can also get one of our common friends to do the favor,what do you think?

i can also get one of our common friends to do the favor,what do you think?

VaguelyTagged

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i can also get one of our common friends to do the favor,what do you think?

Darthkaiser

Ask what kind of loots he gotdarkfox101

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I would text him as its less intrusive. If something real bad happened he doesn't need a call right now

Zyrokin

Friends are supposed to be intrusive. It is a good thing. Texting has no feeling behind it. Just my opinion though, if I was said dude, I would want a friend to call or come visit me.

I would be annoyed by it, a text shows caring without getting in the way in a difficult family time

so today we were at the class when my friend got a phone call,became really upset and left and told our teacher something about his dad while leaving.after the class i asked our teacher on the matter and it turned out that he hadn't heard my friend's sentence properly. well my mate's dad had an heart attack recently and i'm really worried i might hear the bad news this time,it's been 5,6 hrs since the event occured and i haven't had the guts to call him..any tips?:?

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I can't say anything that hasn't been said already. Get up the courage and CALL.

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I would text him as its less intrusive. If something real bad happened he doesn't need a call right now

Cruse34

Friends are supposed to be intrusive. It is a good thing. Texting has no feeling behind it. Just my opinion though, if I was said dude, I would want a friend to call or come visit me.

I would be annoyed by it, a text shows caring without getting in the way in a difficult family time

Showing up is risky, depending on how close you are. I would expect phone calls from my close friends though, if anything I let it go to voice mail. Depends on the friendship I suppose.

call him

Seeing as you are friends...Call him.He's going to freak out because you were worried?

if you're good friends with him, you should call and show your concern for how he's doing. unless he's weird or something, he sounds like he might appreciate something like that.

I would text him as its less intrusive. If something real bad happened he doesn't need a call right now

Cruse34

I'd call him and see if he needs any help.

unfortunately nothing's ok,i got a common friend to call him and turned out that his dad had passed away :(.i finally decided to give him a call for giving him my condolences , he didn't pick up,he probably wasn't in the mood for talking.

Yeah a call would go a long way.

He's likely busy with his dad, I might send him a text or email to let him know that you're thinking about him. This way, he can let you know about his dad when he's able.