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Member since 2008 • 38 Posts

She says they're only friends and I know she wouldn't cheat but I also know that the other guy likes her. Am I wrong by telling her no?

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#3 Cherokee_Jack

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She says they're only friends and I know she wouldn't cheat but I also know that the other guy likes her. Am I wrong by telling her no?xSolidManx

Not your decision. If she's going to cheat, she's going to cheat.

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#4 Bloodbath_87

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Yes. If you don't, you'll look too possessive and that's not a good thing.

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Member since 2007 • 5312 Posts

Alone - no Group - yes

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let her go.... is there any reason you can't go too?

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let her go.... is there any reason you can't go too?markop2003

I have work all weekend.

16 years ago

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Member since 2007 • 87 Posts

Let her go, If she cheats, dump her instantly and dont look back!!

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#9 194197844077667059316682358889

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She says they're only friends and I know she wouldn't cheat but I also know that the other guy likes her. Am I wrong by telling her no?xSolidManx

If you don't, she might stoop so low as to have an underwater weighing test with the guy, and he'll see her in her tight, wet sports bra

16 years ago

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Member since 2008 • 6010 Posts

Don't be paranoid, there's absolutely nothing wrong with that.

16 years ago

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Member since 2008 • 9290 Posts

Its about time you learn to trust your girlfriend.

16 years ago

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#12 thegrimpeeper

Member since 2008 • 267 Posts

Well since she is just your girlfriend you really can't control what she does. But I would definately tell her that it makes you uncomfortable and that it dosen't seem right. If she ends up going out with him and cheats then dump her, but my point is that you really can't tell her what to do.

16 years ago

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#13 jimmyjammer69

Member since 2008 • 12239 Posts

Sure. Just find a 'friend' to go with next time she's at work.

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#14 deactivated-6016f2513d412

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Well, it's a bit shady for her to go to a movie alone with a guy, but if you trust her, you should let her go and just see what happens. If you don't trust her enough to go to a movie with a guy as a friend, then there are more problems than just jealousy.

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She says they're only friends and I know she wouldn't cheat but I also know that the other guy likes her. Am I wrong by telling her no?xSolidManx

Go with them.

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#16 VanHelsingBoA64

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[QUOTE="xSolidManx"]She says they're only friends and I know she wouldn't cheat but I also know that the other guy likes her. Am I wrong by telling her no?hokies1313

Go with them.

He'll be at work.

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Member since 2007 • 3856 Posts

Let her go. If she cheats she isnt worth your time. Sorry but thats the truth. If she really likes you she wont let the other guy get past the friendzone.

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[QUOTE="markop2003"]let her go.... is there any reason you can't go too?xSolidManx

I have work all weekend.

Let her go then, if she wants to cheat she could just go behind your back anyway so you wouldn't be stopping her, i anything you'ld drive her away as you'ld show that you're clingy and don't trust her

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#19 TheBeast789

Member since 2008 • 1414 Posts

heres some really good advice, let her go, but if she comes home late all the time or is just missing everything DUMP THAT CHICK. :D

16 years ago

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Make sure its not a chick flick or romantic movie..

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#21 Nifty_Shark

Member since 2007 • 13137 Posts

The worst thing that could happen is that she would cheat. But that would mean she was going to cheat eventually. I don't think you have to fear anything but if the worst happens just let her go and move on.

16 years ago

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Member since 2007 • 2424 Posts

Only if he is gay

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Member since 2006 • 51726 Posts

So...what are you gonna do? Lock her up?

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I've been through that in the past and let her do so. I now think I shouldn't have and will no longer let that happen especially if it's just her and another guy. Some say that's me being too possessive but I expect nothing from other people that I don't expect from myself. If who I date doesn't like it, they do not have to date me.

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#25 Blitz_Nemesis

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Make sure its not a chick flick or romantic movie..Montaya

please dont tell us they are gonna watch twilight together:o

16 years ago

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[QUOTE="xSolidManx"]She says they're only friends and I know she wouldn't cheat but I also know that the other guy likes her. Am I wrong by telling her no?xaos

If you don't, she might stoop so low as to have an underwater weighing test with the guy, and he'll see her in her tight, wet sports bra

Bahahaha. Good times :lol: Was any point to that thread ever discovered?

16 years ago

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this is one of those occasions where the right answer is the tough one and no you should not let her go.

16 years ago

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Only if he is gayMrEnvelope

This. Honestly though, these things are like head games. If she really liked you in the first place, she wouldn't be going out on dates alone with another guy. Serious relationship means making sacrifices, and she's not making any from the looks of it. If I were to take a girl out that wasn't my girlfriend, I would bring other friends that my girlfriend trusted.

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[QUOTE="xaos"][QUOTE="xSolidManx"]She says they're only friends and I know she wouldn't cheat but I also know that the other guy likes her. Am I wrong by telling her no?ferron321

If you don't, she might stoop so low as to have an underwater weighing test with the guy, and he'll see her in her tight, wet sports bra

Bahahaha. Good times :lol: Was any point to that thread ever discovered?

I dont think so

16 years ago

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#30 battousai188

Member since 2004 • 2075 Posts

Just tell her that you trust her judgement and that she will do the right thing but that you don't really trust the guy she wants to go to the movies with, and that you don't want to see her get pressuared into something she may regret.. That or just invite yourself to go along with.. I mean if they are just friends there shouldn't be any problem with you commin along :)

16 years ago

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Member since 2003 • 8866 Posts

First off, why would she want to go to a movie alone with another guy? She should respect your relationship more then that, so I would say no.

16 years ago

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#32 inyourface_12

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if you don;t trust her it's not going well anyway

16 years ago

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Member since 2007 • 2389 Posts

Trust her if she wants to go out let her. If she cheats on you it be her fault. Turst is a key here.

16 years ago

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#34 wind-OF-s0rrOw

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I would go with her. You never know what can happen at the movies.

16 years ago

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You should say "Sure you can go, i can't stop you and i wouldn't want you to not have fun. But just make sure you don't get pressured into anything okay?" If you say it like this you are letting her know that you don't want anything between them and you are sort of warning her in a way that you wouldn't like that but you are still being nice. That is what i would do.

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First off, why would she want to go to a movie alone with another guy? She should respect your relationship more then that, so I would say no.foolio_67

is going out with friends there absoulty nothing wrong with it. you guys seem to think its strange.. but if you dont trust her she going to dump you... and yuo derseve it for telling her to do something thats no right. that said same can go with a guy who is going out with a girl they can be just friends and both can have bf/gf.

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As much as it's going to kill you, do it... unless it's that new guy at work or in class or her ex...that's just damn suspicious... unless it's in a group setting. If it's that gay friend, or an old friend, then it's chill. If she wants to cheat, she's going to regardless. It will just make you look less posessive.

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#38 HybridPhoenix

Member since 2007 • 3598 Posts

I'd voice my concerns on the subject, let her know how it makes you feel and how the guy is taking it even if she doesn't have the feelings back...ask her if she can invite some of her GIRL friends along, turn it into a group thing

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Member since 2007 • 3841 Posts

Lock her in your closet so she can't go.

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#40 ownage_denied

Member since 2008 • 871 Posts

I can't believe so many guys in this thread are saying let her go. It has nothing to do with jealousy, it is about respect. Your girlfriend should respect you enough to not even ask to go to the movies with a guy that likes her.

To all you guys saying let her go, when would you draw the line? Would you let her go to the movies with him every weekend? Would going out to have a drink with him be a problem? What about going on a vacation alone?

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I can't believe so many guys in this thread are saying let her go. It has nothing to do with jealousy, it is about respect. Your girlfriend should respect you enough to not even ask to go to the movies with a guy that likes her.
To all you guys saying let her go, when would you draw the line? Would you let her go to the movies with him every weekend? Would going out to have a drink with him be a problem? What about going on a vacation alone?
ownage_denied

A one time thing. Really. After that first time, unless she stops hanging out with him, she better introduce him to you, and know that alone time, 1 on 1 hanging out with him is not in her best interest if she wants to keep you. Otherwise, she;s going to cheat regardless. She is her own person after all. Question is... why would she cheat on you mr. perfect?

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#42 the_foreign_guy

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Trust is important in a relationship and it's also important not to be possessive. If she keeps on going with him, say, every week, then it's okay to be suspicious. If it's just once in a while, it's fine. I don't know the other guy's intentions though, but see how it works out.

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Member since 2006 • 1112 Posts

Let her go. I went to the movies plenty of times with my best friend, I have no feelings for her though. Her boyfriend didn't mind, he trusts me more with her then anyone else.

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#44 battlefront23

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Wait why would she do that if you guys are a thing?

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#45 Cherokee_Jack

Member since 2008 • 32198 Posts

I can't believe so many guys in this thread are saying let her go. It has nothing to do with jealousy, it is about respect. Your girlfriend should respect you enough to not even ask to go to the movies with a guy that likes her.
To all you guys saying let her go, when would you draw the line? Would you let her go to the movies with him every weekend? Would going out to have a drink with him be a problem? What about going on a vacation alone?
ownage_denied

This is a one-time thing, presumably. If she wants to see the other guy again, she either agrees not to go or she's dumped. It's that simple. This needs to be put in her hands to see if she's really serious about her relationship with TC. If TC just tells her not to go instead of leaving it up to her, then he won't know her true feelings.

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trust can be a powerful thing let her go

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#47 ownage_denied

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[QUOTE="ownage_denied"]
I can't believe so many guys in this thread are saying let her go. It has nothing to do with jealousy, it is about respect. Your girlfriend should respect you enough to not even ask to go to the movies with a guy that likes her.
To all you guys saying let her go, when would you draw the line? Would you let her go to the movies with him every weekend? Would going out to have a drink with him be a problem? What about going on a vacation alone?
SpootyHead

A one time thing. Really. After that first time, unless she stops hanging out with him, she better introduce him to you, and know that alone time, 1 on 1 hanging out with him is not in her best interest if she wants to keep you. Otherwise, she;s going to cheat regardless. She is her own person after all. Question is... why would she cheat on you mr. perfect?

Maybe my post came off wrong. I just think it's disrespectful for her to ask, especially considering that this other guy likes her.

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#48 Curlyfrii87

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Alone - no Group - yesNevlim

Agreed.

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[QUOTE="SpootyHead"][QUOTE="ownage_denied"]
I can't believe so many guys in this thread are saying let her go. It has nothing to do with jealousy, it is about respect. Your girlfriend should respect you enough to not even ask to go to the movies with a guy that likes her.
To all you guys saying let her go, when would you draw the line? Would you let her go to the movies with him every weekend? Would going out to have a drink with him be a problem? What about going on a vacation alone?
ownage_denied

A one time thing. Really. After that first time, unless she stops hanging out with him, she better introduce him to you, and know that alone time, 1 on 1 hanging out with him is not in her best interest if she wants to keep you. Otherwise, she;s going to cheat regardless. She is her own person after all. Question is... why would she cheat on you mr. perfect?

Maybe my post came off wrong. I just think it's disrespectful for her to ask, especially considering that this other guy likes her.

Oh. I gotcha. At least she asked isntead of going out without letting him know.

I have a lot of female friends, whether I am attracted to or not, a different story, that when they're not single, if I'm not good friends with their partner, I limit the hanging out 1 on 1 and make sure they ask their partners if it's cool. Preferably I at least met the person. This is so they don't have a crap ending, and the girl gets depressed and hates me along with her insecure bf.

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#50 MellowMight

Member since 2006 • 1651 Posts

Assuming that your girlfriend knows that this friend likes her, why would she want to go to the movies with him? Its doesnt make any sense for her to want to to that, or anymore sense for you to approve of that.

Id be kinda pissed if my girl ever came at me with some crap like that.

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