So, alone again :( (girl thread)

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#51 pianist
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well its not like I always got into her facebook, most of the things I saw them via the home tap update and then...well curiosity bites! kind of hard to not enter :/lightleggy

Discipline, my friend. Yes, curiosity is hard to ignore, but you'll just be making it more difficult to let it go if you keep looking at that stuff.

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#52 KidCudi37
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"] well its not like I always got into her facebook, most of the things I saw them via the home tap update and then...well curiosity bites! kind of hard to not enter :/pianist

Discipline, my friend. Yes, curiosity is hard to ignore, but you'll just be making it more difficult to let it go if you keep looking at that stuff.

This as well.

Here's some advice.....

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#53 Ninja-Hippo
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Don't you think you'd have more success if you stopped analysing things via facebook and MSN conversations and instead just asked her out when you felt there might be something there? :o You snooze you lose, y'know?
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#54 GazaAli
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Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

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#55 Truf89
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I'm sure you have another female in your life. Look towards them from now on. Spend time with them and get over this girl who is acting stupid. Most HS girls are like this. And when this band mate friend of hers leaves her she'd learn her lesson maybe.
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#56 lightleggy
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Xx_Hopeless_xX"]

Forget you ever knew her?..

Xx_Hopeless_xX
as if that were possible...not without extracting a portion of your neo cortex

It's possible...just don't think about her..and when you do think about how much she hurt you..and after all you did she goes for this random guy...and how fickle she is..

ehhh...nope, sorry, I dont hate her for what she did
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#57 lightleggy
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I'm sure you have another female in your life. Look towards them from now on. Spend time with them and get over this girl who is acting stupid. Most HS girls are like this. And when this band mate friend of hers leaves her she'd learn her lesson maybe.Truf89
perhaps you guys were not understanding... she didnt do anything wrong...I dont want her to burn in hell or something...if she was more into that guy and not me, then im fine with that im not some slave master who would have ordered her to love me, the only thing Im saying it that sucks cus im not in the place where that guy is...but its not like "OMG I HATE YOU I HOPE THAT YOU GET SMASHED BY A TRUCK ON YOUR WAY TO A DATE BECAUSE YOU DIDNT CHOOSE ME OVER HIM!!!" no not at all I dont wish the least harm to them
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#58 IWKYB
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Is anyone else a little creeped out that he is monitoring everything this girl is doing at all times with this guy?LZ71
Every breath you take...lol. Stalker song.
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#59 T_REX305
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[QUOTE="clyde46"]

Plenty more fish in the sea dude.

Desulated

This.

Not to mention high school relationships always fail in the end anyways.

thats true. i have been in many fail relationships.

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#70 kidsmelly
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Well you had 7 months to make a move. You live you learn move on to bigger and better things.

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#80 Hexagon_777
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Is anyone else a little creeped out that he is monitoring everything this girl is doing at all times with this guy?LZ71
It's Facebook. Get used to it. They probably didn't adjust their privacy settings or didn't care.

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#84 pianist
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Alright, enough's enough. Any further attempts to de-rail this thread will be met with suspensions. You will not be warned again. Get back on topic.

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#85 Hexagon_777
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It's not the end of the world, after all you may realize that the person that likes you has been right nextto you the whole time. Just keep searching!Hellfire-1
I wish that were true. I move around a lot, though. :(

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#87 Laser_Hunter
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Alright, enough's enough. Any further attempts to de-rail this thread will be met with suspensions. You will not be warned again. Get back on topic.

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ok sorry sir, truly sorry mister, please don't hurt me :( on topic, no i've never really felt like i've missed my oppurtunity for anything because i usually just try for what i want.... this could be games, girls, school, sports, etc...
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#88 GrandJury
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Just find another woman. These girl threads usually end with that. I am just lucky that I have my beautiful girl friend. I can't imagine 7 months of just wondering, sounds so painful. I love my girl to death and we are very happy. I hope you do find a great relationship because once you do, oh man it is great. Like me and the others have said, plenty of other fish in the sea and you should just move on.

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#89 starwarsjunky
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you had 7 months. sorry OP, but you shouldve made a move.
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#90 Texas2089
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I know how you feel. I waited way too long with this girl before, and the sad thing is that I know she liked me I just couldn't pull the trigger. She got a boyfriend soon after and the friendship quickly dissolved. Only thing I can say is put it behind you and move on. No sense wasting your time on a girl you're probably never going to get.
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#91 Dylan_11
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Alright, enough's enough. Any further attempts to de-rail this thread will be met with suspensions. You will not be warned again. Get back on topic.

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Sounds like this girl never had real interest in you past friendship. Though you can mourn a missed opportunity to be with her she was never yours in the first place. Best find a girl that wants you as much as you want her.

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#92 pianist
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[QUOTE="pianist"]

Alright, enough's enough. Any further attempts to de-rail this thread will be met with suspensions. You will not be warned again. Get back on topic.

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100% on topic:

Sounds like this girl never had real interest in you past friendship. Though you can mourn a missed opportunity to be with her she was never yours in the first place. Best find a girl that wants you as much as you want her.

:lol:

You like to live dangerously, I see. Good thing I have a sense of humor. But no more. Keep it on topic.

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#93 lightleggy
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you had 7 months. sorry OP, but you shouldve made a move.starwarsjunky
I did made a move, at around 5 months or 4 I told her that I loved her then she said that she was sorry but that she liked another guy, and then she said "but dont stop talking to me just because of this...if something ever happens between us then I will happily accept it, lets just keep as friends for now" and I agreed, for the next months I stopped every flirting attempt and just kept on as a friend, trying to find another girl but she still liked me (come on we all know that you cant stop liking someone instantly) so I always kept that "perhaps someday..." hope with me, but when she told me about that guy, bah I knew she was not the one
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#94 Laser_Hunter
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[QUOTE="starwarsjunky"]you had 7 months. sorry OP, but you shouldve made a move.lightleggy
I did made a move, at around 5 months or 4 I told her that I loved her then she said that she was sorry but that she liked another guy, and then she said "but dont stop talking to me just because of this...if something ever happens between us then I will happily accept it, lets just keep as friends for now" and I agreed, for the next months I stopped every flirting attempt and just kept on as a friend, trying to find another girl but she still liked me (come on we all know that you cant stop liking someone instantly) so I always kept that "perhaps someday..." hope with me, but when she told me about that guy, bah I knew she was not the one

if she still liked you, she wouldn't have rejected you.
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#95 Texas2089
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[QUOTE="starwarsjunky"]you had 7 months. sorry OP, but you shouldve made a move.lightleggy
I did made a move, at around 5 months or 4 I told her that I loved her then she said that she was sorry but that she liked another guy, and then she said "but dont stop talking to me just because of this...if something ever happens between us then I will happily accept it, lets just keep as friends for now" and I agreed, for the next months I stopped every flirting attempt and just kept on as a friend, trying to find another girl but she still liked me (come on we all know that you cant stop liking someone instantly) so I always kept that "perhaps someday..." hope with me, but when she told me about that guy, bah I knew she was not the one

Ok so if you know she's not the one, then you need to start looking for another girl. Maybe now that you've come to terms with that it'll be easier.
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#96 Dylan_11
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:lol:

You like to live dangerously, I see. Good thing I have a sense of humor. But no more. Keep it on topic.

pianist

I rolled the dice on that one that's for sure :P Any specific reason we can't have our jolly good fun in this thread anymore? Did I miss a post that took it too far?

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#97 Tigerman950
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It's high school. They'll probably break up tomorrow despite saying "I LOVE YOU" five minutes ago.

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#98 lightleggy
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It's high school. They'll probably break up tomorrow despite saying "I LOVE YOU" five minutes ago.

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wow are high school relationships THAT bad in the US? cus where I live they usually last...1 year minimum
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#99 lightleggy
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="starwarsjunky"]you had 7 months. sorry OP, but you shouldve made a move.Laser_Hunter
I did made a move, at around 5 months or 4 I told her that I loved her then she said that she was sorry but that she liked another guy, and then she said "but dont stop talking to me just because of this...if something ever happens between us then I will happily accept it, lets just keep as friends for now" and I agreed, for the next months I stopped every flirting attempt and just kept on as a friend, trying to find another girl but she still liked me (come on we all know that you cant stop liking someone instantly) so I always kept that "perhaps someday..." hope with me, but when she told me about that guy, bah I knew she was not the one

if she still liked you, she wouldn't have rejected you.

never said that SHE was feeling something for me even though she rejected me. I said that I was still feeling something for her, which is the most usual thing as you dont forget someone you loved/infatuated in a brief period
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#100 GrandJury
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[QUOTE="lightleggy"][QUOTE="Laser_Hunter"][QUOTE="lightleggy"] I did made a move, at around 5 months or 4 I told her that I loved her then she said that she was sorry but that she liked another guy, and then she said "but dont stop talking to me just because of this...if something ever happens between us then I will happily accept it, lets just keep as friends for now" and I agreed, for the next months I stopped every flirting attempt and just kept on as a friend, trying to find another girl but she still liked me (come on we all know that you cant stop liking someone instantly) so I always kept that "perhaps someday..." hope with me, but when she told me about that guy, bah I knew she was not the one

if she still liked you, she wouldn't have rejected you.

never said that SHE was feeling something for me even though she rejected me. I said that I was still feeling something for her, which is the most usual thing as you dont forget someone you loved/infatuated in a brief period

Look kid, just do what we all said, just go and find someone else. Plenty of good woman out there who need some lovin.