My 4 year old son was recently diagnosed with ADHD. This was after numerous doctor visits and several diagnosis tests. However I can't tell you much beyond what you could read on Wikipedia. This was all less than a month ago. So we're still trying to find out of medication is the right path to take given how young he is.
From what I've read the standard medication isn't particularly addictive. But the human body tends to build up an immunity to it extremly fast. Which has the same outcome I suppose.
On top of that ADHD is one of the most misdiagnosed afflictions, in children in particular. Which is also why medication should be a last resort. Their are doctors and professional consolers that can help someone with ADHD learn how to minimize the problems it tends to cause without the use of medication.
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I do know that medication helped me during school quite a bit. Though in the end it's best that your son learns to live without it. I know when I was in about 8th grade I stopped taking my medication because I did not like the effects that it had on me, I had been on it since 4th grade. While I still have ADHD I learned to live with it and I've never once blamed it for any of my shortcomings in my academic career.
People who use ADHD as an excuse really don't have ADHD, especially when they are my age (I'm 22). They would have learned how to deal with it by then.
I think the best advice I can give you is to make sure you teach your son exactly what ADHD means. If he knows exactly what it does, as he grows older he will learn to adapt better as he will find ways of coping without any medication.
ADHD also means an extremely active mind usually meaning a higher IQ and much more capability for high intelligence. It's not all a curse. The hardest part with ADHD isn't learning, it's staying focused on doing the work required to get through grade school. Now I'm on my last year of earning my degree in Software Engineering, and the hardest part hasn't been the learning, it's just been the dedication to the work and fighting the distractions. That's the most difficult part of having ADHD. All of us learn to deal with it differently. I'm sure with better guidance I could have learned more effective methods of dealing with my ADHD, but I got by just fine.
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