So I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating On Me

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#1 TheJackalOfDoom
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Yesterday I caught my girlfriend kissing another guy in the park. I'm seriously pissed. She didn't see me and I'm wondering what to do for the best. Should I call her, tell her that I saw her, and break up with her, or am I just overreacting? Does she deserve another chance?
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#2 akira2465
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Move along, it's not worth it

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#3 akira2465
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Why didn't you run up to the guy and knock him out?

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#4 NintendoNite
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dude that sucks. just break up with her. she a ho
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#5 SideSwipes
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Tell her it's over. That's my opinion.

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#6 CleanPlayer
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Embarass her and breakup with her at work/public
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#7 hedden93
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That sucks man :(

You should do something as epic as this for revenge

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#8 PiscesChick93
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Have a talk, see if there are problems in your relationship and agree to get them sorted - hopefully it was just a kiss. I'm sorry it happened to you, though.

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#9 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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Ask her to marry you than break up with her before she says anything then slap a ho
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#10 TheJackalOfDoom
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Why didn't you run up to the guy and knock him out?

akira2465
Oh, I wanted to. It was a busy park though. Wasn't worth getting arrested.
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#11 TheJackalOfDoom
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Have a talk, see if there are problems in your relationship and agree to get them sorted - hopefully it was just a kiss. I'm sorry it happened to you, though.

PiscesChick93
It wasn't just a peck on the cheek though.
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#12 J-WOW
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I would of killed them both right then and there.
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#14 scarecrowM
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sucks bro I would talk to her first and see if it's worth fixing the relationship.

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#15 Pirate700
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Why didn't you run up to the guy and knock him out?

akira2465

Why would he attack the dude? He's not doing anything wrong. :|

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#16 CrystalFox
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Ask her to marry you than break up with her before she says anything then slap a *** XD4NTESINF3RNOX

This is the only logical answer.

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#17 New_Messege
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...are you 100% sure? I know what to do! Kiss a guy infront of her...see what happens after that.

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#18 cybrcatter
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That sucks man :(

You should do something as epic as this for revenge

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:lol:
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#19 scarecrowM
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...are you 100% sure? I know what to do! Kiss a guy infront of her...see what happens after that.

New_Messege

:P

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#20 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="akira2465"]

Why didn't you run up to the guy and knock him out?

TheJackalOfDoom

Oh, I wanted to. It was a busy park though. Wasn't worth getting arrested.

Again, why would you be mad at the guy?

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#21 TheJackalOfDoom
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"][QUOTE="akira2465"]

Why didn't you run up to the guy and knock him out?

Pirate700

Oh, I wanted to. It was a busy park though. Wasn't worth getting arrested.

Again, why would you be mad at the guy?

He's kissing my goddamn woman!!
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#22 Warship_19
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Just forget her your not the only guy this has happened too. Their are plenty of other chicks out there.

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#23 chaplainDMK
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23 posts and asking for girl advice on Gamespot forums...

I never noticed this turned to Lovespot...

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#24 XD4NTESINF3RNOX
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That sucks man :(

You should do something as epic as this for revenge

hedden93
:lol: that was epic!
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#25 aerial6790
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Even if you get things sorted out in the relationship that moment will always be stuck in your mind forever.haunting you.following you around.making you paranoid...but hey things happen.
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#26 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"] Oh, I wanted to. It was a busy park though. Wasn't worth getting arrested.TheJackalOfDoom

Again, why would you be mad at the guy?

He's kissing my goddamn woman!!

First off, she's not your woman. You aren't married. Second, how the hell is he supposed to know she's dating someone? Your GF is the only one to be mad at.

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#27 bigblunt537
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"] Oh, I wanted to. It was a busy park though. Wasn't worth getting arrested.TheJackalOfDoom

Again, why would you be mad at the guy?

He's kissing my goddamn woman!!

He wouldn't be kissing "your" woman if she didn't let him. Leave the broad. I know it must hurt, but there is nothing for you to work out. I would've confronted her and broke up with her on the spot so the guy could see the type of whore he's kissing. I'd also make a comment like "So how do my kids taste?" Then say it's over then leave.

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#28 TheJackalOfDoom
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23 posts and asking for girl advice on Gamespot forums...

I never noticed this turned to Lovespot...

chaplainDMK
Yeah it's sad. But I'm seriously angry and I don't know if I'll make the right decision in my anger.
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#29 gubrushadow
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game over.
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#30 TheJackalOfDoom
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]Again, why would you be mad at the guy?

Pirate700

He's kissing my goddamn woman!!

First off, she's not your woman. You aren't married. Second, how the hell is he supposed to know she's dating someone? Your GF is the only one to be mad at.

I suppose it's not the guys fault...
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#31 clayron
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am I just overreacting?TheJackalOfDoom
Are you serious? Overreacting? You have every right to be pissed. And if she is doing it in public she is in a relationship. Its not an fly-by-wire affair.
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#32 ALTAIR360
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Why didn't you run up to the guy and knock him out?

akira2465
why knock the guy??
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#34 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"] He's kissing my goddamn woman!!TheJackalOfDoom

First off, she's not your woman. You aren't married. Second, how the hell is he supposed to know she's dating someone? Your GF is the only one to be mad at.

I suppose it's not the guys fault...

Of course it's not.

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#35 MRblue45
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Depends who the guy is. If he knows that they're going out then you knock him out.

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#36 CleanPlayer
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In all seriousness, you should break up with her. If you do want closure, just expose her for what she really is...a skank
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#37 Lyphe2k
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I'd give her the chance to come clean first. Just go like "So hey I was at the park yesterday. I saw something interesting. Anything you want to tell me?"
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#38 bigblunt537
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"]am I just overreacting?clayron
Are you serious? Overreacting? You have every right to be pissed. And if she is doing it in public she is in a relationship. Its not an fly-by-wire affair.

If anything he's underreacting. As I said that's what I would've done and that's a pretty "moderate" thing to do. Other guys would've ****ed the other guy up for nor eason or at least tried to.

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#39 SideSwipes
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]Again, why would you be mad at the guy?

bigblunt537

He's kissing my goddamn woman!!

He wouldn't be kissing "your" woman if she didn't let him. Leave the broad. I know it must hurt, but there is nothing for you to work out. I would've confronted her and broke up with her on the spot so the guy could see the type of whore he's kissing. I'd also make a comment like "So how do my kids taste?" Then say it's over then leave.

How do my kids taste. :lol:

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#40 scarecrowM
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I agree with Pirate, but my anger would of pushed me into fighting. (after seeing my gf kiss someone else)

Just how i am...sadly.

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#41 XilePrincess
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Overreacting? Cheating is cheating. If she kissed another guy, there's a pretty good chance she'll do that again, or more. Call her, explain to her what you saw, and tell her you're not putting up with that crap. Cheaters don't deserve another chance.
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#42 KlepticGrooves
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"] He's kissing my goddamn woman!!TheJackalOfDoom

First off, she's not your woman. You aren't married. Second, how the hell is he supposed to know she's dating someone? Your GF is the only one to be mad at.

I suppose it's not the guys fault...

Yup, the guy probably thought she was available or else she wouldn't have kissed him. It's not the guy's fault some girl kissed him. If I were you I'd just end the relationship.

She obviously didn't think your relationship was anything important so it's not worth the effort arguing over it.

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#43 KidCudi37
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Embarass her and breakup with her at work/publicCleanPlayer
This. Go out with a bang.:x
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Tell her that A Pimp Named Slickback is about to set her straight...MUAHAHHAHA!!!11

lol

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#45 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]First off, she's not your woman. You aren't married. Second, how the hell is he supposed to know she's dating someone? Your GF is the only one to be mad at.

KlepticGrooves

I suppose it's not the guys fault...

Yup, the guy probably thought she was available or else she wouldn't have kissed him. It's not the guy's fault some girl kissed him. If I were you I'd just end the relationship.

She obviously didn't think your relationship was anything important so it's not worth the effort arguing over it.

And for all the TC knows, they were together before she was with him (the tc).

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#46 TheJackalOfDoom
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[QUOTE="KlepticGrooves"]

[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"] I suppose it's not the guys fault...Pirate700

Yup, the guy probably thought she was available or else she wouldn't have kissed him. It's not the guy's fault some girl kissed him. If I were you I'd just end the relationship.

She obviously didn't think your relationship was anything important so it's not worth the effort arguing over it.

And for all the TC knows, they were together before she was with him (the tc).

Oh god, no. Just no. Holy **** why did you have to say that? D=
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Ask her to marry you than break up with her before she says anything then slap a ho XD4NTESINF3RNOX
Best option here.
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#48 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="KlepticGrooves"]

Yup, the guy probably thought she was available or else she wouldn't have kissed him. It's not the guy's fault some girl kissed him. If I were you I'd just end the relationship.

She obviously didn't think your relationship was anything important so it's not worth the effort arguing over it.

TheJackalOfDoom

And for all the TC knows, they were together before she was with him (the tc).

Oh god, no. Just no. Holy **** why did you have to say that? D=

You see my point? The only person you should be mad at is the on cheating on you. The girl. The guy has done nothing wrong.

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#49 Chojuto
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I think you should break up with her.
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#50 KlepticGrooves
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="KlepticGrooves"]

Yup, the guy probably thought she was available or else she wouldn't have kissed him. It's not the guy's fault some girl kissed him. If I were you I'd just end the relationship.

She obviously didn't think your relationship was anything important so it's not worth the effort arguing over it.

TheJackalOfDoom

And for all the TC knows, they were together before she was with him (the tc).

Oh god, no. Just no. Holy **** why did you have to say that? D=

He's got a point though. You never know. She seems to be that type of woman.