So I Caught My Girlfriend Cheating On Me

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#51 muthsera666
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I'm glad I'm not the only one who doesn't approve of taking out on the guy just because he's the guy. Take it out on the one who's cheating.
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#52 TheJackalOfDoom
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]And for all the TC knows, they were together before she was with him (the tc).

KlepticGrooves

Oh god, no. Just no. Holy **** why did you have to say that? D=

He's got a point though. You never know. She seems to be that type of woman.

She is not that type of woman. She's really sweet. This is the last thing I would have expected from her.
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#54 Pirate700
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[QUOTE="KlepticGrooves"]

[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"] Oh god, no. Just no. Holy **** why did you have to say that? D=TheJackalOfDoom

He's got a point though. You never know. She seems to be that type of woman.

She is not that type of woman. She's really sweet. This is the last thing I would have expected from her.

I guess we're all misreading your original post then. :roll:

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#55 TheJackalOfDoom
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"][QUOTE="KlepticGrooves"]

He's got a point though. You never know. She seems to be that type of woman.

Pirate700

She is not that type of woman. She's really sweet. This is the last thing I would have expected from her.

I guess we're all misreading your original post then. :roll:

This sucks. D=
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#56 nocoolnamejim
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Talk with her. Listen to what she has to say. Consider whether or not you can trust her again, and whether or not your relationship is worth another shot. Then make a decision. Any advise other than that which you receive on here is entirely irrelevant. None of us know you, your girlfriend or the details behind your relationship. Any advice that doesn't contain the words, "Go talk with her" featured very prominently is probably pretty useless in my humble opinion.
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#57 bigblunt537
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[QUOTE="Pirate700"]

[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"] She is not that type of woman. She's really sweet. This is the last thing I would have expected from her.TheJackalOfDoom

I guess we're all misreading your original post then. :roll:

This sucks. D=

Have you spoken to her since?

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#58 TheJackalOfDoom
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"][QUOTE="Pirate700"]I guess we're all misreading your original post then. :roll:

bigblunt537

This sucks. D=

Have you spoken to her since?

I have not. I'm probably gonna phone her later...
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#59 Papitar
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Marry her, plan a big wedding, then bail.

Nah, seriously though, just leave her.

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#60 scarecrowM
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Its a hard road dude, I have been down it as well.

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#61 0Tyler0
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That sucks man :(

You should do something as epic as this for revenge

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Oh man that's hilarious I'm gonna watch that movie now
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#62 bigblunt537
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[QUOTE="bigblunt537"]

[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"] This sucks. D=TheJackalOfDoom

Have you spoken to her since?

I have not. I'm probably gonna phone her later...

Try to see if she tells you what happened first. If she doesn't then it's you JOB to dead that **** right then and there. If she does and she tells you she ****ed up and blah blah blah then I say hear her out and maybe see if you forgiving her is possible. Personally I've been cheated on and forgiven the person to just be cheated on again, but not everyone is the same so she might be different, but I'd never forgive another woman for cheating ever again.

Also this might make me sound mean, but if you 2 are already having sex you should definitely hit it once last time then leave her and NEVER speak to her again. It will hurt her more emotionally then arguing with her.

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#63 metroidprime55
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Go yell at her with a speech of mean words that you typed up with great consideration and thought about your consernces about this shocking twist in the soap opara of your life.

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#64 gubrushadow
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the TC is the most stupid person in human's life if he stayed with her .
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#65 ubpoker123
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Bummer. :( Buy a cheap ring that looks real. Find her when she's at it with the guy, cry, throw the ring on the ground, and run away. Prepare for the biggest guilt trip she's ever had.dreDREb13

This guys got the right idea.

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#66 hockey73
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If it were me, I'd break up with her, because if she wanted to stay I would never be able to trust her.
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#67 Cheesehead9099
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Act like it never happened. And then, randomly, in a public place, turn to her and scream "SCREW YOU STUPID WHORE!! I BANISH YOU" and then run away laughing like a maniac.

She'll never know what hit her.

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#68 flowersjf
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Dang dude that sucks

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#69 deactivated-6127ced9bcba0
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Just break up with her. Let her know you caught her and move along.

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#70 coolbeans90
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Just break up with her. Let her know you caught her and move along.

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Seconded.

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#71 Mercenary848
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Tell her you done, tell her you caught her, don't even bother asking for details.

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#72 TheJackalOfDoom
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I called her. Here's how the conversation went. Her: Oh hey, what's up? Me: Oh not much....I saw you kissing another guy yesterday and I'm just letting you know it's over. Her: *Huge silence which seems to last forever* I-I...NO I did ****ing not!! You don't understand. YOU ARE TOTALLY-- *Hung up* So yeah. >_>' EDIT: I hung up not her...
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#73 Mercenary848
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Why didn't you run up to the guy and knock him out?

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cant always blame the other guy, for all we know the guy she was fooling around with thought that she was single.

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#74 Mythomniac
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Sounds like you don't have any balls since you came to a forum to ask an a question that has an obvious answer: You should have confronted them there, and since you didn't, you should have immediately called her and dumped her.
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#75 SideSwipes
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I called her. Here's how the conversation went. Her: Oh hey, what's up? Me: Oh not much....I saw you kissing another guy yesterday and I'm just letting you know it's over. Her: *Huge silence which seems to last forever* I-I...NO I did ****ing not!! You don't understand. YOU ARE TOTALLY-- *Hung up* So yeah. >_>' EDIT: I hung up not her...TheJackalOfDoom

Bad-assed. 8)

Now you can move on and find a beautiful super-model to marry.

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I called her. Here's how the conversation went. Her: Oh hey, what's up? Me: Oh not much....I saw you kissing another guy yesterday and I'm just letting you know it's over. Her: *Huge silence which seems to last forever* I-I...NO I did ****ing not!! You don't understand. YOU ARE TOTALLY-- *Hung up* So yeah. >_>' EDIT: I hung up not her...TheJackalOfDoom

gj dude, she was going to just fill you with BS on how she was giving him mouth to mouth since he was choking, but no seriously good job!

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#77 bigblunt537
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"]I called her. Here's how the conversation went. Her: Oh hey, what's up? Me: Oh not much....I saw you kissing another guy yesterday and I'm just letting you know it's over. Her: *Huge silence which seems to last forever* I-I...NO I did ****ing not!! You don't understand. YOU ARE TOTALLY-- *Hung up* So yeah. >_>' EDIT: I hung up not her...scarecrowM

gj dude, she was going to just fill you with BS on how she was giving him mouth to mouth since he was choking, but no seriously good job!

Yeah good job I'm proud of you OT brother!

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#78 The_Weird_Guy
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Dump her quick before she dumps you.
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#79 needled24-7
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no she doesn't deserve another chance, what i want you to do is something nasty to her. like in that story that has gone around the internet where a guy's girlfriend is sick and he bakes her brownies and brings over the brownies to her house along with a video he made for her, and the video is him having sex with some other chick and "finishing" in the brownie mix that she is eating. yeah, do something like that.

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#80 EMOEVOLUTION
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why didn't you confront the other guy and pummel his face in? that's what I would have done. then I'd spit in her face and and walk away. she'd realize how much of a bad ass you are and instantly hate herself forever.
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#81 SideSwipes
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no she doesn't deserve another chance, what i want you to do is something nasty to her. like in that story that has gone around the internet where a guy's girlfriend is sick and he bakes her brownies and brings over the brownies to her house along with a video he made for her, and the video is him having sex with some other chick and "finishing" in the brownie mix that she is eating. yeah, do something like that.

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There are stories like that? :o

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#82 bigblunt537
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no she doesn't deserve another chance, what i want you to do is something nasty to her. like in that story that has gone around the internet where a guy's girlfriend is sick and he bakes her brownies and brings over the brownies to her house along with a video he made for her, and the video is him having sex with some other chick and "finishing" in the brownie mix that she is eating. yeah, do something like that.

needled24-7

A bit extreme? :? lol

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#83 IAMTHEJOKER88
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what if it was a long lost love and it was simply a last kiss...

anyway. nicely done. RESPECT [][][][] (that's meant to be a knuckle pound)

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#85 needled24-7
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why didn't you confront the other guy and pummel his face in? that's what I would have done. then I'd spit in her face and and walk away. she'd realize how much of a bad ass you are and instantly hate herself forever.EMOEVOLUTION
no, actually, i don't think you would do any of that. maybe the part where you walk away, but the punching and spitting, nope.

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#86 needled24-7
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[QUOTE="needled24-7"]

no she doesn't deserve another chance, what i want you to do is something nasty to her. like in that story that has gone around the internet where a guy's girlfriend is sick and he bakes her brownies and brings over the brownies to her house along with a video he made for her, and the video is him having sex with some other chick and "finishing" in the brownie mix that she is eating. yeah, do something like that.

SideSwipes

There are stories like that? :o

i don't think it's true, but if i remember correctly, it was one of those mypsace chain bulletin things. you know, the ones where girls complain about how douchebags don't treat them the right way.

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#87 DarthJohnova
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You can't say "don't blame the guy", they're both guilty...it takes two. Bring it up with her and see how she reacts, either way i'd dump her. No-one like that is worth it in all honesty.

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#88 bigblunt537
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what if it was a long lost love and it was simply a last kiss...

anyway. nicely done. RESPECT [][][][] (that's meant to be a knuckle pound)

IAMTHEJOKER88

My ex girl friend actually gave me a last kiss before we last saw each other while she was going out with someone else. I was destroyed and I'll never forgive some chick for cheating again. Me and her have started messing around and talking, but I can never forgive her or make her a serious partner if you know hat I mean.

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#89 needled24-7
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[QUOTE="IAMTHEJOKER88"]

what if it was a long lost love and it was simply a last kiss...

anyway. nicely done. RESPECT [][][][] (that's meant to be a knuckle pound)

bigblunt537

My ex girl friend actually gave me a last kiss before we last saw each other while she was going out with someone else. I was destroyed and I'll never forgive some chick for cheating again. Me and her have started messing around and talking, but I can never forgive her or make her a serious partner if you know hat I mean.

does she still have a boyfriend while you and her are messing around? that's kinda low if you know that she is with someone... but then again, if she's gonna cheat, she's gonna cheat, might as well be with you! :P

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[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"]why didn't you confront the other guy and pummel his face in? that's what I would have done. then I'd spit in her face and and walk away. she'd realize how much of a bad ass you are and instantly hate herself forever.needled24-7

no, actually, i don't think you would do any of that. maybe the part where you walk away, but the punching and spitting, nope.

Dont' care what you think. I've done it before.
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#91 clyde46
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Kick her to the curb TC. Got to keep yo pimp hand strong.

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you should have given her herpes or something....

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#93 IAMTHEJOKER88
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[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"]why didn't you confront the other guy and pummel his face in? that's what I would have done. then I'd spit in her face and and walk away. she'd realize how much of a bad ass you are and instantly hate herself forever.needled24-7

no, actually, i don't think you would do any of that. maybe the part where you walk away, but the punching and spitting, nope.

if anything, she'll take pity on the other guy and will see your act of savagry as some sort of justification for what she did.

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#94 needled24-7
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[QUOTE="needled24-7"]

[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"]why didn't you confront the other guy and pummel his face in? that's what I would have done. then I'd spit in her face and and walk away. she'd realize how much of a bad ass you are and instantly hate herself forever.EMOEVOLUTION

no, actually, i don't think you would do any of that. maybe the part where you walk away, but the punching and spitting, nope.

Dont' care what you think. I've done it before.

whatever you say. i don't believe you though.

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#95 EMOEVOLUTION
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[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]no, actually, i don't think you would do any of that. maybe the part where you walk away, but the punching and spitting, nope.

needled24-7

Dont' care what you think. I've done it before.

whatever you say. i don't believe you though.

You don't gotta, doesn't change the facts.
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#97 needled24-7
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[QUOTE="EMOEVOLUTION"][QUOTE="needled24-7"]whatever you say. i don't believe you though.

dreDREb13

You don't gotta, doesn't change the facts.

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#98 Pirate700
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You can't say "don't blame the guy", they're both guilty...it takes two. Bring it up with her and see how she reacts, either way i'd dump her. No-one like that is worth it in all honesty.

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No it takes one. The guy didn't do anything. The guy isn't cheating. The guy didn't make her do anything.

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#99 clyde46
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[QUOTE="TheJackalOfDoom"]I called her. Here's how the conversation went. Her: Oh hey, what's up? Me: Oh not much....I saw you kissing another guy yesterday and I'm just letting you know it's over. Her: *Huge silence which seems to last forever* I-I...NO I did ****ing not!! You don't understand. YOU ARE TOTALLY-- *Hung up* So yeah. >_>' EDIT: I hung up not her...

You sir have balls.
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#100 aequitas31
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Yesterday I caught my girlfriend kissing another guy in the park. I'm seriously pissed. She didn't see me and I'm wondering what to do for the best. Should I call her, tell her that I saw her, and break up with her, or am I just overreacting? Does she deserve another chance?TheJackalOfDoom

just dump her, and as your doing it tell her you have herpes