I didn't read but here is my advice
if she is hot ! keep her, go out with her, marry her, date her
if not
dump her, slap her, smack her, pull her hair because SHE LOVES The way it hurts, and Loves the way you lie
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Longer than you have. I was asking for mature responses from people willing to give one. Nothing else.Dude really? That text is way too long. And you are asking OT to give Mature responses? How long have you been on OT board?
Raiden004
[QUOTE="Loco_Live"]I could. I just really really like this girl. Can't help that.▲ Dude, you're only 17. Move on to the next girl. ▲
Immortalica
Nothing anyone does in life "matters." Don't bust on me because I said I was in highschool. That's where I am right now. This girl makes me happy, and I've run into a bump in the road and I'm posting about it. Now it's easier for me to deal with it because of the nice people of OT.dude you gotta preface this stuff and let people know its highschool drama.... i read way too much before i realized that.
heres my simple answer, its highschool... none of this matters.
markinthedark
the problem is you didnt say you were in highschool.... i had to read until you were talking about lunch period or something to figure that out. Since you were asking for mature responses i was assuming at least college level drama.
trust me when i say this stuff doesnt matter.
Its not like the old days where you would graduate highschool, get a well paying full time job, knock up your woman and buy a 3 bedroom house at the tender age of 18. The highschool sweethearts getting married days are over... have fun and enjoy being young, rack up as many STDs as you can.
everyone i know went through this drama in highschool, and everyone realized how pointless it all was once they got out of highschool. Dont worry about things that seem important now, because they arent.
Okay, so I actually read all of it ;)
It sounds like you two are in a bit of a confusing situation with mixed signals from a lack of communication, so I suggest you just tell her everything that you put here. Not through text or letter, but in person. Especially since you say it made you feel better simply typing it up. I imagine she's dieing to know how you're feeling as well. I wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly.
And if it doesn't work out, you did what you could. There's more fish in the sea, you're still young and all that jazz. You'll be fine, we've all been in a similar place :)
Suzy_Q_Kazoo
tell me about it we all have been
Nothing anyone does in life "matters." Don't bust on me because I said I was in highschool. That's where I am right now. This girl makes me happy, and I've run into a bump in the road and I'm posting about it. Now it's easier for me to deal with it because of the nice people of OT.[QUOTE="Immortalica"][QUOTE="Loco_Live"] I could. I just really really like this girl. Can't help that. [QUOTE="markinthedark"]
dude you gotta preface this stuff and let people know its highschool drama.... i read way too much before i realized that.
heres my simple answer, its highschool... none of this matters.
markinthedark
the problem is you didnt say you were in highschool.... i had to read until you were talking about lunch period or something to figure that out. Since you were asking for mature responses i was assuming at least college level drama.
trust me when i say this stuff doesnt matter.
Its not like the old days where you would graduate highschool, get a well paying full time job, knock up your woman and buy a 3 bedroom house at the tender age of 18. The highschool sweethearts getting married days are over... have fun and enjoy being young, rack up as many STDs as you can.
everyone i know went through this drama in highschool, and everyone realized how pointless it all was once they got out of highschool. Dont worry about things that seem important now, because they arent.
Okay dude. Don't tell me how to live. Sorry for not stating my level of education at the beginning. :roll:ok so i finally read all of that, it sounds like you should gather all your courage and at lunch-time or something, pull her apart from whoever she is with and really give her an honest talk about how you feel and tell her that you didn't mean to seem pissed off when you last saw her. Skip any text messages or online conversations because they won't be anything that really matters. What you need to do is just tell her how you feel, say that you're sorry for how you were and talk it all out. Another thing, don't overthink everything, you just need to lay it out really simply to her: how you feel, you're sorry and you want to make things work. You gotta post back and say how it goes
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