So I got a girl problem LONG READ (mature responses please)

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#51 Hydrolex
Member since 2007 • 1648 Posts

I didn't read but here is my advice

if she is hot ! keep her, go out with her, marry her, date her

if not

dump her, slap her, smack her, pull her hair because SHE LOVES The way it hurts, and Loves the way you lie

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#52 Raiden004
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Dude really? That text is way too long. And you are asking OT to give Mature responses? How long have you been on OT board?

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#53 Immortalica
Member since 2008 • 6309 Posts

Dude really? That text is way too long. And you are asking OT to give Mature responses? How long have you been on OT board?

Raiden004
Longer than you have. I was asking for mature responses from people willing to give one. Nothing else.
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#54 theonlyway316
Member since 2010 • 541 Posts

am just not reading allthat, dont think it will make me laugh any way.

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#55 markinthedark
Member since 2005 • 3676 Posts

[QUOTE="Loco_Live"]

▲ Dude, you're only 17. Move on to the next girl. ▲

Immortalica

I could. I just really really like this girl. Can't help that.

dude you gotta preface this stuff and let people know its highschool drama.... i read way too much before i realized that.

heres my simple answer, its highschool... none of this matters.

markinthedark

Nothing anyone does in life "matters." Don't bust on me because I said I was in highschool. That's where I am right now. This girl makes me happy, and I've run into a bump in the road and I'm posting about it. Now it's easier for me to deal with it because of the nice people of OT.

the problem is you didnt say you were in highschool.... i had to read until you were talking about lunch period or something to figure that out. Since you were asking for mature responses i was assuming at least college level drama.

trust me when i say this stuff doesnt matter.

Its not like the old days where you would graduate highschool, get a well paying full time job, knock up your woman and buy a 3 bedroom house at the tender age of 18. The highschool sweethearts getting married days are over... have fun and enjoy being young, rack up as many STDs as you can.

everyone i know went through this drama in highschool, and everyone realized how pointless it all was once they got out of highschool. Dont worry about things that seem important now, because they arent.

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#56 acsam12304
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Okay, so I actually read all of it ;)

It sounds like you two are in a bit of a confusing situation with mixed signals from a lack of communication, so I suggest you just tell her everything that you put here. Not through text or letter, but in person. Especially since you say it made you feel better simply typing it up. I imagine she's dieing to know how you're feeling as well. I wouldn't jump to conclusions so quickly.

And if it doesn't work out, you did what you could. There's more fish in the sea, you're still young and all that jazz. You'll be fine, we've all been in a similar place :)

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tell me about it we all have been

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#57 Immortalica
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[QUOTE="Immortalica"][QUOTE="Loco_Live"] I could. I just really really like this girl. Can't help that. [QUOTE="markinthedark"]

dude you gotta preface this stuff and let people know its highschool drama.... i read way too much before i realized that.

heres my simple answer, its highschool... none of this matters.

markinthedark

Nothing anyone does in life "matters." Don't bust on me because I said I was in highschool. That's where I am right now. This girl makes me happy, and I've run into a bump in the road and I'm posting about it. Now it's easier for me to deal with it because of the nice people of OT.

the problem is you didnt say you were in highschool.... i had to read until you were talking about lunch period or something to figure that out. Since you were asking for mature responses i was assuming at least college level drama.

trust me when i say this stuff doesnt matter.

Its not like the old days where you would graduate highschool, get a well paying full time job, knock up your woman and buy a 3 bedroom house at the tender age of 18. The highschool sweethearts getting married days are over... have fun and enjoy being young, rack up as many STDs as you can.

everyone i know went through this drama in highschool, and everyone realized how pointless it all was once they got out of highschool. Dont worry about things that seem important now, because they arent.

Okay dude. Don't tell me how to live. Sorry for not stating my level of education at the beginning. :roll:
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#58 LegendaryFox77
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Holy Schnikes!

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#59 yonaswii08
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Wow is she fine?? lol
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#60 Agent-Zero
Member since 2009 • 6198 Posts
Umm so you were kissing and holding hands...just ask her to be your girlfriend not that hard bro. And most of that **** you wrote is unnecessary to the story.
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#61 gamerkid600
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I didn't read it but what from other people are saying it sounds like your to clingy.

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#62 29121994
Member since 2008 • 1166 Posts

ok so i finally read all of that, it sounds like you should gather all your courage and at lunch-time or something, pull her apart from whoever she is with and really give her an honest talk about how you feel and tell her that you didn't mean to seem pissed off when you last saw her. Skip any text messages or online conversations because they won't be anything that really matters. What you need to do is just tell her how you feel, say that you're sorry for how you were and talk it all out. Another thing, don't overthink everything, you just need to lay it out really simply to her: how you feel, you're sorry and you want to make things work. You gotta post back and say how it goes

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#63 Tauruslink
Member since 2005 • 6586 Posts
tl;dr. Sorry.
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#64 chessmaster1989
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Just ask her out again (and tell her how you feel).
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#65 kayoticdreamz
Member since 2010 • 3347 Posts
for some UnGodly reason i read all that. i say ask her out in front of ppl if you have too who gives a crap. just do it. your only making your pain worse.
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#66 Kenny789
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Just relax and take your time, no need to rush. Don't think about her too much, like I said, it'll just get you worked up :P Try not to think too much about her male friends, if you've forgotten about what she did in the past then good but just be a little careful.
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#67 th3warr1or
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I actually read everything. :o