So... Just got friendzoned... what do I do now?

move on. and honesty id be greatful to be just friends with her.

my two cents anyway

Fap, fap like there's no tomorrow

Fap away the pain

Fap away everything

Stop saying "friendzoned" and move on.

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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"] I get what you mean but it's not like I'd start showing up unannounced... If anything I'd just keep texting her...jeremiah06

Why?

Continuing to try is called stalking. Let's avoid that okay?XilePrincess

Funny how thats "romantic" in the movies... but yeah, in real life it just doesnt work (althought I know one situation where a guy that kept trying ended up scoring and now shes more crazy about him then he's about her). So I think its possible

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="TacticaI"] I'd leave it alone. My friend just recently got turned down and when he tried to be a friend to her she thought he was a creep. Though he ended up with the last laugh in that situation (bizarre circumstances), the point is she said the same thing more or less just to be nice. If she's not completely and utterly through with you, she'll let you know, but don't count on it. Don't keep texting her. Hell, I might be in the same boat pretty soon, but then its on to the next one.

chaoscougar1

Why?

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[QUOTE="jeremiah06"] Yeah I've already deleted her number... If she texts me I'll probably say hi but thats it...jeremiah06

Why?

I think thats was a good choice. I did that with my ex and it helped alot. No contact rule does wonders

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"]

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"] Yeah I've already deleted her number... If she texts me I'll probably say hi but thats it...jeremiah06

Why?

She just told you no

No means no

So no, don't keep on trying

I'm pretty sure there's a way to get out of the friendzone and get her. I don't know about it though since I never been friendzoned. So my tip then is probably to move on.themajormayor

Hit on her friends. Hit on her mom. Hit her sister. Capitan_Kid

Go cold turkey on her and find someone else... also keep going to that barbers, it seems the haircut worked pretty wellmarkop2003

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"]

Why?

chaoscougar1

[QUOTE="chaoscougar1"]

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"] Yeah I've already deleted her number... If she texts me I'll probably say hi but thats it...jeremiah06

Why?

And Jeremiah! If she texts you, just let it go. If you keep any sort of connection with her at this particular moment, you'll be only hurting yourself by doing so. Let the feelings settle down, let the reality of things sink in good and then you'll reach a point where you're strong enough to finally be out of this funk. Don't say hi, don't keep it going unless you want to get your hopes up again and be in this constant emotional rollercoaster that's heading nowhere but downhill.

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="chaoscougar1"]

Why?

undergroundLPx

And Jeremiah! If she texts you, just let it go. If you keep any sort of connection with her at this particular moment, you'll be only hurting yourself by doing so. Let the feelings settle down, let the reality of things sink in good and then you'll reach a point where you're strong enough to finally be out of this funk. Don't say hi, don't keep it going unless you want to get your hopes up again and be in this constant emotional rollercoaster that's heading nowhere but downhill.

[QUOTE="undergroundLPx"]

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"] The general consensus was that I'd be a creep if I continue to contact her... So if I don't see her name in my contact list every time I open my phone I can move on easierjeremiah06

And Jeremiah! If she texts you, just let it go. If you keep any sort of connection with her at this particular moment, you'll be only hurting yourself by doing so. Let the feelings settle down, let the reality of things sink in good and then you'll reach a point where you're strong enough to finally be out of this funk. Don't say hi, don't keep it going unless you want to get your hopes up again and be in this constant emotional rollercoaster that's heading nowhere but downhill.

I know it's easier said than done and that it is extremely easy for me to recommend that you move on, but it is truly the what I believe to be the smartest option in this situation. I remember I went thru that back in my HS days and I wasn't so good at letting go and thru the years I learned it was best to accept things for what they were.

You start to question how good you truly are (inside and out), self esteem takes a hit, confidence gets shaky, it affects your approach when it comes to other girls in the future - but don't let it affect you. It is another isolated case, learn and keep walking. Enjoy the leftovers bro, I'm hungry as hell right now but don't get out till 12.

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="undergroundLPx"]

And Jeremiah! If she texts you, just let it go. If you keep any sort of connection with her at this particular moment, you'll be only hurting yourself by doing so. Let the feelings settle down, let the reality of things sink in good and then you'll reach a point where you're strong enough to finally be out of this funk. Don't say hi, don't keep it going unless you want to get your hopes up again and be in this constant emotional rollercoaster that's heading nowhere but downhill.

undergroundLPx

I know it's easier said than done and that it is extremely easy for me to recommend that you move on, but it is truly the what I believe to be the smartest option in this situation. I remember I went thru that back in my HS days and I wasn't so good at letting go and thru the years I learned it was best to accept things for what they were.

You start to question how good you truly are (inside and out), self esteem takes a hit, confidence gets shaky, it affects your approach when it comes to other girls in the future - but don't let it affect you. It is another isolated case, learn and keep walking. Enjoy the leftovers bro, I'm hungry as hell right now but don't get out till 12.

Move on. Life has bigger challenges in store.

If you really think she' s the "one" I say go for her just be ready to let go and move on if she still doesn' t show an interest for you.

Watch Victorious.

[QUOTE="jeremiah06"][QUOTE="undergroundLPx"]

And Jeremiah! If she texts you, just let it go. If you keep any sort of connection with her at this particular moment, you'll be only hurting yourself by doing so. Let the feelings settle down, let the reality of things sink in good and then you'll reach a point where you're strong enough to finally be out of this funk. Don't say hi, don't keep it going unless you want to get your hopes up again and be in this constant emotional rollercoaster that's heading nowhere but downhill.

undergroundLPx

I know it's easier said than done and that it is extremely easy for me to recommend that you move on, but it is truly the what I believe to be the smartest option in this situation. I remember I went thru that back in my HS days and I wasn't so good at letting go and thru the years I learned it was best to accept things for what they were.

You start to question how good you truly are (inside and out), self esteem takes a hit, confidence gets shaky, it affects your approach when it comes to other girls in the future - but don't let it affect you. It is another isolated case, learn and keep walking. Enjoy the leftovers bro, I'm hungry as hell right now but don't get out till 12.

Move on I think would be the best way. It's weird, I'm in a situation where the girl likes me, but doesn't want to be in a serious relationship (she's just out of one). Any ideas?aaronmullan

Maybe she wants to take things slow before getting into a relationship and sometimes girls just want company.

Move on I think would be the best way. It's weird, I'm in a situation where the girl likes me, but doesn't want to be in a serious relationship (she's just out of one). Any ideas?aaronmullan

Maybe she wants to take things slow before getting into a relationship and sometimes girls just want company.

Move on I think would be the best way. It's weird, I'm in a situation where the girl likes me, but doesn't want to be in a serious relationship (she's just out of one). Any ideas?aaronmullan

Edit: Sorry, I don't know what's wrong with GS but server keeps timing out or not responding...

Delete her number and try again with someone different.